Boyfriend went to girls house at 10pm?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend has this girl best friend who apparently they have known each other for agies and they spoke before and she is his type. he said they’re just friends. he went to her house yesterday at 11pm, is that not weird? he keeps saying i’m overreacting and that guys can have girl friends too?

[chevymcgthatsme]

Yeah guys are aloud to have friends that are girls to but going to see her at that time of night is very weird he should ask u to join them if he wasn't being tht snakey jst watch wit ure doing a can read guys like a book face reactions wae they say thing how they look at you or react to when u ask things when u have suspicions tht he maybe going with her behind your back but if he didn't have anything to hide I think he should have invited u along to see her he sounds sneaky nd then make u feel like he's to good to be true fk tht jst watch ure self hen be aware of things nd look out for the way he says things looks he gives u body language jst look out for yourself ask him to talk to u without moaning when u ask him stuff of how u feel cause it's been sayed tht if u ask men if u think there doing stuff like tht with other women and they get angry right away nd can't speak sensible about this he jst hasn't got the balls to admit it nd angry cause he dosent want to make himself look bad get back to me dwl a can help anytime 👍👍👍

[Anonymous]

You overreacting. GUYS CAN NEVER EVER CHEAT
He is with you for a reason.

[Vviiccttoorr]

It is ok for a guy to have a girl friend even if he has a girlfriend. However he should understand how uncomfortable that would make you feel to show up at his friends house at near midnight. How would he feel if you did vice versa with a guy friend of yours. If he doesn’t kid you doing that then I do believe there is a problem there. If I had a girlfriend at the moment then I’d still have my female friends but I wouldn’t do something like show up at there house 11pm just the two of us. I honestly believe that’s unfair to you and comes off as either trying to get you jealous or being uncaring.

[qwert1234]

Well, if he knows the girl before you, chances are they are really just close.
If you have suspicions, just ask him what they did. If it bothers you, tell him.

Just understand, you don't own him. You are not yet married to him. If there's a change in his behavior and it's making you uncomfortable even after talking to him, you are free to leave.

[TheFlak38]

so it's a problem that he explores his other options but when you explore your THOUSANDS of other options then that's fair play. it's only a problem when men do it. #FemaleDoubleStandards

[Asker]

i don’t explore my other options i’m speaking to no other man

[TheFlak38]

yeah Im sure you dont. thot.

[Asker]

shut the fuck up

[Asker]

i don’t know who’s hurt you don’t ever speak to me like that

[TheFlak38]

you're not calling the shots on me thot. Im doing whatever I want. Give orders to your army of white knights

[Asker]

okay goodnight

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Probably cheating tbh. He can see his "friends" in public during the daytime. There's only one reason a guy goes to a girl's house at 11pm, and it ain't to check out her pokemon card collection

[Avicenna]

that is totally inappropriate when he's in a relationship unless you've OKed it.

[Feelicks]

I always visit women late at night to not have sex with them. No need to worry.

[chriscdi]

hell nah, thats sus, id be mad if a my girlfriend went to a dudes house at 10pm

[Az_lazakadosh]

Well it depends on their understanding... if the likes it that way then no problem, but if she doesn't then the boy has to stop like the case here

[BlacklightShade]

They should have invited you. Maybe they forgot.

[spartan55]

Doin it right under your nose...

[RenegadeSailor]

Oh dear sweet summer child...

[Asker]

lol 😂😂😂

[Spade07]

Talk to her. You'll know.

In person

[WowwGirl]

Not happening. Id leave if he did it twice

[Sabretooth]

let it go unless it becomes common.