Does it make me an evil person that I stole another girl’s boyfriend? (Page 2)

Question

I met this guy at work few months ago, and he immediately told me that he’s in a relationship with a girl he’s in love with, and that just like me he just wants a platonic friendship which is a thing I immediately agreed, to even tho I was attracted to him ( I felt attracted before knowing that he wasn’t single).  The problem is that we started to spend so much time together, that he ended up confessing his feelings for me, by telling how I’m so much different from his girlfriend who no longer cares about him, that I’m everything he ever wanted in a woman and how he wish he had met me before. I replied that it would be wrong, and that I feel too bad for his girlfriend to accept his feelings, even tho I was secretly In love with him too, but he then kissed me and I kissed him back like a dumb bitch.  He then broke up with his girlfriend the day after, and asked me out. It’s been a month now and I couldn’t be happier with him, cause he spoil me a lot and treat me like a real princess while we didn’t even have sex yet, cause he’s waiting for me to be ready for it, but I can’t help but feeling bad for his ex, at the point that I sometimes literally wish that karma would hit me and make me loose him the same way I got him, but my boyfriend keeps telling me that his relationship wasn’t that great to begin with and that I did nothing wrong, but I felt like I did. I love him so as much as I hate my self now and I’m confused. Can I truly be happy with him, even tho I acted like a homewrecker?

slatyb · Answer

Forget about it. Their relationship was already failing, he was looking for a reason to leave.

SexyAshh · Answer

Nope. She wasn't satisfying him. Her problem, not yours

Liam_Hayden · Answer

Just don't be surprised if, when the opportunity arises, he pulls the same scam on another girl and leave you.

Anonymous · Answer

I won't judge you, yet be aware how everything started and try to work with yourself. Karma and trust are aligned.

PaganWarrior · Answer

Doesn't make you evil, but it makes you a bitch.

michael1469 · Answer

Dont worry, some girl will return the favor and steal your man.

HeresJames1 · Answer

Why not apologize to his ex? Either that or accept it and move on.

rgw235 · Answer

If it didn't take much effort for him to leave her than they didn't have a good relationship to begin with. I'd say it's not your problem.

Prettysammie · Answer

Honey, no one steals anyone. He’s an adult and made his choice to be with you.

Twalli · Answer

You didn't actively pursue a relationship with him while he was with her. If you did destroy their relationship it was jut by existing.

Jack9949 · Answer

“by telling how I’m so much different from his girlfriend who no longer cares about him”. You have nothing to feel bad for

Maria0079 · Answer

Yeah sounds evil you wouldn’t like it when it happens to you.

Juxtapose · Answer

Well, she shouldn't have treated him like shit. Turnabout's fair play.

AmeerX · Answer

You should have max shared his love not break it off

jordancitokin · Answer

He asked  you, so that  you  could give him some validation. But it is not your responsibility for hurting those in  his  life.

mrscat · Answer

Yes, you should not break other person heart. How you feel if your girlfriend got stolen?

OddBeMe · Answer

We all do shit we regret. You obvi like this dude more than your friend.

Kuressento · Answer

Not really, in the end of the day the man choose to go along with you.

Vivaldi · Answer

Whats wrong with single guys? You have no interest in them?

Anonymous · Answer

Sounds like he and his now ex were on the way out. Don't sweat it.

Dontask123456 · Answer

Ya lose them like ya win them sis, always remember that

gandolph3 · Answer

you didn't steal him, if he loved her that much he would not have left her

Yep12345678 · Answer

Unless they're married and have kids together, no. Tough titties for her.

Paris_Beauty · Answer

That’s sad no self respect lol real classy

Elsa143 · Answer

Yes and it also makes you a WHO*RE.

worldscolide · Answer

no, but it makes you both heartless and careless..

JoyGirl · Answer

Yap, sorry sugar plum.

Dave31989 · Answer

Evil? no Bad? Yes

Guanfei · Answer

Yep, you're a fucking bitch, period.

mrArcher · Answer

Context, context, context.

Fakehunter · Answer

Yeah it is not ethical

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

Makes you a typical female.

postaldudePL123 · Answer

No, but it would definitely make him a SIMP.

ninjafemme · Answer

Yeah sounds evil

Koda1 · Answer

Yes it does

Anonymous · Answer

Did you "steal" him or did he shift over to you?

9Livezzz · Answer

Yes it does

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

yeah, bitch

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