My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 years and no proposal yet? (Page 2)

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My boyfriend and i have a daughter who is 3 and I’m pregnant now with our son. We have been together since we were 15-16. We are in and off a lot sometimes but we have had stage where we were living together. But I’m 25 now and he’s 26 and he hasn’t proposed yet

Liam_Hayden · Answer

Why would he sign up when he gets the benefits of marriage without the contract? Sorry if that sound harsh, but most guys will avoid marriage under those circumstances.

scott04sa22 · Answer

Maybe he doesn't want to do the piece of paper. My brother and his wife wasn't planning on doing the piece of paper until they decided to do it anyways.

b5fan · Answer

You have the greater commitment of being a co parent with this person. Marriage is the lesser one. Just ask him if he wants to make you an honest women. He may get the hint.

Wewladdy · Answer

We can't know why. Not enough info here. Sounds to me like he is a weak male whose afraid of being "tied down." Though that decision should have been made before you got pregnant.

TheFlak38 · Answer

So it's not enough for you that you got him by the balls with a child you now want to enslave him through marriage with the support of the government. Women are never happy.

Browneye57 · Answer

You're doing it all backwards. And then expect it to be something normal. That ship has already sailed.

bulletbob555 · Answer

If everything is working out then why try to put it in the box. Reading something yesterday Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russel been together 37 years I think not married.

Dave31989 · Answer

yeah at some point you just have to start wondering if it's worth staying with a guy who hasn't proposed after 10 years or if he even wants marriage at all

Samantha_17 · Answer

There is no point for him to do that. You're giving him everything without incurring any legal responsibility. Get your act together.

Likes2drive · Answer

There’s no incentive for him to get married at this point since you already gave him everything and marriage is no advantage for a guy these days

AmeerX · Answer

10 years is a real long time to not marry. Are you sure he wants you?

worldscolide · Answer

If he has not yet, it's not likely he will without a push, you need to talk to him

ivbnlknfru · Answer

I don't know how you feel that you want to get married. If he is not receptive to it, Maybe it's time to move on. Sorry

Anonymous · Answer

marriage only benefits women so there is no reason why a guy would willingly get married unless he’s forced to because it will almost always destroy him

Snowman666 · Answer

Give not so subtle hints. start wearing a ring pop everywhere.

jasco · Answer

maybe he doesn't wanna get married maybe he is fine with the way things are

Dnice1 · Answer

Maybe he's waiting for the right moment to surprise you with a proposal

ManMale · Answer

He should propose. Make sure he understands that. You are not his baby-making machine. You should be his wife.

TheAfrikan · Answer

Just do not know what to say, I thought it is the ladies that learn and study guys often, bt now it seems he is studying you.

Anonymous · Answer

You propose then, it is 2020 and women can do it to now. I see it is important to you, not so for him...

legalboxers · Answer

move on. find someone better who is worthy of your love

Kelly6 · Answer

Why do you need a marriage on a paper? you are already living as family

Twalli · Answer

You've been on and off for 10 years, that's a good enough reason

msc545 · Answer

Why is getting married important? If it really is for some reason, you need to talk to him about it.

knight2468 · Answer

U should make him decide as soon as possible before it’s too late

Sevenpointfive · Answer

i hate people like you!

spartan55 · Answer

Not enough info here at all.

Heiniken · Answer

Because marriage is a trap for divorce.

LEADFOOTboi · Answer

there's so much more to the story tho...

COMMODOREII · Answer

That sucks. You need to talk to him.

Iron_Man · Answer

This is very complicated

Jamie05rhs · Answer

How much money does he make?

Jessie91331 · Answer

why would he want to get married?

Ash525 · Answer

He's wasting your time

JessieBellll · Answer

Why do you need the ring?

SuccessfulHornDog · Answer

Why not propose to him

Ad_Quid_Orator · Answer

If it means a lot to you, propose to him.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

I fail to see the issue.

gandolph3 · Answer

I don't think he wants to

SavageGirl101 · Answer

Damn...😳

Anonymous · Answer

That ship has long past sailed.

joshtheman · Answer

Give him an ultimatum.

Anonymous · Answer

GRT PREGNANT.

Anonymous · Answer

He doesn't like sex with you.

loveslongnails · Answer

Good luck with that.

skeetskeetskeet · Answer

Its not coming

mrgspoter · Answer

You asking then?

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