Do you think women cheating is more devastating to guys than what happens to women when guys cheat?

[Light_beam]

I think handling cheating is way more hard for guys.

[NamerOfStars]

I think it depends more on the intensity of commitment to the relationship. Both how much it means to each partner and how much they define themselves as being in a partnership. A casual thing isn't going to hurt as much as someone you're in love with. I've known people of both genders at both extremes, so I don't know how much sex enters into it.

[Light_beam]

That makes sense too

[el_Te_de_la_Rosa]

Maybe, there is a difference. I still think it equally hurts. I'm not a man. I can't tell how much he's going to be suffer.

For what men mentioned that women will find a new partner soon. It's easy. Not really. It's harder for her because every new man she meets would come with questions like, "So, is this man the same?" "Is he just looking for free booty?" "Would he leave after he gets what he wants?"

To find a man who wants you might not be difficult.
To find a man who wants to stay with you for the whole life is a challenge.

[kaylaS91]

I don't think how devastating cheating is is decided on a case by case basis, rather than being dependent on gender. Taking things like how invested both parties were, how long the cheating was going on for, whether it was being hidden for a while before coming clean or if it was found out about pretty quick, etc..

[Light_beam]

You make a good point sure.. But there is a huge emotional and ego difference between guys and girls..

[kaylaS91]

okay... how so?

[Light_beam]

This needs time to be explained.. plus we as guys are known to be horny dogs... lol i mean we cheat mostly for sex.. just hormones but girls? When a girl have sex? It is much much deeper, emotional and meaningful...
Thus it is really devastating

[kaylaS91]

You mean you’ve never met a girl who’s horny, and think the only reason chicks cheat is because sex with someone other than their partner is ‘emotional and meaningful’?

[Light_beam]

Yes , honestly i didn't meet a girl like that... i live in a conservative society.. but i can think there are girls like that.. but they are the minority... i am talking about the majority here..

[Light_beam]

Would you have sex with another guy only becoz you are horny?

[kaylaS91]

okay so you''re speaking on purely anecdotal terms.
Why do you ask?

[Light_beam]

No.. Not that.. i am just telling yiu what i used to think... but i am open to hear and learn from others..

[kaylaS91]

so you USED to think that 'there is a huge emotional and ego difference between guys and girls', then assumed a mere difference means that ALL guys will be more devastated by being cheated on?

[Light_beam]

I still think that as i said.. butt i am open to think about what you will say..
Sorry, Is this argument annoying to you? You don't seem ok !

[kaylaS91]

nah, I'm not annoyed at all. I just used caps because there's no option to use italics for emphasis :P

[Light_beam]

Haha then fine... if you wanna talk more about that... we can pm, can't we?

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

I would say it’s about the same just the difference matters on how the individual (victim) choose to proceed and process things.


Guys may have a bit more of an emphasis to “suck it up” which is somewhat enforced by society, culture , fellow men, etc. Women deal with their emotions more efficiently than men by allowing themselves to actually go through their emotions immediately rather than put them in a metaphorical box like men.


Everyone is human and we all deal with pain differently but nonetheless we still all feel.

[OlderAndWiser]

Somebody gets their hand cut off. Somebody else gets their foot cut off. Is there really any value in trying to decide which one tenderized the worse injury?

[hellionthesagereborn]

Yes but not because of the personal differences. That is the issue isn't that its worse for men or women but that society treats it completely differently. If a woman gets cheated on she can set fire to the guys car and no one will bat an eye. She can divorce him, take his money, take his house, take his car, and take his children from him.

However when a man gets cheated on society looks at him like he is pathetic like some how he wasn't good enough and thats why she did it. If he is cheated on, SHE can divorce HIM, take HIS money, take HIS house, take HIS car, and take HIS children from him. He has no recourse so not only is he left with the betrayal but he is also left with society judging HIM, and society punishing HIM for it.

With no recourse and no justice their is no closure or sympathy for him and so its like an open wound for the rest of his life.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

No one will bat an eye? If he has prove he can sue her ass for property damage.

[hellionthesagereborn]

@ThisIsMyOpinion Women are almost never convicted (I believe they are 160% less likely to be convicted of a crime compared to a man) and their punishments are a third of what men get for the same crime. So yeah, no one bats an eye when she flips out and destroys his shit because society thinks he deserves it.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

@hellionthesagereborn it is very unfair that men get longer sentences and are more likely to be put in jail. Still if there are proof I can still get her to pay for the damage she caused.

