My boyfriend invited a girl over to his house?

[Anonymous]

I was on my boyfriend's snapchat to take a selfie and use it for streaks and for like a "hack" but I accidentally clicked on his most recent texts and apparently he was high and said it felt good and invited the girl over to his house to get her high for the first time. Why would he do that?

[Anonymous]

Lol you’re so full of sh*t. You were snooping. Maybe he really wanted to get her high for the first time or nail her or a number of things. I doubt you two will be together forever so no biggie

[Opinion Owner]

If she’s pretty he likes her. I mean pretty by a make’s standards not a female’s

[Asker]

why would want to Make HER high high for the FRIST time

[Opinion Owner]

Why do people do anything? Because they can.

[Asker]

I found her Instagram.. its gina. stanaway

[Opinion Owner]

Ok... I don’t know her.

[Asker]

Screenshot_20190308-180203_Messages. jpg I don't know if this will work but

[Asker]

Nope it didn't

[Asker]

But ummm she's short maybe 5 feet dark brown curly hair, light tanned skin and brown eyes. skinny, pink lips.

[Opinion Owner]

That sounds like a lot of women I know. What’s their history?

[Asker]

Seems to volunteer a lot. Seems to be smart, loves dogs, people say she's really nice, tends to give lots of advice to people.. stuff like that.. I can only tell so much from social media

[Opinion Owner]

Again if she’s pretty there’s a good chance he’s attracted to her

[Opinion Owner]

Sure we’ll take your word for it. Maybe you’re in love w her

[NanaaG]

isn't it kinda obvious why? Im sure its not just to get her high.. I would talk to him about this and probably break up, dont waste your time on a fuckboy

[Asker]

you think he's trying to have sex with her? but... I've heard people say that he talks about me a lot and says how beautiful I am... do you think it's just being high got to him and made him say some stuff... how would being high for the first time effect that girl?

[NanaaG]

Even if he was high, he wouldn't invite a chick to smoke without other motives.. unless its a close female friend you would know about... at least thats what I think, and from my experience asking to come over to smoke is like asking for netflix and chill... but I might be wrong in this case, the best thing is to talk to him about it

[Asker]

from what I know before they just knew eachothers name and yesterday they started to eachother a lot and starting sharing water bottles and stuff. I'm scared to ask him about it

[Asker]

I only know about yesterday because my bestfriend was by them most of the time

[NanaaG]

I'm sorry but he really might be attracted to her... even if this wouldn't be a huge problem, he took it as far as to invite her over... you shouldn't be afraid but confront him! I know its not easy but if my assumptions are right, its the best to get rid of a guy like that as fast as possible before you start forgiving too much because you love him

[Asker]

he did invite her to get high for the first time so maybe he just invited her there to do it where no one could see them?

[Asker]

it's just a thought...

[Asker]

In all honesty what do you think they will do when they both are high... doesn't belong high mess you up like being drunk

[NanaaG]

If its really just to get high, you shouldn't be afraid to ask that.. and if they are high they get relaxed, if he has other motives he might be more comfortable like that to make a move, if it really was just to get high, nithing would happen

[Asker]

I've heard he's not loyal.. but people change right?

[NanaaG]

Ok nope! Honestly break up

[NanaaG]

you're not gonna be the girl he's gonna change for, so get rid of shit like that before he destroys your feelings... and get a guy that actually cares

[Asker]

then about the girl he might be fucking right now?

[Asker]

I texted him 3 minutes ago.. so far. no answer

[Soft4u]

Everyone who answered your question so far you ask them why they're saying that, I have a great idea ask your boyfriend.

[Asker]

I just want to hear their different reasoning.. I really don't want to think he's cheating

[spartan55]

'Accidentally' my ass.

[Asker]

okay so maybe I was wondering what they were talking about

[spartan55]

Hahaha! Busted.

[Asker]

Why do you think he did that

[spartan55]

Because he wanted to have sex with her... come on, really?

[Asker]

I want to have the benefit of doubt!!! I mean it might be possible she's at his house getting high for the first time I don't know I texted him multiple times and he's not replying

[spartan55]

You can, but that's pretty naive on your part.

[FunkyMonkee]

Maybe she's a present for you!

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[FunkyMonkee]

Maybe he wants to include her in your sexual forays.

[Anonymous]

Guess he likes her now

[Asker]

why do you say that?

[Opinion Owner]

Cuz I’m just dumb

[Asker]

why do you think he likes her? When I'm his girlfriend

[vald9inches]

He wants sex

[Asker]

what makes you think that?

[vald9inches]

If i was him thats what I would want

[Asker]

then why wouldn't he invite me.. I never not high either

[vald9inches]

I don't know I would have if i was him

[Asker]

could there be a possibly that he just wanted to her her high for the first time and do nothing?

[vald9inches]

It is possible