I think it shows a lack of maturity and is more likely to turn people off rather than "raise your value." Most people don't like playing games when it comes to dating.
Any women that plays hard to get isn't worth chasing. If she has time for games, that means she isn't serious about any relationship. So I would just move on to the next one.
No. If someone knocks your door or calls at your house several times, and gets no answer, after a while you get the message and leave, hardly likely to return.
It is like what are you 6 years old? You are an adult, why play games, and possibly confuse the person. Be straight forward on what you want. I guess 2% of men love that
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I think it shows a lack of maturity and is more likely to turn people off rather than "raise your value." Most people don't like playing games when it comes to dating.
Any women that plays hard to get isn't worth chasing. If she has time for games, that means she isn't serious about any relationship. So I would just move on to the next one.
I’m sure the dude would just want to move on and want someone that actually shows interest.
How about ladies?
That too. I mean if someone was doin that to me I’d say bye! XD hahah
If a woman is playing hard to get, my interpretation would probably be that she is not interested and I would move on.
Doesn't raise one's value nor does it lower it. Self value should never depend upon someone
else's. However, being cautious works in one's benefit.
Playin hard to get is like playing tug o war. Some people will hang on... I just let go of the rope. I just say "you win" while you fall on your ass.
I don't have the time. If you are interested, accept my advance. If not, have a nice day.
I don't stay friends with anyone who plays/pretends.
BEING hard to get raises your value.
PLAYING hard to get decreases your value.
Playing games is bad, its frustrating and confusing. They might think your not interested and quit chasing you way early then you expect
Next thing you there talkin to another person
NO!
What raises your value is showing your interest clearly, but in an appropriate amount. Not being hard, but also not being cheesy.
When some plays hard to get they just come across as bitchy. Which is a turn off so nah.
If a woman plays hard to get it appears she does not return my interest, and I'm not going to waste my time in that case.
And if I get the feeling she's playing hard to get, it's an instant turn off.
It's just going to make me next you because I don't have time to suffer idiocy.
Mature applicants only. No games, no bullshit.
No. If someone knocks your door or calls at your house several times, and gets no answer, after a while you get the message and leave, hardly likely to return.
Makes you seem uninterested and we will lose interest if there is no interest reciprocated. Guys like effort too.
Play hard to get on me and you'll have a hard time convincing me that you didn't mean it. I have nexted the player by that time.
Playing hard to get absolutely does increase your value, but only once someone is already interested in you.
You can use it to increase interest, but you can't create interest where there is none with it.
It is like what are you 6 years old? You are an adult, why play games, and possibly confuse the person. Be straight forward on what you want. I guess 2% of men love that
there's a difference between having self worth and playing hard to get.