WHY CAN'T I EVER BE SOMEONE'S FIRST CHOICE?

[Anonymous]

In every single relationship I've been in, I'm always the side chic
Am I not good enough to be someone's first choice?

[websterII]

your standards are too low.. and.. perhaps your looking for love.. i dont think u can find love if you look for it..(cus your prob looking for the wrong things in the worst places) it's something that just happens when your happy healthy surrounded by friends. Sharing time and common interests and activities. Suddenly one day you come to realize one of those friends is much much more. mutually hopefully. and it will prob be the person who was spending the most time with you.. so you already know your where they want to be.. your their center and their number 1.

[Daniel3035]

Gosh you're under 18 and struggling with so many choices. Be glad you even have someone im 24 never met a girl.
You girls don't even understand yourself here's example one of what guys go through with every girl.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DZTIbHIsIYw&t=3s

[Smoke-n-Growls]

I mean, don't let yourself be a side chick. Reject ones who have partners already.

Don't accept a cheater.

[Asker]

Funny thing is I always find out when im attached

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Make a habit of making sure, then.

Don't let someone take advantage of you.

[Cherokeehp]

If you were always the side chick then you’ve never been in a relationship.

[winterfox10]

It's possible that you aren't anyone's first choice because you've never actually demanded it from anyone.

I am a firm believer that we attract people who behave how we see ourselves. Which means that you're going to need to demand certain treatment.

[ThatGuy133]

Don't settle for guys like that. If you got to know the guy a bit more you can see beforehand if your are #1 or on the backburner.

Also did you think maybe it's your choice of guy that is causing problems? There can't be that many guys that act like that

[chriscdi]

that all depends if you are relationship material, for example, a girl thats relationship material wouldn't let herself be a side chick, she would separate from that person after knowing she is the third in the relationship

[Anonymous]

you're a side chick because you choose to be a side chick.. when you realize that, when you take responsibility for your own situation, your life, your situation will change.

[Opinion Owner]

A single downvote from a simp.. how cute.

[ItsTheNephilim]

Then don't allow guys to consider you as a side chick. Always know your worth.

[slatyb]

You are the side chick because you are willing to settle for that. Don't be, and you won't be.

[loveslongnails]

You're too young to be singing the blues. It will happen. You just haven't met the right person yet, and you will.

[In_Trance]

Because you gravitate towards people who treat you as the second choice and you won't walk away. You need to break the cycle

[Thatsamazing]

Well gal without knowing you personally, it's really pretty hard for us to say. Sorry.

[Shamalien]

you let yourself be the side chick thus that becomes all you deserve

[Avaemmaa]

You’re good enough girl be patient

[Taktagamo_Monisense]

Apparently not :/ Oh well

[Smirnoff23]

Be more assertive