What gets guys/men emotionally attached to a girl/woman?

[Thats]

So far, it has been easy for me to get a men sexually attracted to me, but as soon as I tell them that I want to wait for marriage to be intimate, they quickly disappear. This made me realize that they weren’t emotionally attached to me, otherwise they wouldn’t have left. What am I doing wrong, please? How do I get a man to be emotionally attached and in love with me, and not just sexually attracted.

Can anyone help me, please?

Thanks in advance for your advice and support.

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Also, may you please explain your answer?

[slatyb]

I'll wait a while for sex, maybe two or three months, but not until marriage. I want to know we're sexually compatible before marriage. Having great sex helps me become emotionally attached. OTOH if the woman insists on waiting, then I wonder whether she's got much of a sex drive or is only attracted to me for my ability to provide for her.

So you can continue to wait for marriage and hope to find a guy who agrees, or maybe you'll meet a guy who makes you want to stop waiting. Good luck.

[ecfresh]

My advice is to push your limits of intimacy. You don’t have to have complete intercourse but you can do other sexual activities leading up to marriage can’t you? Are you able to kiss, massage, undress?

[Thats]

I do that , but its still not enough. But I avoid undressing too , so I won’t go too far.

[ecfresh]

If he’s the right guy or a gentleman you will be able to undress and if he knows you don’t want intercourse he will stop you.

[R3DthatDude]

The issue isn’t hard. The seeking and waiting is hard. The guys that don’t want marriage and only wanted sex have went away, thereby telling all you needed to know.

[MrD1949]

Hold on to your morals and wait if they can't wait with you to never-never for you don't do what you don't want to do for nobody

[Boyisjoy]

Heart!

[Thats]

What do you mean?

[Boyisjoy]

A man gives his heart 2 his female!

[Boyisjoy]

If he is genuine enough!