Yes, I do, in many ways. We are becoming desensitised to violence and the suffering of others. A good example is some of the posts on here concerning coronavirus. Some say it's not real, some say that a small number of people are dying; so that this virus is not to be taken seriously. They ignore the high toll of suffering, including bereavement, that coronavirus inflicts on its victims and on the victims' families and friends.
Oh I agree... But empathy is another thing people mock or call people weak for... When it takes real strength to be empathic to others sufferings even when going through your own. The weak are the ones with no empathy who try to put down others to make them look tough...
No, I don't think so. I just think that people nowadays are more free to do what they actually want to do with their life, thanks to greater economic and social freedoms.
You no longer have to put up with toxic and restrictive family structures, unfulfilling relationships and harmful connections. Nowadays, thanks to free access to education and job opportunities, you can just cut those kinds of connections off without worrying what will happen to you.
Who cares if you get disinherited by your family, or divorce your sole provider of a husband. You can still continue living your life.
Now you can "make it" by being a career woman, or pursue a childless life of an academic. You don't have to pretend to be a certain way to earn the safety of support from people that you would have to rely on in the past.
If all you look at a relationship as is for support... That's the issue right there... Not everybody got married for financial support or security... But that mindset or behaviour is exactly what kills relationships...
But that mindset is precisely what most relationships of the past used to be all about. Nowadays you can leave a relationship if it doesn't make you happy, and that's what people do more of nowadays because many more people are now financially secure to do that.
You don't have to drag out a miserable relationship "for the children" or because you are a "housewife" that has no other place to go.
The point is, most people just don't love people all the time, and now they have the freedom to express that. The world didn't become "worse" it just became less fake.
The freedom of choice should be celebrated, no virtue lies in perpetuating unhappiness.
Really do how do you explain the marriages/relationships that did, do last? Maybe if more people were more caring about partner and and less expectations of what someone owes as a partner 🤷🏼♀️
Relationships that last happen to be between people whose values and motivations aligned more so than the values and motivations of those couples that didn't remain together.
If it makes you happy to keep a relationship going because it is what you in particular value, then good for you. Everyone in my family is divorced and they are all doing much better now because of that.
The point of a relationship is to make you happy, not for you to make it "last longer".
Yes, it is because compasion, kindness and happiness don't benefit capitalism, but selfishness, and misery does, because they can exploit you for your money even more that way, plus kindness and compassion are a communist thing, and comunism is the polar opposite of capitalism.
Love, to me, is literally seeking the best for the other. On the other hand, I will insta-dump and turn off the love if she cheats, so maybe I am heartless in that sense. I just don't believe in expending a lot of energy on people who prove themselves unworthy of it.
Well it's looking to me like it's more game playing than real life experiences sharing each other in pursuit Of happiness causeall I'm after is a secret kinda girl so I can show her what real love is all about before it's to late for me to be of use here on eartg
No we are going through a great revolution in human history we are becoming aware of our mortality, realizing just how fragile out lives are and make better choices during our time here, there's always chaos before calm no need to panic it go negative must always remain positive
Yes people are, and that is the devils plan. To make people become more isolated and selfish. Because not caring is strength, and people let the egos get the best of them. The whole being heartless thing is only going to get worse as time goes on and towards the end of times people will forget about God.
Yes they are becoming more heartless and with the prevalence of hook up culture people are becoming more detached. Trying to make their heart cold so they either don’t get hurt or rationalize treating other people as disposable.
Yes and the murder of a famous actor Sushant Singh Rajput has proved it. So many people killed him for his money. That poor guy was innocent, was successful without nepotism and generous with his money. His ex girlfriend fired all his staff, used to give him drugs then big Actors and politicians murdered him. Now when we Indians demanded justice the criminals are lying about that innocent actor by sabotaging his image and threatening his family. This bloody Mumbai police and government is protecting the Bollywood mafias. Hollywood is much better but this gutter Bollywood has underworld connections and prostitution. I hope the dirt gets cleaned up. This explains that humans are evil. I hope this world ends and good people get new life in a better planet.
People have that it's all about me mentality because that's all they've known from family to relationships to friends. No one gave them a helping hand or loved them right. So with that being said why or how could they give love when they've never had it.
I get the sense that people are becoming more antisocial. Not that they are heartless or careless. Just less interactive and uncertain of how to behave in settings that were once natural to even most preteens at one time.
If you saw the other post About sleeping with a cheater you should read some of the responses... They just don't care.. sleeping with someone else's husband is a joke...
In my humble opinion people definitely are become heartless. I really like the one here about the 3 types of people in your life. I have had them all at one time.
