I wouldn't say dated or loved but had a thing with a guy for a few weeks, bad enough it was the turning point of depression and self pity. He made me feel things I've never felt before, and he made me realise that I need to become my own person and be myself, he reminded me that he had a worse childhood than I did and also showed me a few things about the fast life that I've never thought about before, he said he's been in jail for 17 years but even before getting involved I knew I'd never love him and he was definitely more broken then me, I never learned so much before from one person
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Oh wow
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+1 yYes 🙈 head over heels.
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Glad its over?
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Kinda. Im glad I dont have to worry all the time, but at the same time my crazy ass thought it was hot as hell.
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As for your update. I was the same way. I didn't realize he was a bad boy until later on and I found it hot but I dumped him quickly after he revealed it to me. I didn't want his friends trouble or to get in legal trouble myself. I understand what you mean. I wouldn't go back to mine either.
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Glad we’ve matured
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Me too lol. Mine didn't rob houses. He sold drugs, carried a gun, broke into cars and was always fighting smh
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Oh mine did all that as well. Robbing houses was just the first time i found out. But i was already in love by then and didn't wanna leave
Get Out of Toxic Relationships While You Still Can :( ↗ - +1 y
He kept it all a secret till he beat the crap out of this guy for me and it made me fall harder but damn I had to cut it.
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Daaang
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Awh thank you for mhg ❣
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Anytime :)
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+1 ynope... no criminals here... I don't know how i'd feel about an exeptionally attractive female criminal... except if she a crackhead, but that's not attractive... but i'd be too concerned that she'd be in so much danger all the time and she could be put in the clink at any time... my ex said she wanted a small knife to carry around for utilitarian purposes or whatever, but it is illegal in her city to carry that (somewhere in canada)... i sent her a multitool and told her that if she goes to jail over that, i'd visit her and stay cuffed... but unjust laws don't denote criminality to me
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A crackhead 🤣
+1 yI've been writing to a female prisoner (drug conspiracy) for close to 3-years. She will be getting out in 2013. I've never physically seen her or heard her voice. Yet, I am developing feelings for her. So I believe it's possible to be in love with a criminal.
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Oh wow good luck
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Hmmm. How did that come about?
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@Guardian45
I found Jessica on www.writeaprisoner.com
She is the only person I've met that asks me questions about my life. Everyone else I've met just talks my right ear off. I've bought several books from the, "3,000 Questions" series and I ask her questions. Next, I'm going to buy a relationship book that we will read together. It's been a very educational and interesting processes. - +1 y
Is no one gonna' say anything about the fact that he said this lass will be coming out of prison 7 years ago?
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@Electric_Dreams
Sorry, meant to type 2023 not 2013 - +1 y
Lol i saw that but i thought i was just having a slow moment
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@DizzyDesii
Thank you for selecting me for Most Helpful Guy.
I was wondering if you are still attracted to criminals, even on a subconscious level? - +1 y
Nope just a dumb ex at 14. Ended that at 16
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@DizzyDesii
So what type of guy are you attracted to now? - +1 y
I've always been attracted to the good guys who were goofy. Thats what he was. However, i found out after about a year in that he pulled some heists. I wanted to leave but i was in love plus he made some threats. So i just stuck around til i could find another excuse to leave
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u +1 yWhen I was younger, I dated a few women who were prescription pill addicts (not a wise choice) but I don't think they were criminals.
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Damn
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Mistakes are what help you to become wiser when you get older!
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@OlderAndWiser That is a beautiful thing you have wrote, mistakes help you become wiser as you get older. Thank you for saying that. You just unintentionally helped me ease my panic attack. Thank you.
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I'm glad that my words brought you some relief! Feel free to PM me if you need to talk.
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+1 yI think about 8 years ago - I had a crush on a very attractive and smart and kind guy who was jailed for smoking weed - he ended up going to a top school to study law a few months later
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Oh wow
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+1 yNo can't say I have. Had one try to date me/stalk me like 4-5 years ago, I've known people that went to school with that years later for addicted to drugs and stole.
