You must be reaaaaally attractive cause there's no way I pay the phone bill of my girl.
The question is, what will you do once you'll be old and won't have that same body, once he will prefer dumb you for a younger one? Or if he finds a better looking woman
Not as long as you like to be the beautiful jar of that relation. I really believe everybody have the right to ask for what they want, what I don't like is incongruency. I don't know if it's for sex, many men want that type of relation for control. If they pay the bill they have the control about you. If you agree that type of relation is good, although my advice is that you have a plan B for if he gets tired of you.
If your boyfriend does leave you and you can not find someone dumb enough to pay for all your bills, groceries, material items you want do not complain because you would only have yourself to bkame for not working and earning your own money.
It's certainly not the basis for a long term, stable relationship. There needs to be a strong emotional connection that's the basis for the relationship regardless of financial circumstances as they are apt to change.
I mean it’s not wrong if both parties get what they want out of the exchange. He wants sex, and you want money. You said you were honest about it. It’s not wrong. It’s just frowned upon by society, but live your life anyway.
Good one, I think we all are lazy and don't appreciate each other verses time and people are making this environment impossible. This may sound like a mom or dad answer but time really does take it toll and we are getting uncomfortably overcrowded as population grows. Spending time with your spouse is more like venting than anything. Any suggestions on that it confuses me but believe it true?
You just seem like a very shallow person to me. So are you working or jobless? If you are working, then why do you need men to splurge on you? And if you are not, why aren't you?
If you cook clean take care of your man and are ready to pop out and care for kids then you are not a gold digger. If you sit on the couch eating bon bons and drinking wine you are a gold digger and yes i think you would be trash. by the way i make much more than 60k
Sugar baby. Not a gold digger. Not a bad thing nessessarily if the boyfriend knows it. Thats just a poor relationship and person to, be. Just remeber, your body isn't going to be like it is forever. So wither marry someone or get a job.
Fine. Use men for their money, but then don't be upset when they trade you in or upgrade. Probably shorter, 10-20 years tops, but maybe you're cool with that.
LOL, your body is still part of you. Money isn't. Anyway, it is kind of a gross heart, no love for a person. I find it gross, your heart is gross to me.
It is wrong, and you know it, you're still kinda young but you should start changing your attitude towards relationship because it will damage you in a long run, you're only feeding your material needs right know, what about emotions? don't you want someo one who invests in you more than $? Good luck.
As long as everyone knows what the deal is, there's nothing wrong with it. It wouldn't appeal to me though
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As long as you both understand the arrangement, I think it's OK.
But just to be clear, he's not "using" you for your body. He's paying you for it, and that makes you a whore, aka prostitute. Use whichever term you feel better about, but they mean the same thing, and you are one.
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Gold digging and sexual infatuation are 2 completely different things but same principles because you both use each other it’s a mutually symbiotic system no one gains nor loses anything now if it was a parasitical symbiotic relationship then one person would be mooching too much off the other but if it’s mutual then doesn’t really matter
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You must be reaaaaally attractive cause there's no way I pay the phone bill of my girl.
The question is, what will you do once you'll be old and won't have that same body, once he will prefer dumb you for a younger one? Or if he finds a better looking woman
Not as long as you like to be the beautiful jar of that relation.
I really believe everybody have the right to ask for what they want, what I don't like is incongruency.
I don't know if it's for sex, many men want that type of relation for control.
If they pay the bill they have the control about you.
If you agree that type of relation is good, although my advice is that you have a plan B for if he gets tired of you.
If your boyfriend does leave you and you can not find someone dumb enough to pay for all your bills, groceries, material items you want do not complain because you would only have yourself to bkame for not working and earning your own money.
It's certainly not the basis for a long term, stable relationship. There needs to be a strong emotional connection that's the basis for the relationship regardless of financial circumstances as they are apt to change.
I mean it’s not wrong if both parties get what they want out of the exchange. He wants sex, and you want money. You said you were honest about it. It’s not wrong. It’s just frowned upon by society, but live your life anyway.
Good one, I think we all are lazy and don't appreciate each other verses time and people are making this environment impossible. This may sound like a mom or dad answer but time really does take it toll and we are getting uncomfortably overcrowded as population grows. Spending time with your spouse is more like venting than anything. Any suggestions on that it confuses me but believe it true?
You just seem like a very shallow person to me. So are you working or jobless?
If you are working, then why do you need men to splurge on you?
And if you are not, why aren't you?
If you cook clean take care of your man and are ready to pop out and care for kids then you are not a gold digger. If you sit on the couch eating bon bons and drinking wine you are a gold digger and yes i think you would be trash. by the way i make much more than 60k
Sugar baby. Not a gold digger. Not a bad thing nessessarily if the boyfriend knows it. Thats just a poor relationship and person to, be. Just remeber, your body isn't going to be like it is forever. So wither marry someone or get a job.
Fine. Use men for their money, but then don't be upset when they trade you in or upgrade. Probably shorter, 10-20 years tops, but maybe you're cool with that.
That's not love at all. That's just two idiots mutually abusing one another, and nobody could ever have true happiness living like that.
LOL, your body is still part of you.
Money isn't.
Anyway, it is kind of a gross heart, no love for a person.
I find it gross, your heart is gross to me.
If you can handle a man only looking you for your body - then you are good to go.
If not, then you are a major hypocrite.
It is wrong, and you know it, you're still kinda young but you should start changing your attitude towards relationship because it will damage you in a long run, you're only feeding your material needs right know, what about emotions? don't you want someo one who invests in you more than $? Good luck.
People like you are real trash, jeez the world really makes me laugh even more every single day
As long as everyone knows what the deal is, there's nothing wrong with it. It wouldn't appeal to me though
As long as you both understand the arrangement, I think it's OK.
But just to be clear, he's not "using" you for your body. He's paying you for it, and that makes you a whore, aka prostitute. Use whichever term you feel better about, but they mean the same thing, and you are one.
Gold digging and sexual infatuation are 2 completely different things but same principles because you both use each other it’s a mutually symbiotic system
no one gains nor loses anything now if it was a parasitical symbiotic relationship then one person would be mooching too much off the other but if it’s mutual then doesn’t really matter
So you're a live-in prostitute.
At least you are honest about it.
I'm sure there's a word for women like you, and it's on the very tip of my tongue... smh