Technically, yes, it is technically cheating. If it is truly cheating really depends on how you feel about what you do. If you feel guilty and remorseful, then it’s cheating. If you feel better then you have in a long time, in my eyes it’s cheating, but I would say that for most people it wouldn’t be. You should have a talk about the relationship though.
Yes If you think the relationship is dead, then communicate that to the other person and end it. What if that other person still loves you? Even if they don't, I'm sure they still trust you and breaking that will ruin or hinder all their relationships to come.
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Yes. My ex cheated on me during a time where I had hope that things between us would improve. My feelings were completely ignored in favor of him pursuing this new girl and then, without a shred of explanation, disappearing. It took me over a year just to stop feeling sick from the memory of that experience. Yes it is cheating and the only way to not cheat is to simply break it off with whatever person you are dating. If it’s going no where, end things. Don’t cheat!
Yes, relationship has to be over. Your only workaround is if you plan on breaking up with someone like extremely soon, but like you haven't done it yet. Even still, that's technically still cheating.
If your in a relationship and you have sex with someone who isn't the person you are in a relationship with it is cheating. If its dead break up with the person don't cheat and remain with the person that's just idiotic.
Yes yes and yes... Dont assume he "understood" .. Tell the old one before starting ANYTHING withe new one.. that you no longer want to be with him.. And then everything is " kosher"
Yea I told my ex that I was starting to like someone else which caused him to be upset and this was before we officially broke up I told him the truth and he told me his when we officially ended ofc in an effort to upset me somehow which I told him I want my next relationship to last so bye.
Hat off to you. My ex wife told me " I've kinda being seing someone officially for two weeks now, i thought , i hoped you would guess " ... But i trust m y partner i dont assume... So what u did , may have hurt.. Both u and hum.. But it had to happen. Otherwize ud be worthless and untrustworthy in the eyes of your new partner... Cuz what u did to your last partner MAY happen with the new one aswell... Thats why relationships built on a foundation of lies and cheating on someone , never. LAST past LUST.
If the relationship is dead, you should just be up front about it. That way, if you go out with other guys, it's not cheating. I mean cheating is lying and lying sucks. Better yet, move out.
Cheating is cheating if a relationship is dead then end it, don't put more hurt towards each other it will only make it end worse. Ps. Goes for both parties
Yeah, because you’re still committed to each other. The only time that commitment breaks is if you ghost each other or if you decide together that you’re breaking up.
If the relationship is dead why still be in it? As long as you are still together I would say it is cheating, though I'm sure neither care when it gets that far.
Yes, always end one before starting another. I am someone who tends to be extremely loyal, so I've never thought about cheating, but I have been cheated on before, even enough she told me voluntarily it still leaves a scar, even though I already knew the relationship was on its way out.
yes. if your thoughts lead to cheating, it's likely that the other person has characteristics that your current partner lacks. just don't be a dick and break up with your partner first before seeing other people.
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You're supposed to break up before you sleep with someone else. You might think the relationship is dead, but the other person might still have feelings and be hurt.
My experience did that to me and told me the day we ended things that he was dating someone else anyone and to go fuck my crush now boyfriend (i was honest that I started to lose feelings for him so I was like I wasted my time)
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In my experience it can be devastating when someone starts sleeping around while still in a relationship with me. I'm a loyal person and as long as we are still in a relationship why should she be allowed to cheat? She should be honest and break it off first. That way I can move on too. Otherwise she's just keeping me under her control until she finds someone better. Do you see how that could hurt someone? It is cheating. Break up first always.
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Technically, yes, it is technically cheating.
If it is truly cheating really depends on how you feel about what you do. If you feel guilty and remorseful, then it’s cheating. If you feel better then you have in a long time, in my eyes it’s cheating, but I would say that for most people it wouldn’t be.
You should have a talk about the relationship though.
Do you mind answering my question in my profile, please?:)
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If you think the relationship is dead, then communicate that to the other person and end it. What if that other person still loves you? Even if they don't, I'm sure they still trust you and breaking that will ruin or hinder all their relationships to come.
