My girlfriend unfollowed me on Instagram, should I confront her about it?

[Anonymous]

We haven't hung out or spoken in about two months since our area went back into lockdown, we weren't really on good terms since but we still cared for each other. I know she's been very busy with work and other things and I've just been mostly at home practicing self care. I haven't posted anything or have been active on social media lately until last night when I logged back into my Instagram and seen that she unfollowed me. She hasn't unfollowed me on my other social media accounts though.

I haven't been able to sleep since and I'm just left wondering, wondering if I had done anything to upset her and wondering about what lead her to unfollow me.

It also caught me off guard because she's very religious and we're both doing ministry and serving in the church together.

Since then it's been seriously taking a hit on my mental health and I've since been getting depressed. Especially since we weren't on good terms when we began to spend time apart. It hurts to see that she unfollowed me, especially when I love and cherish her so much.

I've been contemplating to call my girlfriend tomorrow night after she gets off work. Is a good idea? Any advice please?

I just really want to work things out with my girlfriend

[SPRGRL]

You should ask her about it. But be polite, don't go all maniac. And since you're at it, talk about the whole two months without speaking to eachother, that's some red flag right there.
But BE POLITE

[Truthatanycost]

You are in your emotions and there is feminine energy. Continue acting that way and it's over. Do not confront her, and do not call her. The problem here is that you have placed her above you, possibly on a pedestal, and you are desperate to fix this. If you were aware of your own worth, you would not be placing her above you, and her actions would amount to 'her loss'.

[MountAverage]

Hate to break it to you, but you're not in a relationship with her anymore. When you're in a relationship, you don't stop talking for two months. That's insane. No couple would that, no matter how busy. She's not your girlfriend anymore.

[Hangry22]

You guys haven't spoken in 2 months. Normally that's break up. She probably thought you guys broke up since you didn't try to reach her. I think you should call her now and make it clear

[cjgsu]

Sounds lk a breakup comin.
Why not speak at least in the past 2 months?
Don't make sense.
Couldn't call or text?

[El_Dorado]

Her next step is probably a message, where she wants to break up. I'm sorry

[Unit1]

Wow. You didn't speak with her for 2 months but somehow it's problematic when you find out she unfollows you.
for real? I would perceive that as being ghosted.

[Flower7]

It seems like she isn't your girlfriend anymore if you haven't talked for 2 months.

[CupcakeKiller]

Bro she isn't your girlfriend anymore. Bitch way to do it but that is a break up.

[JoyGirl]

2 months?
You haven’t spoken to her in 2 months? You couldn’t call or text? Nothing?
Mkay.

[Anonymous]

Seems like she broke up with you but was too much of a coward to speak to you about it

[oncpl]

Ignore for the time being. Confronting her may cause unpleasantness.

[Billie_]

she's trying to break up with you

[Iron_Man]

This of course

[In_Trance]

What for?