The result is that in the past few months we had been dating, he accumulated some 4K in his account, and I am barely making ends meet. I usually set aside most of my pay, and waste about £30 on food p. w. but since we started ‘living together’ I need to side £20 for food because his portions are x2/3 higher than mine.
I don’t want to seem entitled but I also feel like if I was in his place I wouldn’t put so much financial strain on my partner. I did, at some point, date someone who earned 1/3 of what I earned and there the arrangement was that I paid for 2/3s of everything because I knew he was struggling with money.
Am I being entitled or is he being too strict?
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At the end of the day your both being clowns if you are there 5 days a week you should be contributing just because he earns more don't mean all responcabilty is on him lol if u can't afford to pay as much maybe do more of the chores to equate that but if he feels you are not doing enough somthing is gonna have to change be it the arrangement or the relationship