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How should it be applied properly?
@lilyanony1 negging is intended for high self esteem women who are tired of being hit in over their looks and look down on guys who do it. It’s a little bit the equivalent of playing “hard to get”. Most men hate it when women play hard to get, but guys who have girls throwing themselves at them can find it intriguing and enjoy the challenge. Negging is for the female equivalent. She expects you to hit on her based on her looks. By sending signals you’re not impressed by her looks you can trigger a couple things. One is she may try to get you interested to sort of restore her idea of how things are supposed to be. The other though is you can let her win you over with her other traits. So instead of drooling over her looks you act actively disinterested and then get intrigued because of whatever personality or intellectual aspect she demonstrates - the thing she wants to be appreciated for and thinks nobody sees her as more than a piece of ass. Note that some guys don’t do it properly and just retain “stop sucking up and be more of a jerk” which frankly works better than. sucking up... but proper negging should intrigue and challenge her to win you over. A woman who actually has low self esteem wouldn’t respond well to it.
So let me get this straight, you down her looks to draw out her smarts?Ugh! Why negg at all why not just be decent and not so available. The 'hard to get, nice guy' is the biggest mindf*ck.And it messes with you mire because I mean why would he be so great and so "unavailable"... That's more intriguing
@lilyanony1 basically you’re downing her looks to be slightly less available and ALSO then allow her to win you over with her personality. So it allows you to seem - slightly less available - like you have high standards (which she will then be more excited to have met)- like you then see her as a real person and not just some hot girl who you’d say anything to. Negging would best be combined with being charming and funny. You want her to like you, be surprised you’re not falling all over yourself trying to get her and make her want to try to get your interest. Which you then let her do. Wouldn’t be a good strategy for girls who DON’T expect you to want them just due to their looks or girls who don’t have the self esteem to think they can impress you.
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What woman downvotes this?
@Guardian45A Woman not worth your timeOr anyones for that matter
How do you mean?
@Guardian45 How do I mean what exactly?It doesn't make sense to make fun of someone you are interested in dating. That grade school behavior not for adults and its bullying/abusive not at all sexy.Its just so cruel and I wouldn't want to do that... To anyone much less someone I really like.
Imagine a person who got a 97 on an exam bragging to a person who got a 92.5 points isn't very significant at all
Also that had literally nothing to do with the question but go offThere must be literally nothing special about you if you brag about being male
As on of the following & someone who is genetically superior to you and the vast majority of people, in multiple ways, your claim makes me laugh! At the near- genius level (an IQ of 145), brilliant men outnumber brilliant women by 8 to one. Do you want to get some; because this is how you get some?
You're not sure?
I actually don’t know why... imma bit toxic so I need someone to be toxic back and sorta put me in my place but still kiss the shit outta me😌✨