I have my 25 week scan coming up next week im going to find out my babys gender
I hate saying this because I don't want to sound like a b**ch but I don't want him to come.. I haven't heard from him in over a week since we officially split, and then his mother (who im close with) came over for a visit yesterday.
Then it just so happens I hear from him today and he checking that he'll meet me for the scan next week! (I have a feeling that his mum spoke to him - as I know he definitely wouldn't of remembered the date of scan)
i really prefer to go by myself so I can enjoy it, I know if he comes that i will feel uncomfortable and won't enjoy it as much
So I don't know what to do about the scan, should i tell him no or should I only let him come in to see 5mins of it?