[hellionthesagereborn]

@ThisIsMyOpinion A woman bashed a mans face in with a beer mug and he had to get fifteen stitches, all because he tried to hit on her, she was let off with a warning despite it being her second time doing so.

Another threw a laptop at her ex's head and then proceeded to stab him in the leg while she was high. She then violated the terms of the restraining order by contacting him. Since she was going to a good school the judge did not charge her with anything and she was never punished for it.

A man was cheated on by his wife, she got pregnant and said it was his. After ten years of raising the little girl as his own she divorced him, took his money, took everything from him, took the little girl who had raised as his daughter then told him she had cheated on him through out this entire time period and was marrying the other guy and also the little girl he had thought was his daughter wasn't his. She then proceeded to sue him for child support. The courts, knowing the situation told him he was allowed to either completely cut out this girl from his life and abandon her and that was the only way he was going to ever get out of paying child support or he could not abandon her and he would have to pay child support to a child the courts knew wasn't his if he claimed that she was anyway.

[hellionthesagereborn]

@ThisIsMyOpinion A taxi driver was accused of rape by three women. However he was the one who called the cops on them because they after saying many racial slurs to him didn't want to pay him for the ride, so the cops arrested him after he was accused. The camera in his cab showed he had not done anything to them and he was let out. He tried to press charges and the police denied him saying they wouldn't do it despite the fact that they falsely accused him of rape.

According to the court ruling of hermsman vs seyer no matter the circumstances a male is always required to pay child support. In this particular case it was a 12 year old boy who was forced to pay child support to his babysitter who raped him. Its been upheld in every such case since.

If you think the courts are going to side with you, your in a rude awakening. Don't get me wrong, if you are wronged then I hope they do side with you but that is not what reality shows will happen.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

@hellionthesagereborn last year in my country in the first three months of the year 12 women died at the hands of their husbands. Most of them had already went to the police station and begged for help. None was given.

Same year, a bartender and a bouncer raped a girl inside a club after hours. The hole thing was caught on camera. Nothing happened to them. It was recorded even her passing out at some point and they kept going. Zero days in jail.

Same year, a women cheated on her husband. Both the husband and the lover beat the living shit out of her WHIT A BAT WITH NAILS CRAVED ON IT! They completely disfigurated her.
They were let go with zero consequences because and I quote the judge "Being cheated on is such a shame for men that I get why they did it."

See? Crap happens to everyone.
Not just men.

[hellionthesagereborn]

@ThisIsMyOpinion Yeah, now how many men died at the hands of their wives? Well you won't know because we don't keep track of that. Statistically men are raped by women at comparable rates as women being raped by men yet we don't even acknowledge it. statistically women are actually more abusive then men, 70% of all non reciprocal violence perpetrated between intimate partners is perpetrated by women against men, when its reciprocal its 50/50. Despite this fact abuse laws really only apply to men never women. 80% of suicides are male, 80% of homeless are male, 98% of combat deaths, military and civilian, are male, 97% of workplace accidents and deaths are male, in most countries paternity fraud is legal, in most nations fathers have few if any paternity rights and/or reproductive rights, they are discriminated against in schools, etc. etc. etc.

I'm not here to argue with you on this point, what I stated is fact, its a fact that holds true in almost every nation if not all of them. Whether or not you believe it is irrelevant. I never claimed that bad things cannot happen to women at any point in time, what I stated was that when a woman does wrong their is no recourse for the man, no one gives a damn about him, they do however when it happens to a woman.

The irony is your argument actually further proves my point (all the statistics aside) as I am pointing out an issue and your response is to ignore the problem and argue that because on rare occasion something bad happens to women ( a straw man argument since at no point did I argue it doesn't (in fact in my example I pointed to something bad happening to women (being cheated on by a man)) that everything I stated is some how invalidated. Your dismissing it because its an issue that faces men and not women ergo it doesn't count in your eyes.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

@hellionthesagereborn I would like to see your response to what I will say bellow. I am not going to say you are wrong. No. I will just add more stats, true stats, to yours.
It's funny how you talk about facts, but you dismiss when another also posts them.
You just want to see the world your way without even listening to others.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

@hellionthesagereborn Actually we do keep track of that. In my country 4 men and 39 women died of domestic violence last year. Not even close.

Men still are still the majority of abusers in a 40%-60%.

