Should I leave my girlfriend and move on? (Page 2)
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Dude what the fuck? You're a man which theoretically means you've got balls, show the world you've actually got some. Get rid of the bitch. She's taking you for granted. If you live together, get the locks changed while she's out.
He just didn't pop out of no where. they been talking for awhile and she been seeing him. save yourself the heartache and let her go and go be happy for yourself and find someone that deserves you. if she cares anything about you she would have broken it off with you from the time they started back up.
Move on my dude, move on. If she fell back in love with her ex, it means she herself hasn't moved on and got in a relationship too fast afterwards. I'm sorry that happened to you, I can't imagine the amount of hurt and pain you're going through after 4 years geez.
Sounds like you already made your decision. You are unable to let her go so you will have to deal with the fallout when it comes. Fool me once, shame on you! Fool me twice, shame on me. :( Are you going to go through it a 2nd time or is the first time enough for you to call it quits? If she does it to you once, she could do it again. Hope you like your roller coaster ride.
It sucks to be in that position tell her your going to step away from the relationship with her so she can truly decide who she wants.. you hope she's going to choose you cause he had his chance and blew it.. you love her but the real question who does she love! Sorry your in this position!
Moving on and focusing on yourself is the best revenge. Trust me.
Five years later, she'll see you again and she'll just DIE inside because of what she threw away. You think you're the one who's hurting now, that's nothing compared to what she'll be feeling once this ex of hers reminds her of why they were exes in the first place.
Normally I do not suggest ultimatums, but this is a clear red line being crossed. It is wrong to be in a relationship with someone if you are not fully committed to them (talking about her). Tell her that you respect her feelings, but she has a choice to make. Then let her make it. However, there is a difference between having love for an ex and wanting to be with them. I still love one of my exes, yet I would be fully committed to whoever I date.
Bruh Move on! It's a disrespect. good she didn't do this after marriage. Think about your potential kids having dysfunctional family and step dad in the picture. Think about your family worrying about your married life. You dodged a bullet. Your 29. You have time. Go out! Heal yourself! Develop yourself! Cut ties with her please man! Been there. Done that. Stop being toxic to yourself. You cannot fall back in love with someone when you have respect for your current partner.
Ew, get rid. You'll be even more heartbroken in the long run. She's playing 2 men for her own satisfaction. It is frowned upon so much more when a guy plays his girlfriend with another girl (his ex) so why should it be any different for us girls.
Don't stay in something unstable, if she was able to be won over so easily after your 4 years together then dump her before she might dump you. Besides having more time for yourself is good as it is a way to self improve.
I don't think you owe anyone anything, and I feel like you have already been much more understanding than could reasonably be expected. Go out into the world and find someone that appreciates you.
Come on!. It is very clear from what you say. You are a man and so have self respect and break up with your girlfriend. Let her go after her happiness and you should then find your own happiness.
You already know what you need to do.
It's time to bounce friend. Enough said. I could write a whole 5 paragraphs but you already know that you should not tolerate that shit. I dont care if she is a supermodel and the sweetest thing on earth... duces ✌
Study up on hypergamy. Learn it, live it, love it.
What happens when she chooses to stay with you. You put a ring on it and have a few kids. Then she regrets choosing you and wants a divorce. You loose your children and your house and your best car... monthly child support payments... fuck that.
No matter your situation. If someone was the right one for you, they would ONLY be invested in you, they would love you so much that nobody, not even their ex, could catch their eye. Don't put your effort and time into someone who is putting their effort and time into another.
You can always try to confront the ex of hers and tell him to FUCK OFF. Jk, but... you should probably do it formally without causing fire. If anything, gotta really talk to your girlfriend out about it
Quit being a cuck. The moment the other guy came back on the scene and she expressed the slightest interest in him, you should have dumped her ass and moved on. Do not let yourself be treated like that. Be a man!
Pal I hate to break the news to you, she's likely already fucking him again.
Have some self-respect and move on.
Move on dude. If she's really in love with this other guy you're wasting your time and only prolonging the inevitable. There are plenty of other women out there. Find one who will put you first.
That's ridiculous. She needs to make a decision quickly.
You should try cheating on her first. Also, try taking some naked pics/videos so you can sell it online if you decide to actually leave her.
What kind of asshole are you
@kim45456 I'm a God, the Golden God.