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I'm kinda guilty of doing so emotionally but he was just my friend at the time and I explained my that and he got mad and defensive about it (he was dating his "female friend") I was mad when I found out but I at the same time I knew we were coming to an end but didn't know how to end it or if he felt that way
Not reallY. If the guy has Put in all his efforts to save but it's not working.!
@darshan185 yea so break it off.
The girl Should do it because she's at fault.!
@darshan185 this was in a past relationship the guy left me hanging for 2 months before saying he was dating someone else but kept saying he lived me and that I was special.
Then it's a case of cheating. NO Point being in this kindoff relationship.Even if he doesn't break up you can take a stand and just end without even giving him reason.!!
What's the 3rd.
Oh no I'm asking this question because my experience cheated months ago and we were in a "dead" relationship at the time yet wouldn't let me go while I was trying to find a way out.
So u moved on because both of u came to an agreement? But he or she is still clingy?
Or they moved on during the great depression but keeps coming back for more?
He wouldn't let go while I did 2 months before that faithed day because I knew he wasn't for me
But either way, I mean if its come to an agreement, u have nothing to say. Nobody likes a two face. My ex called it done. I tried to win her back. But I did my best and dont have the patience anymore. Yet she talks mad shit about me and made a reputation for me at her community. Good lord I was surprised I was that famous. So shell find a lame excuse to accuse me and be mad at me. Blocks me. I'm like, ok like blocking me on phone and facebook really hurts me. Lol. I'm not 12 anymore. If u say it is, then it is. After all, she claimed she ain't bitch crawling back to her masters house, which I never said anything like that to her. But she can't go more than 6 days at tops without calling me. But i gave up hoping. Either they in or they out. It becomes a bad habit. So just ask them 1 simple question and tell them to answer it honestly whole heartily. If they need to sleep on it, let them. "Are you in? Or you out? U done? Or u want more pie? Cuz once you make a choice u gotta live with it whether u can or can't." And if they giving you excuses saying what ifs. Throw in the most unanswerable question. "Can rivers run backwards? No Can it dry up? Yes. Can it reproduce waters again? Yes. Is it the same water? No" there u go. Rivers dont go back. Neither should u. Even if it does run back miraculously, can it dry up? Yes same with feelings. Can it come back? Yes but its not the same feelings anymore. Once a person been lied to and manipulated by an individual, that individual can't be trusted no more no matter how different they may be I. 30 years time.
Yes but there's factually are rivers that flows "backwards" or south to North
Of course. Which is why its arguable to say that old habits die hard. Lol. My ex that I had mentioned giving me the cold shoulder and all that. I'm cool with it. I mean, at least I got an answer so I know which way to go. But shell have me over once in a while to bring her to Heaven. I dunno why but lately she's been responding to older men who seems more mature only to find out theyve had 6 marriages and guys who talks like they just came out of the nut house cuz dude talks like he got a pound of dip in his mouth. Or like a pound of water. So, I dunno. She say its over but rivers do run back if the stars align. Lol I guess I can only imagine the kid doesn't have a tongue and the old man doesn't know how to eat sushi and had ED. there's a reason I got the nickname rayjinazn (raging asian)
Yea so it sound like he still wants u.
There's only 1 way to kill off rodents who keep on hanging around after using a gazillion methods. I mean, I was clingy too once but like I said all I need is one solid answer. But for some, you need more than words. Sorry this method is out of bounds. Only cuz I had to literally get my hands dirty and get caught red handed. But you do it if u have to. Once upon a time in orange county, ca I made a sex tape. Initially I was to finish and make an anonymous email to send to her. But I didn't get to finish the recording or finish my load and she showed up on my deck while my bootycall was bent over on the dinner table in the dining room. I was hoping more of a sad ending but no she went ballistic and used every godamn curse word in the book neighbors call police fearing for my safety. Lol more or less I never heard from her again after her last phone call.
yea well my current boyfriend would probably pick a fight if my ex came back (I doubt he will tho since he just completely stopped caring. it's funny because my current boyfriend liked me days after talking to me and waited patiently for me to sort stuff out with my ex but my ex couldn't even try to work shit out and obviously had some guilt because he didn't end the relationship when he started his new one. According to him my family was being difficult and I was being a stuck up bitch.
