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I tried weed, and my boyfriend disapproves. What should I do? (Page 3)
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No, that's not cool. You are allowing others to play with your health and future. Your boyfriend seems to be genuinely upset. You are spoiling your reputation by involving in such activities. Just apologize and try not doing it again dear.
He behaves like pissed diva, just because you tried a blunt.
Say him you want a friend as partner not a moralizer who behaves like your dad.
Tell him to over it you're a big girl and can do what you want.
I tried it once when I was 17, living in Canada weed is legal so I wasn't breaking the law or anything like that.
I didn't enjoy it though.. about your boyfriend though, just tell him it was a one time deal and no more.
You should appreciate his point of view. I'm with him I do not understand why anyone would want to deminish their mental state with drugs or alcohol. I think it is absolutely vile that our society is soo accepting of marijuana and that the government is so willing to exploit them for it when it will undoubtedly have absolutely no positive benefit to our society and the tax revenue it produces will not even begin to compensate for the problems it will cause.
You lucky he didn't break your head XD
There's 2 way, either one continue on smoking it and your boyfriend will break with you either you stop smoking it and keep your boyfriend (within a week all will be back to normal).
Have an honest conversation. There is probably more going on than just his objection to weed. It could be fear based or based on bad past experiences. Seek the understand first before you make any sweeping decision about it. Good luck.
He’s probably upset that while you say you only will try it once you also say “you don’t see a problem with it”. Rather than trying to explain why you think weed isn’t a problem maybe talk about the fact you tried it once and won’t do it again.
Why shouldn't she do it again? Why should she see a problem with trying weed? It's less addictive than caffeine, and you can't overdose on weed.
@devilman666 she said she wanted to try it once and that she wouldn’t do it again. That’s why she shouldn’t do it again.
Not sure why there is such an infatuation with weed. It literally does no good at all , adds nothing to a persons life. Have no idea why people get so worked up over something so useless as a recreational endeavor.
@Izumiblu tell me, have you ever experienced depression? Have you ever felt empty inside? Have you ever wanted to die? Weed helps me overcome these feelings, it makes me happy, even when I want to die. For people who experience chronic pain, weed can be a life changer, I've heard several stories of people having no good cure for their chronic pain, they tried everything but the only thing that helped was painkillers that affected their ability to think. Then they smoke weed, and it makes the chronic pain go away. You say weed adds nothing to anyones life, but you're wrong, it helps many people, with things ranging from depression, to pain from arthritis or really bad periods, to annorexia, to sleep disorders, anxiety problems, social problems, and finally it can help people with ptsd by calming them down when they get triggered. Besides the many medicinal uses that people self medicate with marijuana, other reasons to do it include: just wanting to have fun, wanting to be more expressive, and feel better. Whats wrong with that?
To explain this properly, I need to explain how weed works. We have what is called a cannabinoid receptor in our brain, our body naturally produces cannabinoids in order to control pain, appetite, mood, and memory, and this receptor is how we process it. Weed contains cannabinoids, when you smoke it, thc and cbd act on this receptor of the brain. Thc affects mood and hunger, where as cbd affects pain, which is why many people with chronic pain use cbd.
Finally, you never pointed out any health risks or anything that could harm her, so I still don't see why she should avoid weed now.
@devilman666 she tried it because she wanted to try it recreationally not because she was depressed.
Further I said it was useless as a recreational endeavor and said nothing about it’s medicinal or therapeutic value. Entirely different question and subject. Lastly, you know little of me or my life. Don’t presume to know you do.
@izumiblu I didn't presume to know you.
So what if she wanted to try it recreationally? Do you drink alcohol or coffee? What things do you do recreationally?
@devilman666 it’s up to the two of them how they want to run their relationship She knew he doesn’t like it and ya know what. That’s ok and that’s his business. She tried it once knowing how he felt about it and it created a trust issue They’re working on it but he’s uncertain because she doesn’t sound particularly committed to the idea of it being a one time thing so he’s showing his concern about it. She needs to decide if she is going to keep doing it or not. And if she wants to keep doing it that’s her choice and he can choose to end the relationship. This is how relationships work.
I just dont see how that should be his choice. If she wants to drink occassionally then I don't see why he should have a choice in that. It just seems controlling to me.
I do agree that he can choose to end the relationship though, and by that logic she does have to make a choice on what she cares more about.
@devilman666 then we agree
It should be your choice its your life, especially with something like that. Its weed, not like your going out of your way to try it or are doing some hard drug its like your trying a non addictive (and legal in some places) drug because you were curious and given the opportunity. Not a big deal, maybe he is just really against weed but he seems like he could be controlling but you know him I dont. If anything he should be happy your telling him what you do and not keeping secrets.
