I felt the need to answer this. It’s pretty much how me and my boyfriend met. I was first dating his mate whom I had known for a while. One day, the guy I was seeing randomly sent me a picture of himself and a group of other guys in the background (they were his mates). The moment I save the picture, I really couldn’t help finding myself being attracted to one guy specifically in the picture. Something about him called out to me even if it was through a picture. I remember asking the guy I was seeing questions about the guy from the picture. He immediately understood what was going on and became defensive and jealous, but I couldn’t help it. I’m a loyal person and something like that is out of character for me, but I felt like I had no control (the way you said it in your question).
Needless to say, my interested started to fade for the guy I was seeing.
Fast forward two years and he calls me (even though he was married now) and called his mate to tell him there was someone interested in him. His mate from the picture texted me that night and we’re together since and so happy! He was the missing piece!!
Moral of the story is that sometimes when things like that happen, they’re meant to be! ❤️
Yeah, but it means nothing to me. I think my man is everything so attractive people are just easy on the eyes. Nothing I'm interested in or willing to act upon.
Not at all. If I’m with someone than most of the time I only have eyes for them. Even now, I see and notice attractive people because I’m not blind of course but that doesn’t change the love, interest, nor attraction that I have for the person I’m with. There will be attractive people everywhere besides the friend but I don’t allow myself to get carried away with some imagination and infatuation because someone is good looking.
I acknowledge someone’s beauty and keep it moving.
my last one had just jerks as friends. One with two brain cells among guys with vacuum in their heads is the king. LOL Two brain cells were for me just not good enough.
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