From here I don't know what those stats have to do with the conversation, but let's adress it.

Women actually attempt suicide more often, they just tend to use less effective methods.
Insufficiente income and expensive housing are the main reasons for men homlesness. Domestic violence is the number one reason for women.
Men do chose more dangerous jobs. Their own choice to do so.
The military efficiency drops when women are drafted. This has been tested so why recruit women to war? That would increase the risk to lose battles.

All of those are also facts. Feel free to look it up.

I actually started by adressing the problem. I said that I would sue her for property damage. You claimed that they are always heard and men were silenced so there was no point. I gave you examples of how that is not the case proving that there is a point in suing them.
That was all. I was adressing the main issue by showing you that yes men are heard. We don't need to be afraid to go to court.

You were the one who started to vomit some random stats that had nothing to do with the conversation.

[hellionthesagereborn]

@ThisIsMyOpinion Yeah, you can claim a stat is true but saying it will not make it so. First and foremost, as stated, when you don't acknowledge male victims your obviously going to have wrong stats. However what I stated (and by the way you did state that I was wrong when you stated "The True facts") was independent of that.
now I'm going to provide you the sources for my statements, I know your going to dismiss it because you don't like what they say, your going to say it doesn't count because "my country doesn't do that" or "its a bias source so even though its methodology is fine it doesn't count"(I know, your not going to be self aware enough to state that but it will be along those lines), but I will still provide the sources just to hammer home that you are wrong.

www.medicaldaily.com/domestic-violence-against-men-women-more-likely-be-intimate-terrorists-controlling-behavior-290662
http://www.newscastmedia.com/domestic-violence.htm
www.thenewamerican.com/.../19133-women-more-likely-to-commit-domestic-violence-studies-show
www.saveservices.org/.../
fathersforlife.org/fv/fbi_spousal_murder_stats.htm
www.fatherly.com/.../
www.law.umich.edu/.../...r_gender_disparities.aspx
journals.sagepub.com/.../0887403412466877
journalistsresource.org/.../
www.dailywire.com/.../dear-feminists-men-have-it-worse-all-areas-chase-stephens

[hellionthesagereborn]

@ThisIsMyOpinion Now I know your going to try and argue but I'm not going to have it, unless your going to own up to being wrong and move along I'm not discussing this further because quite frankly I'm sick and tired of ignorant and intellectually dishonest and weak people trying to dismiss reality when it doesn't suit their agenda. Believe me, I would very much like to be advantaged in life, but that is not how it works and every single bit of data and every interaction you and i have ever had with women shows that this is the case. The very fact that you would ignore reality (as you will, this is literally an every day occurence for me at this point I have no hope in anyone ever admitting being wrong when faced with actual data) in favor of trying to show women as helpless and in need for ever more rights and privileges is evidence of my point.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

@hellionthesagereborn You are literally doing what you are accusing me of.

What do you want me to do? Not give here the stats that I found and just say "yes yes yes" with you? Not post here the info that I find?

You only believe the stats you have? Everything that doesn't fits into what you believ emust be wrong right?

I did gave you the number of male victims right after you said they are not even counted! How I am not adressing male victims?

I never said your stats were wrong. I never said they were false. I simply showed you some more stats.

I never said men are advantaged in life. I never said that women are advantaged in life. Both genders have their problems and issues worthy talking about.
My issue with what you put here is that you ignore what doesn't fit to your views. /0% of non reciprocal violence is done by women, yes. But men still are the majority of abusers 40-60%.

That is the true. I am saying men have it all good. But to say that women also do is wrong.

Shit happens! The world is bad! Simple as that.

[hellionthesagereborn]

@ThisIsMyOpinion Not at all. Your making claims, I'm stating those are provably false, I then provided you the sources to show that they are provably false and then gave the explanation for why you get your stats which is we don't actually treat men and women the same so women are let off the hook more so they don't get recorded for doing wrong like men are and in most studies done men and women are not given the same questions, once they are it is found that the stats that you are claiming are true are not. Hence me providing the sources for my statements.

You also stated what you said were facts and to look them up, I did (long before we ever had this conversation, hence me having these opinions to begin with) and I provided you the sources that showed you were wrong (which you refuse to respond to as I stated you would).