Has he ever tried it? I'm not sure it's unsaleable for a young adult to try things once.
In any case, he's let his feelings be known without going psychotic so it's up to you what you do with that.
Just don't smoke weed again and move on because he will too. Just be glad he brought up an issue he had instead of being quiet about it and slowly creating more problems.
Christ sake woman. Stand up for yourself. You don't have to give yourself totally over to your boyfriend. You had a few drags of an overrated smelly relaxant, not robbed a pensioner at knife point.
Go fuck yourself alone in this shit!!
I think your boyfriend care much then your parents and you are so blind is the weed addiction!
You don't deserve such a nice person
I would be just like him. I'm totally against it as well. I have dump women for using dope. Only dopes use dope.
If I was him, I might be thinking about dumping you. Do dope once you'll most likely do it again
He doesn't want his girlfriend to become a drug addict or die young because of a lung disease.
There's a reason why "don't do drugs" is a thing, don't let it become an addiction and don't wear the "dumbass rebel" hat.
You know that weed is less addictive than caffeine, right? Sugar is more addictive than weed. Some people get addicted but usually weed addicts got addicted because they smoked a lot of it at a young age while their brain was developing. I'm a stoner and I have depression and anxiety issues among other things, I've had these issues for a long time, long before I first tried weed.
As for dieing young, it depends on how much you use, but yes, it increases the risk of lung disease. However that does not mean that all smokers die young.
Tell me, do you drink alcohol?
Dude speak addiction on cigarettes, crack, alcohol, etc. I smoke weed time to time but it isn't at all that addictive. There are far more benefits to weed than your regular prescription drugs.. rather hear about a weed overdose than a drug overdose.. oh wait... there isn't a weed overdose. Smh.
^^^^^^^^ caffeine and sugar are more addictive than weed.
No I don't drink alcohol, I don't smoke anything either, I only drink caffeine when I really need to.
I'm just stating why her boyfriend wouldn't want her smoking weed, sugar's reputation isn't as stained as weed's because weed causes high levels of intoxication, while it may not be as harmful, it does have instant effects that could be really bad at certain times.
+ there are many mental/emotional effects aside from any physical ones, which might heavily impact relationships, he's afraid of the risk and doesn't wanna take it.
Intoxication? You clearly dont understand how weed works.
Intoxicated: (of alcoholic drink or a drug) cause (someone) to lose control of their faculties or behavior.
Weed acts on a receptor in the brain that controls mood, appetite, pain-tolerance, and memory. We naturally produce cannabinoids in our bodies, weed contains cannabinoids.
You say there are "instant effects that could be really bad at certain times.", like what? Give some examples. "There are many mental/emotional effects aside from any physical ones, which might heavily inpact relationships", again, like what? I need examples cause you seem to be making shit up.
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I'd be a little grumpy with him to be honest, it's not really his right to tell you what you can and cannot experiment with. If he doesn't like weed that's his thing not yours.
Yikes about the age diff. Already saying blunt. Love it. He's too old for you and he doesn't understand kids these days, I say smoke weed all day, er day.
You don't know shit, a women of that age is more valueable for a man that age. You don't know the guy so you can't judge the situation. So you call someone her age a KID. Maybe you should question your own emotional maturity.
Says every pedo ever
So if you have a girlfriend four years over being technicaly an adult you are a pedo. You aren't the brightest light in the room are you?
Yes, he is a pedo. He should date his age
Mind your own business. You are to lazy to shave your pubic hair so no men for you at all (previous post of you) So get your hygene in order and come back. The only reason you are mad at men is noone wants you. I'm done with your dumb childish uneducated post and your out of control responses so don't bother me with your feminist cancer anymore. Bye and keep embarrasing yourself directed to someone else.
Hahahahaha look at the pedo who gets mad at me
Hahahahaha i'm one angry pedophileđź‘Š
Are you retarded? He is in his 30s and she is in her 20s, what's wrong with that? She is 22, he is 31, 9y difference. I agree they are almost a decade apart but they are grown-up adults.
My only rule when it comes to dating is: don't date any woman old enough to be your mother or young enough to be your daughter.
This obsession with weed is unhealthy and pathetic. Why is it a cardinal sin that someone you love doesn't agree with ingesting a substance? This generation is a sad one.
Just wait it will go away, but don't do it again. I am in MA, here is legal but what you don't know is weed is just the first step to others drugs. Drugs are really a waste of time. Believe me
Honestly he shouldn't get upset over a one time thing. the whole reason weed was legalised in the first place was because there are people who use it medically but dont meet the requirements for it. you should try and get him to explain why he is so against smoking it and have him rationalize his thoughts, because it might also be something bad has happened to him relating werd