Once someone cheats, there is no relationship to work on in my opinion, trust and respect are two foundations of a relationship... Not only does someone that cheats break that trust, but they didn't have respect enough not only to think how that would affect/hurt someone, but they also didn't give the respect to come to you with any issues before cheating... So for me, that's deal breaker there
I agree with you, however other people have different opinions. I know a couple who have worked on their relationship after one was unfaithful, it worked for them but I believe once a cheat always a cheat.
Oh I think in some rare situations people can move past it or at least stay together, but I personally think it'd always be there between us... For me once that trust broken, really hard to keep trusting someone and that's anyone that lies
Personally I disagree it does take 2 to make a relationship but it can only take 1 to break a relationship because they could do something that their partner can never forgive them for
The second one. If someone cheats that's not necessarily on their partner. While sometimes they can create a toxic environment that might lead to them being cheated on, sometimes people just do shitty things for no reason.
I slept in so far. Lol I'm planning an xbox day for me and to check out some new games i got. Also planning to move the ps4 into my room. I haven't thought past that lol
My mom usually makes a dinner for me. Its been a family tradition for years. But this year i asked if we could get some french pastries instead of a cake. My mom and i can only eat them since my dad is gluten intolerant. Lol
Fair point as there are often exceptions to most things - especially stuff related to people. And I can see how if one of the two just went off and did something totally on their own in a selfish type of way it could ruin the relationship to no fault of the other person - so yes, now that I think about it... lots of exceptions.
Bit of both. There are many factors that contribute to the failing of a relationship, sometimes it can just be one person, like domestic violence, or cheating.
Absolutely takes two, just as it takes two to argue. One can disagree with themselves internally but to argue takes two. That burden also falls on the deterioration of crumbling relationships.
Also, let me add to clarify, removing one’s self from a disaster in the making isn’t considered breaking a relationship that was etched in stone to fail for the infidelities of one. However, staying in such circumstances is both foolish and contributes to the breaking of that tumultuous relationship.
I made mistakes dont get me wrong. However when my ex girlfriend left me and cut me out of her life it was all her choice and it was all out of my hands which was a very painful realization so i think it can be just one person can end a relationship.
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I'm not so sure. . . If one cheats, I have to wonder why, and why they never said anything before cheating, if there was a problem.
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It takes two no matter what. Even if someone cheats, if YOU choose to forgive them then YOU have to work at it aswell as they do.
Once someone cheats, there is no relationship to work on in my opinion, trust and respect are two foundations of a relationship... Not only does someone that cheats break that trust, but they didn't have respect enough not only to think how that would affect/hurt someone, but they also didn't give the respect to come to you with any issues before cheating... So for me, that's deal breaker there
I agree with you, however other people have different opinions. I know a couple who have worked on their relationship after one was unfaithful, it worked for them but I believe once a cheat always a cheat.
Oh I think in some rare situations people can move past it or at least stay together, but I personally think it'd always be there between us... For me once that trust broken, really hard to keep trusting someone and that's anyone that lies
It only requires one to break up but it does require two make a relationship work. These numbers shouldn't be confused with each other.
Agree
Personally I disagree it does take 2 to make a relationship but it can only take 1 to break a relationship because they could do something that their partner can never forgive them for
Very true
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The second one. If someone cheats that's not necessarily on their partner. While sometimes they can create a toxic environment that might lead to them being cheated on, sometimes people just do shitty things for no reason.
Yeah ain't that the truth there
Two to make, one to break. I did everything I possibly could to save my marriage, she was just done.
Sorry 💜
Thank you.. 😔
Are you trying to date again? Or just staying single?
Trying to date, but my circumstances make that difficult.
Sorry to hear that! Hope your circumstances and your dating/love life get better for you
Thank you. I'm taking/making steps to get there.
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Two to make, both need to work very hard.
One to break, but normally at least partially two.
Agree with this here
I voted B. I did nothing but my whole being for my ex and she didn't like it. She still cheated on me and threw me away like garbage.
Aww sorry (hugs) you deserve better than that!
That's ok she's gone now. Im looking for a new beginning and a new girlfriend. Hopefully a better one. Guess what tomorrow is? 😄
Is it your birthday? Or first date with someone?
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I slept in so far. Lol I'm planning an xbox day for me and to check out some new games i got. Also planning to move the ps4 into my room. I haven't thought past that lol
What, no birthday cake? 🤔
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My mom usually makes a dinner for me. Its been a family tradition for years. But this year i asked if we could get some french pastries instead of a cake. My mom and i can only eat them since my dad is gluten intolerant. Lol
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It takes two to make a relationship. It only takes one to break it
Yeah agree it can
If it's a one sided relationship and only person is putting work in, it's broken.
That's very true
Definitely believe it takes two on both and all sides of the relationship coin... the good and the bad and everything in between :)
For the most part, but think they're can be exceptions to that
Fair point as there are often exceptions to most things - especially stuff related to people. And I can see how if one of the two just went off and did something totally on their own in a selfish type of way it could ruin the relationship to no fault of the other person - so yes, now that I think about it... lots of exceptions.
Right,!
Bit of both. There are many factors that contribute to the failing of a relationship, sometimes it can just be one person, like domestic violence, or cheating.
Very very true
It takes two to make a relationship but it only takes one to break a relationship.
Agree
Definitely takes two. Feeling your relationship is one-sided is lethal to its longevity.
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Absolutely takes two, just as it takes two to argue. One can disagree with
themselves internally but to argue takes two. That burden also falls on
the deterioration of crumbling relationships.
Also, let me add to clarify, removing one’s self from a disaster in the making
isn’t considered breaking a relationship that was etched in stone to fail for
the infidelities of one. However, staying in such circumstances is both foolish
and contributes to the breaking of that tumultuous relationship.
I know you know the answer to this. Are you bating the kids into a trap
Who me (angel emoji) lololol never (angel emoji) lololol
I disagree. We would need 2 to work it out in most cases but 1 can definitely break it without the help of the other.
That's true
Thank you!
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My thoughts exactly
Hmmm... the statement I would have agreed with is... "It takes two to MAKE a relationship, but only one to break it".
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In my Opinion It's takes two to make a relationship happen
But it only takes one to break it
In some cases yes, and some times it is both
Yes, correct
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I made mistakes dont get me wrong. However when my ex girlfriend left me and cut me out of her life it was all her choice and it was all out of my hands which was a very painful realization so i think it can be just one person can end a relationship.