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Yeah, but it means nothing to me. I think my man is everything so attractive people are just easy on the eyes. Nothing I'm interested in or willing to act upon.20
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Not at all. If I’m with someone than most of the time I only have eyes for them. Even now, I see and notice attractive people because I’m not blind of course but that doesn’t change the love, interest, nor attraction that I have for the person I’m with. There will be attractive people everywhere besides the friend but I don’t allow myself to get carried away with some imagination and infatuation because someone is good looking.
I acknowledge someone’s beauty and keep it moving.10
my last one had just jerks as friends. One with two brain cells among guys with vacuum in their heads is the king. LOL
Two brain cells were for me just not good enough.10
Hasn't happened to me. Sure, I appreciate it if his friends are good looking but they automatically become platonic and brotherly in my eyes.
Not sure if it's the same for the guys?0
No they shouldn’t be even if they were attracted which is something you can acknowledge they shouldn’t act on it0
Uh yeah. For years I found my brothers roommate unbelievably handsome.10
Attraction is never a choice... Choice is what you do about it20
People can develop feelings for others even just by looking at them, what more if they are bonding?0
That has never happened to me, but I'm sure it has to others.0
I don't think so. You should only have eyes for your guy0
Yes😅 I'm attracted to one of my boyfriend's teammate.1
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I felt the need to answer this. It’s pretty much how me and my boyfriend met. I was first dating his mate whom I had known for a while. One day, the guy I was seeing randomly sent me a picture of himself and a group of other guys in the background (they were his mates). The moment I save the picture, I really couldn’t help finding myself being attracted to one guy specifically in the picture. Something about him called out to me even if it was through a picture. I remember asking the guy I was seeing questions about the guy from the picture. He immediately understood what was going on and became defensive and jealous, but I couldn’t help it. I’m a loyal person and something like that is out of character for me, but I felt like I had no control (the way you said it in your question).
Needless to say, my interested started to fade for the guy I was seeing.
Fast forward two years and he calls me (even though he was married now) and called his mate to tell him there was someone interested in him. His mate from the picture texted me that night and we’re together since and so happy! He was the missing piece!!
Moral of the story is that sometimes when things like that happen, they’re meant to be! ❤️
I hope it lasts sweetheart. Soulmates could be anyone. Im just glad that you didn't hurt guy 1.
@carebear33 Thank you!! No the first guy is married and happy. It was meant to be for us two I guess 😍