Yeah I agree, I think some people are incapable of actually caring about others. Sometimes these people have intimate relationships with each other, and they never truly spend the time to actually get to know the other person properly.
yes, you have to understand the past 75 years have been the most luxirious and peacefull in human history. that time was never going to last. it allowed people to adopt some very fanciful heartfelt morals but those morals will be unsustainable going forward
humans being heartless isn't new... its the normal
I moderate three blogs that givevreal answers too these questions. Zero views, zero interest, meaning that asking these questions when you don't want answers is asenine. Do you want that information, with reference background information too show my sources as reliable? If you're a troller, wnd yourself immediately. If your not, indicate that you want too know more, and I'll send you all the data and perspective too make sense of it your information system can handle.
Zero views, zero interest? How's that 🤔 And don't want answers 🤔 And, No I'm not a troll, and not wanting to view someone's blogs wouldn't/don't make me one... But thank you for the offer
Sorry, hair trigger response too trolling issues that almost caused a person reaching out for help too commit suicide. I'm spread pretty thin between peer support activities for high risk diagnosis for schizophrenia and bi- polar schizoid effective disorders. Long story, but that trolling jerk nearly cost someone their life and my mind was there, rather than the question I was ranting about hear. Please accept my appologies. Your question might not even be asking about mental illness. Again, my bad, sorry you were in the line of fire.
Okay. And yeah this question was about people being less heartless and uncaring to people and in relationships.. Don't know where mental health came from... But maybe you thought you were answering another post.. It happens lolol
It came from sleep deprivation and frustration with societies attitudes toward community mental health services. Nothing too do with you. Again, sorry. Please let me know when my time in the doghouse is up.
Most people are like that especially if they haven't ever loved someone before just thought they did. Or if they haven't lost someone either. These 2 things easy put into perspective what truly matters.
In general, yes I do. I think people are becoming. more desensitized by everything going on. in my opinion that's when we need to be more loving and caring.
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Yes, I do, in many ways. We are becoming desensitised to violence and the suffering of others. A good example is some of the posts on here concerning coronavirus. Some say it's not real, some say that a small number of people are dying; so that this virus is not to be taken seriously. They ignore the high toll of suffering, including bereavement, that coronavirus inflicts on its victims and on the victims' families and friends.
Oh I agree... But empathy is another thing people mock or call people weak for... When it takes real strength to be empathic to others sufferings even when going through your own. The weak are the ones with no empathy who try to put down others to make them look tough...
No, I don't think so.
I just think that people nowadays are more free to do what they actually want to do with their life, thanks to greater economic and social freedoms.
You no longer have to put up with toxic and restrictive family structures, unfulfilling relationships and harmful connections.
Nowadays, thanks to free access to education and job opportunities, you can just cut those kinds of connections off without worrying what will happen to you.
Who cares if you get disinherited by your family, or divorce your sole provider of a husband.
You can still continue living your life.
Now you can "make it" by being a career woman, or pursue a childless life of an academic.
You don't have to pretend to be a certain way to earn the safety of support from people that you would have to rely on in the past.
If all you look at a relationship as is for support... That's the issue right there... Not everybody got married for financial support or security... But that mindset or behaviour is exactly what kills relationships...
But that mindset is precisely what most relationships of the past used to be all about.
Nowadays you can leave a relationship if it doesn't make you happy, and that's what people do more of nowadays because many more people are now financially secure to do that.
You don't have to drag out a miserable relationship "for the children" or because you are a "housewife" that has no other place to go.
The point is, most people just don't love people all the time, and now they have the freedom to express that.
The world didn't become "worse" it just became less fake.
The freedom of choice should be celebrated, no virtue lies in perpetuating unhappiness.
Really do how do you explain the marriages/relationships that did, do last? Maybe if more people were more caring about partner and and less expectations of what someone owes as a partner 🤷🏼♀️
Relationships that last happen to be between people whose values and motivations aligned more so than the values and motivations of those couples that didn't remain together.
If it makes you happy to keep a relationship going because it is what you in particular value, then good for you.
Everyone in my family is divorced and they are all doing much better now because of that.
The point of a relationship is to make you happy, not for you to make it "last longer".
No but it can be both!
Yes, it is because compasion, kindness and happiness don't benefit capitalism, but selfishness, and misery does, because they can exploit you for your money even more that way, plus kindness and compassion are a communist thing, and comunism is the polar opposite of capitalism.
Seems like.. Seems like I get come at more on here for being nice than people who swear, attack or bully people 🤷🏼♀️
Love, to me, is literally seeking the best for the other. On the other hand, I will insta-dump and turn off the love if she cheats, so maybe I am heartless in that sense. I just don't believe in expending a lot of energy on people who prove themselves unworthy of it.
