Do guys have patience for a damaged girl or are they too much work? (Page 2)

Question

We're talking someone who is damaged from their past relationships. Had an open conversation with a group of friends of mine. Apparently, girls who went through so much in their failed relationship that the more 'damaged' they get, the more they are considered crazy for acting up due to past drama. So guys are starting to avoid those considered damaged because they don't have the patience to deal with them. So are they basically doomed?

chriscdi · Answer

i have a lot of patience, besides my goals might change if i notice a girl is broken, i would try helping her out and then try my move after she is healed.

MrKinktastic · Answer

I have patience if they’re actively working through it, less if they’re still running from it.

4mazing · Answer

What are you talking about, girl? You're a woman, you can always date, easy-peasy.

Billy1002 · Answer

Depends but in a general sense no. if someone is in so much drama at some point you need to ask are they part of the prooblem. Sometimes the answer is no but a lot of times it a yes.

Bman4907 · Answer

Dated a "damaged" woman for a few months. I wouldn't do it again willingly because the moment her confidence was somewhat improved, boom, she moved on to somebody else 3 days before she told me.

AdmiralSirJohn · Answer

Flip the question. Would you have the patience to deal with a damaged guy? As one, I can say most would not.

loveslongnails · Answer

Everyone is a little damaged, and I think we expect that. I can be patient for a long time, for a lot of things, but some things I won't take on.

Anonymous · Answer

Damaged goods, I just avoid them... Too much drama. I rather stay single then deal with all that mess. Other situation, if she becomes (shows it later) damaged gradually, I might stick for longer.

Shamalien · Answer

Why shud i have patience for their bad decisions? Don’t I deserve someone better? I didn’t date retards who would hurt me

termanator · Answer

I can deal with sadness to a point, misplaced anger is what gets me to thinking maybe not, most guys probably wouldn’t bother, but for me it depends on God’s will, and the girl.

Ripper_E · Answer

I'd feel it out. Depends on her willingness to move past it.

winterfox10 · Answer

I used to have the patience, but I've learned my lesson now.

watgood · Answer

If ur willing to an wonting to invest ur tine in what u see as a meaningful an profitable investment thwn do it have patience but if u think that it going to stop u from moving u forward in life or even taking back in life then no patience

soleil2666 · Answer

By those results - we're at the cusp. Girls decide - you get equal treatment if you want to be equal.

Liam_Hayden · Answer

I think most people carry baggage from past failed relationships with them so I have patience to a point if we are otherwise compatible.

lucas262 · Answer

I think people that are hurt learn to love more, so yea I mean iv my own baggage i can't ask her to take mine on if I won't take hers.

Anonymous · Answer

Are there girls that aren't? lol It depends how damaged (and specific issues) and how into her I am. But I'm very patient.

Thatsamazing · Answer

Damaged how, in what way or ways. You haven't given us any details.

dbr1987 · Answer

Never ever again.. All the effort and when you are done with bringing her up FeMaLe NaTuRe kicks in

genericname85 · Answer

You're 30. Nobody at that age is free of "damages".

KrakenAttackin · Answer

I used to have patience for damaged girls, but I have learned that damaged girls turn into vicious girls. Who needs that shit.

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

We can be patient for a few days in order to get some pussy. After that, if she is still whining about her past, it gets old pretty quick.

Exorcist_Rampage · Answer

Most men are patient enough to give them a change to redeem their mistake. Women likely would do the same if a man has been damaged.

DonCachondo · Answer

I'm pretty patient with the crazy chicks who have that "I gotta suck a dick every 5 minutes" kind of crazy. Keeps me pretty calm, actually.

Anonymous · Answer

Realistically, the amount of patience guys in general have for damaged girls will vary in direct proportion to how hot she is.

TheAteam1978 · Answer

Nah I love trying to help and rebuild a woman who has been through hell

Lunatic1 · Answer

I have been through the wringer, I would love to help her through.

alance99 · Answer

I can definitly try best but too an certain extent only

anton_dee · Answer

Of course I would have the patience. And my intention would be only to help her out...

The_man_whol_aughs · Answer

No pain is something you must handle alone , don't risk getting into more danger by sharing it to people

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