Further your providing ancedotal evidence of wrong doing which isn't real evidence. I can provide all sorts of ancedotes too, Arturo Gotti had muscle relaxants put into his beer, had abrasions on his neck from were he was strangled with his wifes purse strap which occured after he told her he was going to divorce her and get absolutely nothing and she was the only person in the room when he died and the athorities, despite the blood on the purse strap, said he died of natural causes. A wife poured acid and an accelerant on her husband and then set him on fire burning him alive. Lots of ancedotes exist, thats why I pointed out these ancedotes along side the statistical data that shows these things are not uncommon.

Meanwhile your showing ancedotes of rare incidents of wrong doing against women, statistically 70% of all violent crime victims are male and the more violent the crime the more likely the victim is to be male.

[hellionthesagereborn]

@ThisIsMyOpinion Further your arguing something that I never argued. I never once, not ONCE did I suggest that nothing bad happens to women. yet here you are arguing it, again even after I already stated that yes bad things can happen to women. But just because bad things happen to women doesn't mean they happen to women more or equal to men. Men have bad things happen to them at far higher rates and we know this because I linked all the pertinent data showing this fact.

Again, your doing precisely what I said you were going to do, you don't want to admit to reality so your just going to repeat something over and over again in the hopes that some how reality will change, but it won't. you ignored the data I presented and tried to pretend it was never presented but it was. This is the truth and it will remain the truth regardless of whether or not you accept it.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

Let me try to find the sources of my information. I don't keep the links saved just for when I might need them.

Here shows the differences between sexes in suicide.
www.verywellmind.com/gender-differences-in-suicide-methods-1067508

This one is Portuguese. Is about domestic violence. It has the number of deaths per gender I showed you.
apav.pt/apav_v3/index.php/pt/estatisticas-apav

Here as you can see the number one cause of homelessness in women is domestic violence. For men is Insufficient income and lack of affordable housing.
nlchp.org/.../Homeless_Stats_Fact_Sheet.pdf

The fact that women decrease the military efficiency and the fact that men pick more dangerous jobs on avaregae I believe I don't have to find my source since it's a no brainer.

Those were the things that I said.

You say that women don't get recorded doing anything wrong. You also said that male domestic victims also were not recorded and I proved you wrong. So maybe the world is not as bias as you think when they do these stats.

About those murder cases I am sure that if I look it up I will find my horrific deaths of women at the hands of their husbands so your point is?
In fact I already gave you examples of it happening last year in my country.

Most victims of a violent crime are men. Yes I also saw that one. Things is most people that make those crimes are also men...

I agree that men have more things bad happening to them. But most of them, like the previous example, are cause by men! Not women! You know that men are in average much more likely to commit a crime, to consume drugs, develop a gambling addiction, to drop out of school, to join a gang, etc. And you want to blame women for it? Men own destructive behaviour is to blame.

You have my sources, I can get you more if you want and there is the actual truth. Feel free to deny it all you want.

[ranger3456]

I have zero sympathy for women getting cheated on when they allow a system that puts them in a position of power to ruin a mans life with only her word alone. Women will divorce you the moment you are no longer useful and they will take your wealth your house your kids and they will manipulate them to hate you. Women lie cheat and steal everything from men and FEMINISM has allowed women to do this to us.

Women hate men and women try to make men feel responsible for our failures framing everything to be our fault when its women who ruin lives.

Dont bother with women or feel sorry for them and NEVER trust them. They won't ever be behind you for support. They will only ever stab you in the back.

[Anonymous]

I think cheating is devastating both ways. It's a horrible, selfish, cowardly thing to do. For me, cheating is unforgivable. I would never trust the person again.

[Opinion Owner]

I notice some guys are saying it's less devastating for women because women can get a new guy more easily. That's not entirely true, and even if it is, our confidence has been shaken and our ability to trust has been destroyed.

[Light_beam]

Still, Guys are way more devastated !

[AmourHoney]

no it’s hard for any gender to experience something like that. emotions are emotions. gender doesn’t make a difference here, we both feel heartbreak the same way.

[Light_beam]

Guys are weaker..

[Alaistair]

Cheating is no way connected to the gender, back in the day when masculinity used to have so much importance it would be relative safe to say guys won't be able to handle being cheated on compared to women. Nowdays more than ever guys are getting in touch with their feelings they understand women better. But meh it's just my opinion

[G3tAClue]

I don’t think this is a gender issue at all. How emotionally invested people are has a huge part to play in how they will take the news. I know that I would be absolutely heart broken and in tremendous pain if my boyfriend broke up with me. He has dreamed about me cheating on him and I have to reassure him that I would never do that to him. So it goes both ways.

