My spouse definitely has a heart of gold... but that's not why we're together. Nor was I initially super attracted. We were best friends for a very long time, shared all our values, and really stimulate each other with our company. The other half likes to be perceived as cool and suave so I didn't initially know they were a softhearted dork!
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Johnnie remembered stuff about me that I did not even know he would ! he called me by my name and I had not seen him in months , plus he acts like he is really interested in me too ! so I am just waiting for him to make the next move ! Thanks
Looks are what attracted me initially to most if not all of my partners but their hearts and personality's are what made me stay.
Someone with a good heart who's kind, caring, loving and or affectionate is always something I look for in a partner.
Her heart - kindness and caring were 2 of the many things that made me fall in love with her , knowing that we can lean on each other if times got tough can be such a security as we all will need it some day :)
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lol EVERY woman is going to claim that their handsome man has a heart of gold and they psychically knew that on sight and THAT was what attracted them, not looks!!!
This covers it perfectly, let an ugly guy do the exact same thing that a handsome man does that they like so much and women, universally, will twist it to be a negative thing... take any negative trait and let a handsome guy display it and women, universally, will suddenly find it endearing.no. for a man its the appearance that is attractive. the heart only makes a difference AFTER that initial attraction. if there is no initial attraction heart can only SLIGHTLY make a difference. but then again, every guy is different so some are attracted to heavier women etc. . . I'd say most guys are the same tho.
We met on a dating site..
I thought he looked okay that's it. Wasn't completely convinced but thought let's just give it a shot. Anyway, we decided to call each other before meeting and it turned into a 5 hour phone call haha.
Now that I know him he became the most handsome and cutest person I know :) like forreal how can he be so cute ughInitially it´s about looks only, at least for me. Only after some time do you discover their true personality, and nobody is 100% good with no darker sides.
She has the purest heart really, very sweet, loving understanding and giving.
And yes I tend to emphasize on emotional connection prior to sexual connection.
So it was her personality that won me over.My partner really does have a heart of gold. I have no idea what I did to deserve him.
It was like that with one of my exes, who has been friends with me for 19 years after we broke up. Really nice, caring person.
No, but she means well. She just can’t express things properly.
Well yeah so much better if they both are that way.
Sadly not. I loved mine with all of my heart but she wanted freedom to have multiple sex partners which it only took one to sleep with before she contracted a terrible STD.
Her heart definetly won me over. She has a pure heart, but she can have a heart of steel too, when she needs to. She's amazing.
Yes definitely. This was how I fell for the first person I ever properly loved.
Yes, he’s very kind and I was initially attracted to him but his ❤️ Won me over.
Yes. The kindest person I know.
Her brain turns out she was cruel.
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