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Wow thats insane
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Yeah apparently dude had just got out of prison. Guess he thought he was gonna move in house. Ha he thought wrong. He was bringing stolen vehicles to my house. And when told him to stay the fuck away, he called me from my front porch the one night. That scared the shit outta me. Another morning opened the curtains, to find him sleeping in car in alley cross the street from my driveway.
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Omg thats hella creepy
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Ikr he got rearrested and was back in jail. But you know that fucking crazy dude was passing my number to people that came to visit his cellmates. I was getting texts and calls from random people. My son, or my boyfriend in jail with so and so and he wanted me to tell you he loves you and misses you. That went on for months. This dude barely knew me 3 weeks. craaazzy
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Omg ong omg! My ex above got sent to military juvenile bootcamp or some shit like that for his crimes. He gave my address to all his roommates and i got thousands of random letters from random men. He claimed it was a gift to give me a better boyfriend than he ever was. Like wtf 🤣 and most
Were also thiefs - +1 y
Omg so wait 🤣 his bright idea was to set you up with a different, "better" criminal? 🤣🤣 Couldn't a been that better or wouldn't a got caught 😂
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Lmao ikr
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Yeah that's crazy lol
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Q O Q @Brainsbeforebeauty... you gave that guy your number?
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@LEADFOOTboi before found out her was a criminal, but not like that/for that... That was too soon for me after my husband died. I wasn't looking to date anyone.
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@Brainsbeforebeauty... it's ok, i forgive you...
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@LEADFOOTboi gee thanks 🙂🙂
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welll, @Brainsbeforebeauty... life is weird and hard to see sometimes
+1 yUGH!! I didn't know about it until almost a year in to our relationship. He would shoplift stupid things like Yugioh trading cards and scented wax, things that he could clearly afford. He's shown me his bank account several times to brag about his money.
Looking back, I should have turned him in the very first time I saw him do that. He shouldn't have laid his hands on me or gotten chlamydia front the chick he cheated on me with. She has to go tell 6 different guys about that too. FORGET HIM!!01 Reply- +1 y
Girl i feel your pain. I had a handful too
Anonymous(18-24)+1 yYes, I grew up with criminals and kinda lived all that, seen a lot, heard a lot. Right now I'm dating a guy with criminal record from harmless violating public order to attempting murder. Trust me I really can't imagine myself with nice guy working 8 hours a day. I am aware of every bad thing life like this brings but I'd rather live that way than normal nice suburban housewife life.
I grew up being bonnie. I'm glad I found my Clyde🥰. This way of living is EVERYTHING trust me. That amounts of mutal trust you have in each other, must have in each other is irreplaceable. Relationship is so much stronger when you find someone to have your back even in your worst. These couples don't really have those relationship problems people with legal jobs do.11 Reply- +1 y
Lol well good luck to y'all
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+1 yI have never been. But I don't think it is uncommon.
One person can feel love towards another for a variety of reason and outsiders may not always be able to judge correctly. The person loving a criminal may have their own excuses like it was due to their situation or someone framed that person, etc. I don't think we will be able to draw a line when it comes to love. Every person needs and have the right to be loved. So we are facing a force of nature.
However, in some cases, such love may not be viewed as arising out of normal situation.
There are some cases where a victim of a crime may feel romantic attachment towards the criminal. For example I've heard of a situation where a victim of kidnapping feeling a love for the kidnapper. In such cases, there are various other factors to consider before determining whether the benefits enjoyed by the accused are justified by the law of free and mutual consent12 Reply- +1 y
Yea i didn't find out he was one til later in the relationship
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Well I don't know about him, but generally speaking, its good you are no longer with him
+1 yI'm an ex-convict, but I've cleaned up my act. While I was still "out there" on drugs, I ended up incarcerated a lot. There were a lot of women who wanted to be with me, and they would try to reforn me. In my opinion, that usually doesn't work out. I've always had a good heart, but for many years, I was a bad choice for any women. Everyone deserves a second chance, but THEY have to make an effort.
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Well long as u worked on yourself
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Oh, I've really turned my life around; I work and live a simple life.
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"I'm an ex-convict"
Shit, I believe it. You look buff as hell. - +1 y
@Ihatesociety00 Thank you! 🙂
Criminal past, yes. But not present.
I've had criminal past too, so I don't judge people for what they might have done in their teenage years.
