I want only career women. However there are plenty of guys, who really want a stay at home housewife (many of them dislike or even downright hate career women).
ngl I'm disappointed in these statistics. in the end its what the wife chooses so. i honestly love the idea of a housewife, but if she has the chance to be off somewhere driven on her own i find that even more sexy. i enjoy sandwiches. >:3
I've live on my own for 3 year and have OCD so I can't have anyone do it for me becouse even no there effort is valid it wouldn't be right to the way I have it I'm a ambessions persion with music crearer and a bricklaying job so would love a career women so we could ride together and bulid together and be a boss togeather team work is everything
@ShineDJJ are you saying that you will do all the cooking and cleaning when you get married? and what do u expect from your wife to do? do u want her to just stay at home and do nothing? or do u expect her to be just career-driven? how about your future kids? who is going to take care of them?
In the best case scenario, we're rich enough to hire housekeepers. Until then, we split the chores. I don't plan to reproduce, but we will use birth control until we're in an optimal spot where we're able to handle both work, family leave, and children. We'll also split the responsibility in that situation.
That would also mean women wants to stay home and have their husband giving them money anytime that's why they want a working husband so your point is?
@davids88 I want to work and follow my career, but also want to be able to do the house work too. I don't want to leave any of them behind, so hopefully I will find the time for both of them.
Nah, I'd prefer someone career driven and intelligent. I have no interest in marrying someone who's life goals are stay at home and look after children. But that's just me.
Kind of in the middle gray area. Dunno if I would expect her to have a career or be a true housewife. Boils down to who had the better job and can we afford to have one of us stay at home to maintain the house / family.
I say I would rather have a housewife. I'm a pretty hard worker and I can maintain a little family so I would like to have my woman home and focus on her own stuff.
whatever she wants to be doesn't bother me as long as she's with me, personally would prefer to stay home with the kids because of my childhood to make sure they don't end up like me but either way
@blackxbarbiex01 you are only 13. It's easy to say things. You don't know yet the harsh realities of life. I hope you won't bump into a scenario of having kids with no one to take care of it.
Not the submissive housewife, but surely a supportive one, that listens to you when you come home from work stressed out. My now-ex wife didn't do that all days, she blamed me letting me stressed. Feels bad!
(the ones that say they don't are just cucked appeasers who think this opinion will get them in bed with loose women... SPOILER ALERT IT FKING WORKS XD)
Every man who is confident in himself either wants or is totally okay with having a house wife. There are a number of men, these days, however, who are not confident in themselves, and they seek to appease women, not impress them, in order to get in their pants. The women that are impressed by this stuff just so happen to also be the ones who put out easily, so it works out for the dudes, which is why you have 50% of men voting against the housewife thing.
No women actually wants to end up with one of these men XD a man who fears he can't support a family on his own financially is not very impressive
I do agree that it is some fear that they cannot fully financially provide. I also think upbringing those who had strong mothers and no father figure are more than likely to be opposed to it. Those who had the joy of a mom who stayed home and focused all her attention on the family and a strong father figure will more than likely want to be like dad.
Yeah pretty much all boils down to that at the end of the day. That's why they had to send all the men off to war multiple times to push feminism through a century ago
@kim45456 hey kim, here’s a thought, fuck off into your career and let the real, desirable woman want what they will, plenty of men are happy with a stay at home wife and if the ladies wanna be one, what say do you have in it? Ur such a triggered feminist, the ladies in this thread do not like you, I don’t like you either, so do us all a favor
Who tf are you to call my potential husband a cuck only because he is not afraid of caarer and indepedent women. I also dont call your potential partner a slut for staying at home and geting provided by you for sex and for doing some little housechoures
You little fag insult men who preferes caarer women and women who women does not want to be financially dependent on men. Who tf are you to decide which women are more desirable. Look at you, you ate going zo be 40, and still single. You are the one who is triggered by indepedent women
You little fag insult men who prefere caarer women and women who do not want to be financially dependent on men. Who tf are you to decide which women are more desirable. Look at you, you are going to be 40, and still single. You are the one who is triggered by indepedent women
A woman with purpose in life. Not some who just wants the most £££/recognition she can get, but someone who does something for people, has something to wake up for and it's not only me.
Have a career by all means - but if you can't navigate the chores something's too wrong. Royals know how to wash the dishes, let's stop the fake princess syndrome.
@Coolfred Well it's fake - if Bill Gates proudly shows he does it, or the Dutch king - surely Disney princesses can notice they are cartoon characters?