Yea. there's a lot of miscommunication in shit like this. Well if he fucked up, and he's got no logical explanation. Bye felicia! Either way for future references and maybe you could give it a try with a few untrustworthy people in your life, do a little reverse psychology. You'll be amazed how quick their answers become different and irrelevant. Point is if he's slow witted, sure give him tomorrow to explain. Even a genius needs more than 24 hours to come up with an alibi. But, if he ain't, and it's the truth, he wouldn't hesitate to speak. But the doubts shouldn't end there. 1. Kindly ask about the subject vaguely. 2. If a specific something catches your interest, ask for very specific details about it but leave out anything that encounters is ex. Went running. Specifics: with black nike shox 11. Size 9. Lol its pretty anal but the next part will make them off track. 3. Where? With who? Conversations? 4. Specifics on activities happening during running or down time like water breaks or taking piss. 5. When? How long? And then depending on the issue at hand, knowing their routines or just looking at their behavior on how they're moving, their eyes darting. Not making eye contact studder or pretending go forget uncertain word or stalling, you can ask "really? That's not what he said/she said". If they're surprised and get all defensive, it's usually the truth or some parts of it. If they're pretty calm about you pretending to know about it, that's straight up a no go. if there's more to the story, well, repeat steps 1-4. Usually works on people who are dishonest. Not one person, good or bad had ever been able to keep anything from me. Even though I never made it to become a cop, those psychology classes kinda paid off a little. Tells you who's your family and who's your frenemy. Lol. Years later I was able to distinguish trustees and untrustees without them knowing. But what I told u is merely a glimpse of what the cops use.
And I guess he's right in a way about that. I mean, their version is then right one for them. But then again no body ever though of listening to your version huh? It usually how goes. In your situation. Your parents were being honest to God being what inlaws actually do. Lol. You being a stuck up bitch. Well. Aren't we all? Metaphorically yes. Were humans it's what we do sometimes. Being a stubborn pain in the ass. But literally, no. Cuz only actual bitches do you dirty, say they too good and take off, only to find then scratching on your door or blowing up your phone. Hence I got blocked Sunday night and just now got a text, "honey I miss you". For people like you and me who others like to make us famous for a irrelevant reason. Let them. They got a mouth let them talk. It's not like we got a throne to defend. Lol eventually all the BS people hear will disappear because sooner or later they'll begin to see your actions, go home and do homework. And then it'll all make sense
And tell ur boyfriend do not engage. Cuz that's exactly what the ex wants. He makes a move and dudes got leverage. Besides, this little charade ur ex is doing, its just between you and him. And as much as I wanna send my good friends Mr Noah and Miss Anna to handle transactions, I feel its your spot to take and make your statement clear and solid. That way you and ur boyfriend hands stay clean.
Do you mind answering my question in my profile, please?:)
Yea I agree. A lot of people might be thinking I cheated but I haven't I was referring to my ex and didn't want to pit him in a question
Me and my ex didn't talk or see each other for 2 whole months and when we did we argued and I tried to make it work just to find out he's dating his female friend behind my back (i didn't get mad) but I mention a guy friend who I'm starting to like and was willing to push those feelings aside and so was the guy to make my relationship work my guy friend wanted to help me make it work too (ex got mad and started being a dick any him calling ugly and saying he looks like pennywise when in reality my guy friend is more put together than my experience and my family actually likes him unlike my ex (my guy friend went from friend to boyfriend over the course of 2-3 months while all this happened.
First off I'm a girl and I'm not cheating on anyone. I was referring to my ex who started a relationship before we officially ended ours.
Apologies. My ex did the same thing... it’s quite shit huh? A year has passed now and I’m still getting over it.
yea but i was over him 2 months before we ended things.
Yea I told my ex that I was starting to like someone else which caused him to be upset and this was before we officially broke up I told him the truth and he told me his when we officially ended ofc in an effort to upset me somehow which I told him I want my next relationship to last so bye.
Hat off to you. My ex wife told me " I've kinda being seing someone officially for two weeks now, i thought , i hoped you would guess " ... But i trust m y partner i dont assume... So what u did , may have hurt.. Both u and hum.. But it had to happen.Otherwize ud be worthless and untrustworthy in the eyes of your new partner... Cuz what u did to your last partner MAY happen with the new one aswell... Thats why relationships built on a foundation of lies and cheating on someone , never. LAST past LUST.
I'm aware of this
Then why ask?
Bc my experience did that which I didn't understand
I've been there to
Tell that to my ex
He seems like a cunt I'm sorry
Ik he is and don't be sorry I've been over him for months now and am happy in my current relationship