I agree with the cheating part
That ends it for me
Well it's looking to me like it's more game playing than real life experiences sharing each other in pursuit
Of happiness causeall I'm after is a secret kinda girl so I can show her what real love is all about before it's to late for me to be of use here on eartg
Thanks for the like I spilled out some of my inter mosts hopes n fears in that one
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No we are going through a great revolution in human history we are becoming aware of our mortality, realizing just how fragile out lives are and make better choices during our time here, there's always chaos before calm no need to panic it go negative must always remain positive
Yes people are, and that is the devils plan. To make people become more isolated and selfish. Because not caring is strength, and people let the egos get the best of them. The whole being heartless thing is only going to get worse as time goes on and towards the end of times people will forget about God.
Yes they are becoming more heartless and with the prevalence of hook up culture people are becoming more detached. Trying to make their heart cold so they either don’t get hurt or rationalize treating other people as disposable.
Right
Yes and the murder of a famous actor Sushant Singh Rajput has proved it. So many people killed him for his money. That poor guy was innocent, was successful without nepotism and generous with his money. His ex girlfriend fired all his staff, used to give him drugs then big Actors and politicians murdered him. Now when we Indians demanded justice the criminals are lying about that innocent actor by sabotaging his image and threatening his family. This bloody Mumbai police and government is protecting the Bollywood mafias. Hollywood is much better but this gutter Bollywood has underworld connections and prostitution. I hope the dirt gets cleaned up. This explains that humans are evil. I hope this world ends and good people get new life in a better planet.
People have that it's all about me mentality because that's all they've known from family to relationships to friends. No one gave them a helping hand or loved them right. So with that being said why or how could they give love when they've never had it.
I get the sense that people are becoming more antisocial. Not that they are heartless or careless. Just less interactive and uncertain of how to behave in settings that were once natural to even most preteens at one time.
If you saw the other post About sleeping with a cheater you should read some of the responses... They just don't care.. sleeping with someone else's husband is a joke...
These things happened in prior generations, but people have immediate access to the internet where they can share stories comfortably and anonymously.
In my humble opinion people definitely are become heartless. I really like the one here about the 3 types of people in your life. I have had them all at one time.
Same... There's all kinds of people, not this gender crap people keep trying to push
I don't believe it's just one anything, gender, sex or even generation. It's spread across all platforms.
I am sorry that you went through what you did, trust me I've been there.
I think people are becoming more obsessive about various things, often at the expense of people close to them.
That's very true
Yeah I agree, I think some people are incapable of actually caring about others. Sometimes these people have intimate relationships with each other, and they never truly spend the time to actually get to know the other person properly.
So true
Yes people are Heartless and less Caring, People today care for themselves and no one else
You said it there 💯
The fault in our stars, the story of our hearts. We've started rationalising things for rationalities sake and the worst offender might be me.
Overrationalizing sure don't help
I think that's the root cause for everyone more or less.
yes, you have to understand the past 75 years have been the most luxirious and peacefull in human history. that time was never going to last. it allowed people to adopt some very fanciful heartfelt morals but those morals will be unsustainable going forward
humans being heartless isn't new... its the normal
I moderate three blogs that givevreal answers too these questions. Zero views, zero interest, meaning that asking these questions when you don't want answers is asenine. Do you want that information, with reference background information too show my sources as reliable? If you're a troller, wnd yourself immediately. If your not, indicate that you want too know more, and I'll send you all the data and perspective too make sense of it your information system can handle.
Zero views, zero interest? How's that 🤔 And don't want answers 🤔 And, No I'm not a troll, and not wanting to view someone's blogs wouldn't/don't make me one... But thank you for the offer
Sorry, hair trigger response too trolling issues that almost caused a person reaching out for help too commit suicide. I'm spread pretty thin between peer support activities for high risk diagnosis for schizophrenia and bi- polar schizoid effective disorders. Long story, but that trolling jerk nearly cost someone their life and my mind was there, rather than the question I was ranting about hear. Please accept my appologies. Your question might not even be asking about mental illness. Again, my bad, sorry you were in the line of fire.
Okay. And yeah this question was about people being less heartless and uncaring to people and in relationships.. Don't know where mental health came from... But maybe you thought you were answering another post.. It happens lolol
It came from sleep deprivation and frustration with societies attitudes toward community mental health services. Nothing too do with you. Again, sorry. Please let me know when my time in the doghouse is up.
🤣🤣🤣 time in the doghouse 🤣🤣 tire good 👍🙂
Most people are like that especially if they haven't ever loved someone before just thought they did. Or if they haven't lost someone either. These 2 things easy put into perspective what truly matters.
In general, yes I do. I think people are becoming. more desensitized by everything going on. in my opinion that's when we need to be more loving and caring.
I love the third meme / pic.
Thank you... And love your answer 💙👍 couldn't agree more 💯
Thank you. I've always answered straight from my heart. It may not be popular / well received by others, it's just how I feel.
That's what's most important!
I think it is as well. Trying to become more authentic IRL as well
That's good! I'm the same IRL as am on here (not sure if that's a good thing or bad thing). Lord help us all 🤣🤣🤣