But if they are already out of high school and out there in real life, they should have their life in straight order, because I don't want to be implicated by their actions in current life.11 Reply- +1 y
We were only 14 at the time
it wasn't really love but at some point I had some feelings for that guy.
Now, when I think about him, I feel sad for him but then he liked being a bad person. The thing is we were only 14 and I wasn't paying that much attention to him. But when I look back and pay attention to what he was saying, he was a monster.01 Reply- +1 y
Same here. I was 14 too
+1 yYeah my ex was into the streets. I hated that about him because he was smart as shit. He was a prime example of choosing to be a product of his environment. He stayed involved in some dumbass shit. He actually ended up leaving my city behind some criminal shit.
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Yea its 10 years later and mine still doing the same thing in the same city
783 opinions shared on Relationships topic. That's messed up and you didn't turn him in?
I mean how old was this kid? And was he breaking and entering? Did he have a fire arm? Or was he just stealing packages?
Either way hopefully that ex of yours did a lot of time behind bars.
Anyways no why would I love a criminal? They can rot in jail.01 Reply- +1 y
We were both 14 when we started dating. I found out about his actions around 16 so i was already in love with him by time i found out. We broke up for other reasons though. I was young and too scared and in love to turn him in. He didn't go to jail til much older and it was just for driving drunk so he never spent more than a few nights in jail sadly
Depends on the crime obviously murder and violent crimes are out, robery is out for me too. Also, drug dealers are out. But like a financial criminal yeah i could maybe... to be honest with you though hun if he's telling you he won't rob you as long as you let him come over you need to get him to go away. he's already manipulating you also I would hide your valuable things after he break up in case he decides to rob you. If he breaks in to steal from you call the police they will aek
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Bullshit! drug dealers are in! Drugs, guns, not stop partying, occasional police involvement, easy money, fast cars, hot sex..
No violence or dumb shit like armed robbery. All the fun without the scars from assaults or the psychopathy of the white-collar criminal. What's not to love? - +1 y
I WAS 14 at the time lol. He was my first nf and i didn't know until later in the relationship. Im 25 now
Yess.. me ex would steal money from her moms pocketbook after like a month we were going out she told me this. So at this point I was so into her, part of me didn't care.. love I mean lust is mad blind.. lolz 😹😂😹
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Wooooow
2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Does that include people who break/have broken the law by smoking weed or taking illegal drugs? It that's the case, my answer is yes. :-)
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Yep!! My ex above did all that
+1 yAs terrible as it sounds, yes. He sold drugs and participated in breaking and entering, robbery.
I was attracted to the wrong type of bad boy during my teenage years. I thought he was hot.02 Reply- +1 y
Sounds like my ex except he wasn't that hot and i didn't know he did those things initially
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Eh, I was tangled up in the wrong crowd for a while.
Lessons learned, however. 😊
I've never been in love with someone who I knew to be a criminal. However, I did love a girl who later became a criminal, but she was not one when I knew her until the very end.
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He didn't admit to being a criminal til after many months of dating
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That sucks. I don't know what is worse, them being a criminal and not admitting it until way down the road or watching an innocent person you love turn down the wrong road and being powerless to stop them. The girl I mentioned was a close friend who I was attracted to and who has saved my life. She suffered some trauma, turned to drugs and resorted to crime to feed her habits. Before the drugs she was an awesome person.
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SORry she took the wrong path
+1 yI haven't ever and I literally can't now. I could lose my law license voluntarily being that close to crime.
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Yea i was a kid at the time but i wouldn't now
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Live and learn. No shame in that.
871 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Nope. I've known 1 former criminal who was my boss at my first job. He had been in prison for dealing.
But, when he was my boss he talked openly about it and had let that time far behind him.00 Reply314 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Nope I don't got time to be dating no criminals. 😂 you where his safe place so he can just play xbox
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Lmao
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Leave me alone 😂
+1 yI’m in a relationship with one in prison. We talk everyday and I’ve known her several years. She’s an infamous one that I won’t name but her story has been on Deadly Women on ID.
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Ummm ok
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She is getting out soon
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Umm. Why?