[Billie_]

I think it is harder for men to handle than women yes, I agree. You always see women taking their cheating men back, you rarely see it the other way around.

[ryantangle]

Why do you think woman want their cheaters back in such high numbers? Why dont they just forgive and move on instead of forgive and start again

[Light_beam]

An honest answer.. Thank you dear

[PonyCarGirl98]

Maybe you say that because you're a guy, which is understandable, that's your perspective.
I think dealing with someone cheating on you is hard no matter what sex you are..

I have been cheated on and it was terrible for me..

There's the idea that men cheat for physical reasons, while women cheat for emotional reasons. That's simply not true. And cheating is inexcusable...

[RemoErdosain]

I agree. Plenty of women cheating for physical reasons, and like you said, it's inexcusable always

[Light_beam]

@PonyCarGirl98 I am sure it was terrible for you ? Can i know what happened exactly? can i pm you?

[PonyCarGirl98]

@Light_beam sure..

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Yes because it shatters our ego completely, when a man feels he "failed" to keep his woman loyal, it's like the highest form of emasculation. No wonder more men commit suicide after breakups than women.

[Light_beam]

Yea that is right

[worldscolide]

I think its more devastating to guys because... If a man cheats its his fault, he did something wrong... If a woman cheats its the mans fault because he did something wrong.. No matter the situation its always his fault according to society.. Its also why if someone cheats on me, that's the end. i never give second chances because the moment someone chooses that kind of betrayal they stop being a human person to me..

[Marilynjuana]

In my opinion, when we're talking about the majority, men and women's egos are very very different.. A part of me thinks that it would be more devastating to a man because it's almost like losing his masculinity. In today's society, if a man cheats he's just a whore, but a woman cheating IS, more often than not, viewed a bit differently. This is an OPINION based on personal experience. Don't get your knickers in a twist.

[RemoErdosain]

So you think nowadays it's well-seen if a woman cheats on a guy, but not the other way around?

[Marilynjuana]

No never said that.

[RemoErdosain]

What do you mean, then? I'm not judging you, just really didn't understand

[Marilynjuana]

I’m only talking from personal experience, things might also be a tad different here in the Baltics. Women cheating is ofter turned around to the man, with the mindset “How could HE let himself be cheated on”. Of course the cheating bitch is shamed in every way for her actions. But the pity that is laid onto the man, in my opinion, hits a bit differently. To me it’s an issue with masculinity, not an issue but a reason why men, in my opinion, are more damaged through cheating. Not saying that women are not damaged.

[Marilynjuana]

I try explain very carefully without being offensive, else I’ll be called sexist. I hope you still get what I mean.

[RemoErdosain]

I get what you mean, yes, thanks for taking the time to explain, now it's much clearer

[Light_beam]

Actually i agree with you? what personal experience are you talking about?

[Marilynjuana]

@Light_beam I am glad I didn’t offend you hahah. But. It is simply something I have seen happen with my guy friends, something I have had open discussions about with dome of them. Men tend to struggle with something that us, women, don’t know much about - their sense of masculinity. Yes we want to be “equal” and feel the same things but whether you like it or not, men and women are wired differently.

[Light_beam]

Ahhh ! That is really very thoughtful.. I want to pm you , ok?

[PaganWarrior]

Equal. Both go through this crap the same way.

[Light_beam]

Your pagan?

[PaganWarrior]

Yes. Why?

[Anonymous]

I agree to a certain extent considering more guys are territorial when it comes to being in a relationship , where a girl is more carefree , But all in all being cheated on hurts period , Me personally would never take a cheater back into my life , I just move on

[Rebecka33]

Honestly I was the girl tha twouldve left the guy if he cheated and guess what i was the one who ended up cheating in my 40s cause i was dealing with a lot of things my mom died and I never had father figure so I was numb and he forgave me. So I learned a lot over last few years never say never.

[Light_beam]

Wow ! I wanna know more about that.. Can i pm you?

[Rebecka33]

Sure.

[Light_beam]

Thanks

[silvermoon84]

It’s devastating for both genders but to be honest, I think it’s harder for guys to get over.

[Light_beam]

Have you ever cheated?

[silvermoon84]

@Light_beam, no but I’ve been cheated on and I know people (of both genders) who did.

[Light_beam]

Can you tell me why would a girl cheat?

