It is bad to never or almost never say I love you even if you love that person?

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Battooot · Accepted Answer

It's not bad at all if they already know it. Sometimes you are so close to each other and know each other so well that you are both certain of each other's love to the other. Infact, in some cases it may even be awkward or weird to tell them 'i love you' cause its just out of the ordinary and unusual. However, i will point out that even in this case, if you find the right occasion and time to tell them you love them. Since you both say that word almost never, it will have such a heavy meaning and impact to the other person. They will truly believe it when you say it, not like the everyday 'i love you' that people make a habit to say to each other which loses its meaning.

However. if the person doesn't KNOW IT. Or isn't sure of it. Or is DOUBTING of it. Or has lower'ish self esteem. Then it may be absolutely necessary to remind them fairly often that you do truly love them and show it in action as well.

TheorionMage · Accepted Answer

One's actions should ALWAYS speak louder than One's words...
the concern you manifest for the one (s) you love.
Do you ACTIVELY try to KNOW what makes them happy?
If within your abilities, DO YOU DO THEM?
JUST to see them pleased unexpectedly?

Do you seek to see their features soften?
... Their eyes 'light up' and the 'edge' in their voice softens,
do they 'blush' ... when you show up?
Do they instinctively seek you out as their 'safe harbor'
during life's challenging times? THAT'S saying "I LOVE You' ... wordlessly~ <3 ;)

chevymcgthatsme · Accepted Answer

It may take u some time to tell someone u live them even though u do it's good to give it a little time to see what he's like before you charge in and say I love you because when u fall in love to quickly u may regret it in the future because u didn't give urself a chance to know what he's really like first Iam saying this because I have been silly a few times with men nd said it to soon nd the next thing I know my hearts broken so take my advice take ure time and u will decide at ure own time

Kas19 · Accepted Answer

Depends on your relationship. I prefer to make it known often, not only with my words, but my actions as well My boyfriend and I tell each other that we love each other several times a day, every day. Some people don't like that though, and that's okay. It all depends on what you and your partners needs are.

pleasestopthis · Answer

I once felt strong things for a man who was in a relationship, so I never said anything. In such cases I think it's better to just stay quiet

R3DthatDude · Answer

It’s bad to withhold expressing your love for someone if you really do love them

1stranger · Answer

It's not about the good or the bad. There is a good taste of both saying and hearing it. So, I think.. I can't say I heard that much and by feeling it in my heart.

EssenceOfLight · Answer

No, as long as you're acting like the person is for you someone special.

jhnny1331 · Answer

Yes it's horrible if you don't first you're making the person wonder how you feel and second I wish my wife was still alive so I can tell her a thousand times and I to hen a thousand more. Tommorow is promised to no one so don't waste today

msc545 · Answer

Saying it occasionally makes the other person feel good.

hellacray · Answer

Lol well I need to find someone I love first before I can say it.  But I've been single for so long not sure if that may have made me more cold blooded.

exitseven · Answer

Yes. If you truly love that person you should say it at least once a day. Life is short.

kkirk4442 · Answer

If two people love each other, it's best that they commonly tell each other "I love you".

Kamarislife · Answer

in my opinion, no, since you can say it by your actions. ex: sticking up for them, helping them during a tough time etc.

Angelo75 · Answer

It is bad. Just work on it to say it more often. Also to give compliments.

Glasgow55 · Answer

I tell everyone that I love, that I love them, all the time. You never know when it will be the last time.

Justneedtokno · Answer

When the time arise say it if you mean it. Although women like to hear it

alexander3244 · Answer

Depends on that other person but I say it's bad because these three words can easily uplift them and want them to commit more and give more back.

Alyssa11 · Answer

Yes you should always tell them.

RCLJT · Answer

Yes, let your feelings be known one way or another.

bannacookies · Answer

I think you don't need to say it for them to know.

Daniel_Dano · Answer

Your actions should be a proof that you love them

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

I'm this way

Anonymous · Answer

Not in love any more. I just coexist.

shade_19 · Answer

Kinda

Aimee_Maemae16 · Answer

No it’s not

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