No it depends on the woman. Whether she is strong enough to stand up for herself or whether she can be kept small and live a worthless life as a housewife and cleaning slave. Everyone is responsible for their own life.
Because you can also invest in the future of your children and be a good mother if you work full- time yourself. A woman should be a positive role model, especially for her daughters. She should show them how to be independent, strong, confident, how to pursue their own goals and above all that as a woman you don't have to choose between family and career. You can have it all. And yes, I'm married.
You can teach your children that and still be a stay at home mother. From my observation as a previous Assistant preschool teacher and sitter I seen mother not make healthy home cooked meals but something quick and childcare workers are underpaid and some really don’t care about the development of children. Do you have children and do you place them in childcare?
@Primerose21 I feel sorry for your sister that she was left to fend for herself in most days. Surely I can't compare between the two options like you can but I personally never came home and nobody was there and I never felt lonely either.
Before I went to school I spent 24 hours with at least one parent every day. They always took me with them. And later after my school day was over we spent every day together as well.
Women's can be anything they wanna be, but I'd rather I be the bread maker, but these days, women kinda has to work anyway unless man is super successful
No kids are going to be involved, so there's no reason to be " a housewife". She should do something she loves to do. If that's raising kids, we won't end up together.
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I want only career women. However there are plenty of guys, who really want a stay at home housewife (many of them dislike or even downright hate career women).
todays survival is all about the money 💵!
You're the only guy on this question with this opinion who I believe lol
@tallandsweet why is that? Why only me 😁?
Because you seem more confident than other guys and you really do care a lot about money.
@tallandsweet 😂😂😂 alright. I will take that.
Hopefully women don't interpret me as being greedy (or a freeloader) because I'm not having that type of obsession over money. Hahaha!
ngl I'm disappointed in these statistics. in the end its what the wife chooses so. i honestly love the idea of a housewife, but if she has the chance to be off somewhere driven on her own i find that even more sexy. i enjoy sandwiches. >:3
I've live on my own for 3 year and have OCD so I can't have anyone do it for me becouse even no there effort is valid it wouldn't be right to the way I have it I'm a ambessions persion with music crearer and a bricklaying job so would love a career women so we could ride together and bulid together and be a boss togeather team work is everything
Who will raise your kids when your at work? childcare system? Strangers
Okay, bring on the down votes in 3..2..1...
So do women. I hate how people romintizise fuckboys
I think men just want women to respect and care for them again
Honestly couldn't care, as long as what they do makes them happy.
Men want to come home to freshly ironed sheets and warm home-made dinners, so of course they would like a housewife.
No thanks. I can iron my own stuff and cook for myself.
@ShineDJJ lol ofc u can. but wouldn't u want to have them done for u?
I'd appreciate it it, but I would not expect it out of my hypothetical wife.
@ShineDJJ are you saying that you will do all the cooking and cleaning when you get married? and what do u expect from your wife to do? do u want her to just stay at home and do nothing? or do u expect her to be just career-driven? how about your future kids? who is going to take care of them?
In the best case scenario, we're rich enough to hire housekeepers. Until then, we split the chores. I don't plan to reproduce, but we will use birth control until we're in an optimal spot where we're able to handle both work, family leave, and children. We'll also split the responsibility in that situation.
That would also mean women wants to stay home and have their husband giving them money anytime that's why they want a working husband so your point is?
What would you prefer to be a career driven woman or a house wife?
@davids88 I want to work and follow my career, but also want to be able to do the house work too. I don't want to leave any of them behind, so hopefully I will find the time for both of them.
Nah, I'd prefer someone career driven and intelligent. I have no interest in marrying someone who's life goals are stay at home and look after children. But that's just me.
Kind of in the middle gray area. Dunno if I would expect her to have a career or be a true housewife. Boils down to who had the better job and can we afford to have one of us stay at home to maintain the house / family.
I say I would rather have a housewife. I'm a pretty hard worker and I can maintain a little family so I would like to have my woman home and focus on her own stuff.
whatever she wants to be doesn't bother me as long as she's with me, personally would prefer to stay home with the kids because of my childhood to make sure they don't end up like me but either way
@blackxbarbiex01 you are only 13. It's easy to say things. You don't know yet the harsh realities of life. I hope you won't bump into a scenario of having kids with no one to take care of it.
Not the submissive housewife, but surely a supportive one, that listens to you when you come home from work stressed out. My now-ex wife didn't do that all days, she blamed me letting me stressed. Feels bad!