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@Guardian45 parole. You don’t know who she is or anything about her so you can’t judge
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I'm not judging; I'm trying to understand. I was crazy for a HA enforcer
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@Guardian45 HA enforcer?
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Hell's Angels
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@Guardian45 a woman?
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Yep. She was about 5'4", 110 lbs, black belt, working as a bar bouncer.
A drunk picked a fight with her. She broke his nose, kicked him in the head, and broke his eye. She was arrested and charged with assault with deadly weapons. She got off.
Some HAs saw her in action and offered her 'well-paid work'. She accepted. - +1 y
@Guardian45 wow. I never knew the Angels would allow a woman such a position. Did you date?
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Ya. It's complicated. I told her I didn't want her going down this path. She said she'd think about it. I had to cut her loose. FML!😂
How about you? - +1 y
@Guardian45 I’m going to be with mine. I don’t have any doubts sleeping next to her. Parole success is 80% with murderers being the most successful. The 20% that return to prison are gang members, child molesters, rapists and just common criminals. There are evil murderers but they’re rare. The ones that happen in a moment of passion never kill again.
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So your girl is the latter?
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@Guardian45 second degree murder. There’s more to it but I’m not going to say because some might know who she is and she does still get hate mail from time to time. She got a rather light sentence because of her circumstances
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Ok. Sounds like you're on a good path with her. Best of luck! I wish you both peace and happiness!
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@Guardian45 thank you very much
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😎👍
+1 yGive him the Xbox and tell him to kick rocks. It would be worth not having that person around anymore period.
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I was 14 at the time. Im 25 now
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Hope it worked out for you
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Yea i dumped
Him
2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Yes. My first boyfriend the Mexican, was involved in illegal activities. His father was in the cartel but he was in jail. His older brother is in the cartel as well.
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Oh lawd
My ex wife tried it when I was still married to her and in the Army.
She busted up our family and he's doing 40 years in prison because he thought my ex-wife's cousin was prettier so he kidnapped her.
My ex-wife is still alone.03 Reply- +1 y
Whaaaaat
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Believe me. I was rocking in life! The white picket fence and every thing. I couldn't have made her life any better.
She did it in front of the whole town. Uh the town was small too!
About 30 Army guys including the police went to kill her and him literally! I had to stop them. The police gave me an opportunity to do it. That's crazy!
Broken hearts are true. A rel broken heart will take extremely long time to heal.
Mine is healed.
Does my girlfriend account although she not on the bad side of the law, she stole my heart. 🥰🥰
10 ReplyI dont have any real evidence, does dating someone really shady count?
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It can if they “stole” your heart
We all get hots for bad people from time to time. It ain't nothing new lmbo.
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Lol no im not into bad boys. He seemed like an innocent class clown. I found out the truth after we fell in love and i lost my virginity to him. So i was kinda hooked and it was kinda too late by time i fell out
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*found
1.8K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Hmm not that i’m aware of haha
Either i was and they were extremely good at hiding it from me OR not at all lol00 Reply2.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Not yet lol but I did like the willa ford I wanna be bad music video :)
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I don't know that one
1.7K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I have spent time in jail but can’t recall falling in love with a criminal.
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SO WOuld that make you the criminal
I've had plenty in love with me. I used to be on some gangster shit in high school but never got caught. All i have on my record is a dui and illegally transporting an illegal prescription.
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OH Wow
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big bad @Ratmuffin is out on the prowl... haulin them... KILOS... of PURBLE DRANK
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but don't worry @Ratmuffin i ain't no snitch...
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Lol. You seem like an upstanding gentleman @LEADFOOTboi
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at first i may seem brash and retarded, but people that really know me... they understand where i stand... some people blocc me before they get here... XD
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wow @Ratmuffin... what a kind soul...
+1 yI was in love with an idiot but as far as I'm aware she wasn't a criminal.
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Lol ok
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800 opinions shared on Relationships topic. He was charged with assault while I was dating him. Does that count?
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Yea he's a crook
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Yes!
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@LEADFOOTboi did turn out to be a false accusation. A girl kept hitting on him, he kept saying no, she didn't like that, so she went to the police and said he assaulted her numerous times. We were going out on a date and he was supposed to pick me up but he never did
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maybe you were being protected from something you dont want no part in...