Yes. My ex cheated on me during a time where I had hope that things between us would improve. My feelings were completely ignored in favor of him pursuing this new girl and then, without a shred of explanation, disappearing. It took me over a year just to stop feeling sick from the memory of that experience. Yes it is cheating and the only way to not cheat is to simply break it off with whatever person you are dating. If it’s going no where, end things. Don’t cheat!
Yes, relationship has to be over.
Your only workaround is if you plan on breaking up with someone like extremely soon, but like you haven't done it yet. Even still, that's technically still cheating.
If your in a relationship and you have sex with someone who isn't the person you are in a relationship with it is cheating. If its dead break up with the person don't cheat and remain with the person that's just idiotic.
Yes yes and yes... Dont assume he "understood" .. Tell the old one before starting ANYTHING withe new one.. that you no longer want to be with him.. And then everything is " kosher"
Yea I told my ex that I was starting to like someone else which caused him to be upset and this was before we officially broke up I told him the truth and he told me his when we officially ended ofc in an effort to upset me somehow which I told him I want my next relationship to last so bye.
Hat off to you. My ex wife told me " I've kinda being seing someone officially for two weeks now, i thought , i hoped you would guess " ... But i trust m y partner i dont assume... So what u did , may have hurt.. Both u and hum.. But it had to happen.
Otherwize ud be worthless and untrustworthy in the eyes of your new partner... Cuz what u did to your last partner MAY happen with the new one aswell... Thats why relationships built on a foundation of lies and cheating on someone , never. LAST past LUST.
If the relationship is dead, you should just be up front about it. That way, if you go out with other guys, it's not cheating. I mean cheating is lying and lying sucks. Better yet, move out.
Cheating is cheating if a relationship is dead then end it, don't put more hurt towards each other it will only make it end worse. Ps. Goes for both parties
Yeah, because you’re still committed to each other. The only time that commitment breaks is if you ghost each other or if you decide together that you’re breaking up.
If the relationship is dead why still be in it? As long as you are still together I would say it is cheating, though I'm sure neither care when it gets that far.
Yes, always end one before starting another. I am someone who tends to be extremely loyal, so I've never thought about cheating, but I have been cheated on before, even enough she told me voluntarily it still leaves a scar, even though I already knew the relationship was on its way out.
yes. if your thoughts lead to cheating, it's likely that the other person has characteristics that your current partner lacks. just don't be a dick and break up with your partner first before seeing other people.
You're supposed to break up before you sleep with someone else.
You might think the relationship is dead, but the other person might still have feelings and be hurt.
My experience did that to me and told me the day we ended things that he was dating someone else anyone and to go fuck my crush now boyfriend (i was honest that I started to lose feelings for him so I was like I wasted my time)
In my experience it can be devastating when someone starts sleeping around while still in a relationship with me.
I'm a loyal person and as long as we are still in a relationship why should she be allowed to cheat?
She should be honest and break it off first.
That way I can move on too.
Otherwise she's just keeping me under her control until she finds someone better.
Do you see how that could hurt someone?
It is cheating.
Break up first always.
I do and I have cheated once and told the guy I was "dating" but my last relationship had the worst ending possible
If neither person has ended the relationship... then yes it's cheating!
So if one or both of you aren't happy then it's a wise idea to walk away.
Yes, as long as you're in a relationship (good or bad), it's still cheating. Until you end it, then you're free to date whoever you want to.
Well if it’s to such a point of decomposition then wouldn’t the most intelligent choice be to end it totally. What’s the use in dragging dead weight?
define dead... if in process of divorce I'd say no because that takes too long sometimes. if just separated, then it's cheating.
I mean yeah if it's dead just break up with him/her if you don't want to be together cheating is cheating there isn't a excuse for it
Tell that to my ex
He seems like a cunt I'm sorry
Ik he is and don't be sorry I've been over him for months now and am happy in my current relationship
A relationship is dead only when two people are both aware of a breakup. If you just feel like the spark is not there anymore - it is still cheating.
Yes..
If it's already dead, end the relationship. After breakup you can sleep with whoever you want.