[silvermoon84]

I couldn’t specifically explain that because I never did it. Some people think we cheat when we feel we’re not getting attention but it my opinion that’s just a way to shift blame on the guy. Cheating is a character flaw that the cheater alone is responsible for.

[Light_beam]

Right ! Thank you.. You wanna chat?

[destrosio]

I don't think it's more devastating for men than for women or vice versa.
Normally the first time is devastating, the second time it hurts, the third time ok after you don't give a damn and you become cynical.

[Thatsamazing]

The term "cheating" is erroneous and stupid, and no one should use it.

[talulahbee]

It's exactly the same... people invest the same emotions feel the same things. Maybe express them differently but the feeling are the same.

[Murad_ABK]

It's the same I guess, plus that depends on how much a person love himself and his partner, people with deeper feelings who trust their partners will feel it devastating more than someone not that serious and doesn't love his partner as the one !

[Lilyana15]

I think it is equally rough. care to go more in bepth and we can talk on a deeper note

[Light_beam]

yea, why not?

[Anonymous]

[Light_beam]

Perfect

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Word for word accurate.

[Slim57]

Yeah but only because women can find someone so much easier, when guys get cheated on if they really care for the girl it hurts them so bad they get down on themselves and are off putting to women

[Light_beam]

I agree

[lanadelrey25]

I don't know about other women but I'd probably kill myself if my husband cheated. Both my grandmothers and my mother have been cheated on and they pulled through like champs, on the outside anyways

[Light_beam]

You are 19 ? and married?

[lanadelrey25]

I was speaking theoretically

[Light_beam]

Oh , coz you said husband.. you didn't say a boyfriend

[PaganWarrior]

Kill yourself over one guy? Don't be silly. You're young, and there is many men out there who are better then morons. NEVER allow some man to have that much of a hold on you. Get over him, have a cry first, and move on.

[lanadelrey25]

@PaganWarrior Haha, I appreciate you're kindness, but until I get my unstable depression under control, that's more than likely what would happen.

[Cherokeehp]

I think it’s equally devastating.

[Light_beam]

Sorry, you don't know how guys feel !

[Cherokeehp]

Sorry, you don’t know how girls feel!

[OddBeMe]

It’s devastating to both genders. But for guys, there is something about penetration. Like I wouldn’t mind as much- I think- if she had sex with another woman. Maybe it’s my own sexual perversity.

[MountAverage]

No, that makes zero sense. It depends on the individual's personality, on the relationship, the circumstances, etc. - these are the things that determine how devastating it is for someone. Not gender.

[NorthShoreCalling]

Yep exactly. Any good therapist will concur.

[Liam_Hayden]

No. Cheaters are sh*tty people, so you dump them, move on, and enjoy your life free of that bullsh*t.

[Alexandrubaschet08]

The woman cheating on the man is much more traumatic.
This is one of the reasons why men are more prevalent in:
- suicides
- crime
- mental illness

[msc545]

Yes. Its fairly easy for a woman to find another guy - not as easy for a man to find another woman.

[CtrlAltSmash]

Cheating is a breach of trust and can be devastating, regardless of gender.

[bamesjond0069]

Yes. Its not even the same thing. Womens sexual commitment is the top priority for men. Whereas mens sexual fidelity is one of the least important things to most women.

[stickytoes]

Where did you get that from?

[bamesjond0069]

@stickytoes life experience.

[Light_beam]

@stickytoes :D :D

[Anonymous]

Don't be ridiculous. It's devastating to ANYONE who has invested their heart.

[Brendan824]

No if anything I think it's harder on women because it destroys they're self esteem and it'll be like that for some instances probably their entire life

[AkshiJanjua]

Yes because girls can get new guys easily and it makes the man feel inadequate

[jestergent]

It is most the time. I've read much on it.

[Light_beam]

Why did you read on it?

[jestergent]

Wisdom. Knowledge.

[downimdown]

I think it hurts whos truly in love if your not why would it hurt

[Anonymous]

It’s not a gender specific issue

[Light_beam]

It is if you think about it

[Opinion Owner]

Disagree

[lilbishlilbish]

i dont think it has to do with gender but ok

[In_Trance]

I don't think it's harder for one over the other

[Katerose100]

It’s about the same.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

No. Why would it be harder for guys?

[Iron_Man]

It’s the same

[Anonymous]

No
Quiet the contrary actually.

[GreenGold1992]

I think it's devastating either way

[manthan_7]

It doesn't based on gender I think