6.7K opinions shared on Relationships topic. It doesn't matter. We are all criminals now. We all have MP3's or WMA's of our favorite copyrighted music, that we did not pay a single cent for.
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I dont. I always feared gettin in trouble for pirscy
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+1 yNo! Hahahaha. I avoid those people like the plague.
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I do too bt at the time i was 14 and didn't know he did those things
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Gotcha
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+1 yBoth my fiancée and myself would be criminals if we were caught having sex in public or smoke weed in a few states lol
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Yea im tryin not to go to jail for all the pub sex im into
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I am amazed I have not been throw in jail yet lol
1.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Well when I was in jail I was pen-pals with a girl that was also locked up. We did not know one another on the outside until after we got out. saw her once. Does that count? lol
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That counts
+1 yYup. When I still lived in Ireland. Tried to steal my dads tractor after a night of drinking and dad shot him in the leg not knowin it was him. Yeaaaaa that was the end of that relationship.
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Almost the end of his life 🙈
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+1 yYes, she was 4'10" and 100lbs soaking wet yet had two assault charges. Still found her hot anyway.
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😂😂😂
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Sounds familiar
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+1 yNope. Never dated anyone.
I feel bad for your ex but the pact that he made with you made me laugh.22 Reply- +1 y
Feel bad for him how? He was the criminal
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I know.
Like I'm feeling bad for all criminals in general. They're lives could've been better if they hadn't become one.
Nah, too lazy to deal with any potential future shit tbh.
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+1 yKinda ig... my one of my exes was in a gang apparently and I was kinda scared of him
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Oh yea I've been there
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Yea but i wasn't afraid of him like my peers were he was big and scary looking but i was more afraid for him than of him because he was working backwards while trying to move forward
997 opinions shared on Relationships topic. No, I'm not that trashy and I'm in love with the most wonderful woman in the world
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Trashy? Really... i was 14 and didn't know he was a criminal til much later
Ofc not. Criminals are weak minds... Id never fall for a week mind
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I didn't intentionally fall for a criminal. Found out later in the relationship
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I did
+1 yYes I have! I miss her she gets out of prison in 6 years for shooting her boyfriend. Caught him cheating.
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Were u the boyfriend she shot
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Nope I wasn't that would have been 2 hell of a tale.
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I would be concerned if I were you.
+1 yI still can't believe it. I had a crush on a beautiful woman, who was a serious member of a motorcycle gang.
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Daaamn
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Crazy, eh?😂🤣😂
+1 yGirls say they want the bad boys, and I tell them how I was convicted for war crimes in the Former Yugoslavia, but then they stop talking to me. How do I find a girl who wants a real bad boy? Help?
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+1 yYa criminals can also offer protective. Guys also like protective people.
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Yea i dont want to be with a criminal tho
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Seems like u have bad expreience with him though.
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yShe is not only my wife, she is mother of my children as well. So I will be careful with her habits and manners
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Oh okayy
4.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. absolutely, The FBI is now looking for her for identity theft and bank fraud.
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Damn
If being fucking selfish and jerk is a crime.
Yes , I had01 Reply- +1 y
Damn
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+1 yNot knowingly but perhaps if she was and I didn't know it.
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I didn't know at first
+1 yWell no. My ex would be of a different opinion though 😏
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Oh dang
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🤣🤣🤣 JK. The only thing illegal that I've ever done is use a proxy server to watch porn while on a trip to Dubai
Anonymous(25-29)+1 yNo I haven't been in love with someone villainous that doesn't appeal to me
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doesn't appeal to me either but sometimes it happens where u dont find out til later that theyre a bad guy
+1 yBoth me and my ex sell weed which is illegal in my country.
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+1 ySomebody love me😍😍😍
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Brittany's voice is like a duck, and that video is irrational they are standing in raining bullets and not even 1 bullet hit them😂😂
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Lmao
+1 yMaybe. But love is a strong word.
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Oh more so “in like”?
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Yeah. Exactly.
6.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Yeah, she stole my heart. 🤣
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Oh lordy
+1 yNever been in love with anyone.
10 ReplyYeah I been told I love my self all my life haha
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Loll
+1 yNo, I haven’t fallen for a criminal
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Lucky
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