(the ones that say they don't are just cucked appeasers who think this opinion will get them in bed with loose women... SPOILER ALERT IT FKING WORKS XD)
Huh?
Every man who is confident in himself either wants or is totally okay with having a house wife. There are a number of men, these days, however, who are not confident in themselves, and they seek to appease women, not impress them, in order to get in their pants. The women that are impressed by this stuff just so happen to also be the ones who put out easily, so it works out for the dudes, which is why you have 50% of men voting against the housewife thing.
No women actually wants to end up with one of these men XD a man who fears he can't support a family on his own financially is not very impressive
I do agree that it is some fear that they cannot fully financially provide. I also think upbringing those who had strong mothers and no father figure are more than likely to be opposed to it. Those who had the joy of a mom who stayed home and focused all her attention on the family and a strong father figure will more than likely want to be like dad.
Yeah pretty much all boils down to that at the end of the day. That's why they had to send all the men off to war multiple times to push feminism through a century ago
It's all so they could tax people more and get pay rates to be half by having two people at work for price of one.
Go fucking respect your wifes decision
@Warmapplecrumple what is the difference if a person pay taxes for two people or two people pay only one taxes? How do they profit by doing that?
@Shamamien why are afraid of caarer indepedent women? Only little boys want housewife so they can be babysitted by their own wifes
@kim45456 hey kim, here’s a thought, fuck off into your career and let the real, desirable woman want what they will, plenty of men are happy with a stay at home wife and if the ladies wanna be one, what say do you have in it? Ur such a triggered feminist, the ladies in this thread do not like you, I don’t like you either, so do us all a favor
Then fuck off and stop insulting men who preferes caarer and is happy a caarer woman. You are the only cuck
Who tf are you to call my potential husband a cuck only because he is not afraid of caarer and indepedent women. I also dont call your potential partner a slut for staying at home and geting provided by you for sex and for doing some little housechoures
You little fag insult men who preferes caarer women and women who women does not want to be financially dependent on men. Who tf are you to decide which women are more desirable. Look at you, you ate going zo be 40, and still single. You are the one who is triggered by indepedent women
You little fag insult men who prefere caarer women and women who do not want to be financially dependent on men. Who tf are you to decide which women are more desirable. Look at you, you are going to be 40, and still single. You are the one who is triggered by indepedent women
Kim be nice, it’s ok to have and share different opinions. We are all different
A woman with purpose in life. Not some who just wants the most £££/recognition she can get, but someone who does something for people, has something to wake up for and it's not only me.
Have a career by all means - but if you can't navigate the chores something's too wrong. Royals know how to wash the dishes, let's stop the fake princess syndrome.
Just wondering what you think, is there a problem if you can't navigate the chores?
@Coolfred Well it's fake - if Bill Gates proudly shows he does it, or the Dutch king - surely Disney princesses can notice they are cartoon characters?
What if her career make more than yours and she hardly home wouldn’t that mean you should be doing most of the house work?
@sunshinet123 What else do you think I'd be doing?
It completely depends on the man
No it depends on the woman. Whether she is strong enough to stand up for herself or whether she can be kept small and live a worthless life as a housewife and cleaning slave. Everyone is responsible for their own life.
Why would she be worthless if she is investing in her children’s future? Are you married btw?
Because you can also invest in the future of your children and be a good mother if you work full- time yourself. A woman should be a positive role model, especially for her daughters. She should show them how to be independent, strong, confident, how to pursue their own goals and above all that as a woman you don't have to choose between family and career. You can have it all.
And yes, I'm married.
@Satu16 i share the same view on that to be honest
Thanks @Unit1
@Satu16 so how do you have it all?
You can teach your children that and still be a stay at home mother. From my observation as a previous Assistant preschool teacher and sitter I seen mother not make healthy home cooked meals but something quick and childcare workers are underpaid and some really don’t care about the development of children. Do you have children and do you place them in childcare?
@Satu16 I think I agree with you on most did but I wouldn't say worthless.
@Primerose21 I feel sorry for your sister that she was left to fend for herself in most days. Surely I can't compare between the two options like you can but I personally never came home and nobody was there and I never felt lonely either.
Before I went to school I spent 24 hours with at least one parent every day. They always took me with them. And later after my school day was over we spent every day together as well.
Women's can be anything they wanna be, but I'd rather I be the bread maker, but these days, women kinda has to work anyway unless man is super successful
Depends on the man but I imagine most men Would want enough money Coming in to provide for their families.
No kids are going to be involved, so there's no reason to be " a housewife". She should do something she loves to do. If that's raising kids, we won't end up together.