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Why would he sign up when he gets the benefits of marriage without the contract? Sorry if that sound harsh, but most guys will avoid marriage under those circumstances.
Maybe he doesn't want to do the piece of paper. My brother and his wife wasn't planning on doing the piece of paper until they decided to do it anyways.
You have the greater commitment of being a co parent with this person. Marriage is the lesser one. Just ask him if he wants to make you an honest women. He may get the hint.
We can't know why. Not enough info here. Sounds to me like he is a weak male whose afraid of being "tied down." Though that decision should have been made before you got pregnant.
So it's not enough for you that you got him by the balls with a child you now want to enslave him through marriage with the support of the government. Women are never happy.
You're doing it all backwards. And then expect it to be something normal. That ship has already sailed.
If everything is working out then why try to put it in the box. Reading something yesterday Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russel been together 37 years I think not married.
yeah at some point you just have to start wondering if it's worth staying with a guy who hasn't proposed after 10 years
or if he even wants marriage at all
There is no point for him to do that. You're giving him everything without incurring any legal responsibility. Get your act together.
There’s no incentive for him to get married at this point since you already gave him everything and marriage is no advantage for a guy these days
10 years is a real long time to not marry. Are you sure he wants you?
We are off and on and he’s cheated once but we stayed together
Just ask him to marry you. Otherwise you are potentially his go to girl when he is down only
If he has not yet, it's not likely he will without a push, you need to talk to him
I don't know how you feel that you want to get married. If he is not receptive to it, Maybe it's time to move on. Sorry
marriage only benefits women so there is no reason why a guy would willingly get married unless he’s forced to because it will almost always destroy him
Give not so subtle hints. start wearing a ring pop everywhere.
maybe he doesn't wanna get married maybe he is fine with the way things are
Maybe he's waiting for the right moment to surprise you with a proposal
He should propose. Make sure he understands that. You are not his baby-making machine. You should be his wife.
Just do not know what to say, I thought it is the ladies that learn and study guys often, bt now it seems he is studying you.
Studying her how I’m curious
@likelyOK it seems he is still getting to know you well. And that is way too much.
You propose then, it is 2020 and women can do it to now. I see it is important to you, not so for him...
move on. find someone better who is worthy of your love
Why do you need a marriage on a paper?
you are already living as family
You've been on and off for 10 years, that's a good enough reason
Why is getting married important? If it really is for some reason, you need to talk to him about it.
U should make him decide as soon as possible before it’s too late
i hate people like you!
What did i do
Not enough info here at all.
Because marriage is a trap for divorce.
there's so much more to the story tho...
That sucks. You need to talk to him.
This is very complicated
What do you mean
Because he doesn’t commit
How much money does he make?
@messinessB
why would he want to get married?
He's wasting your time
Why do you need the ring?
I’m just saying why not get married
It's just paper, don't worry about it
Did ya sucker him into not only following you but marrying ya, too! Lol... damn, you ARE good!
Anyhow, ill stay following for a bit then, I guess. Since we need to have both launch keys set, in order to actually speak to one another and all, lol.
Why not propose to him
If it means a lot to you, propose to him.
I fail to see the issue.
I don't think he wants to
Why do you say that
He has hadtime to think about it. But in his credit, he is still there, talk to him
Yeah but i caught him cheating 3 months ago but we are still together
You msy need to sit him down and tslk it out
Just don't get married because of the kids, wrong reason
Damn...😳
Damn?
I mean y’all been dating for 10 years and have kids and he still hasn’t purposed? That’s rather strange... u really have to talk to him about that
That ship has long past sailed.
What do you mean
10 years and no proposals means he is unlikely to ever give you one.
I wouldn’t saY that
I would, which is why I did.
Give him an ultimatum.
GRT PREGNANT.
I have two kids by him
He doesn't like sex with you.
Good luck with that.
Its not coming
You asking then?