Would you have an affair with a married person even if they look good?

[robocop666]

I turned down a woman who was on a date with her boyfriend. She made the first move. I feel I did the right thing.

I promised myself I will never enter a married woman's house as I don't want the husband coming home and murdering me. I also don't want the husband hiring a private investigator on me. I also don't want to know I am partially responsible for a divorce that would devastate children.

Do you think I am making the right decisions here. Or would you just prefer to get laid.

no dont want trouble

yes if they look good

Updates

+1 y

Would you consider it a good idea to tell them off for trying to cheat in their partner with you?

[Apope16]

I already have. I had sex with a married woman. As long as I don't know the guy then yes. I'd fuck her even if she didn't look like a model. LIke I already have. But I would have to be completely disconnected from the relationship. Like a different city etc.

I would not do it again unless it was a Poly relationship.

The person in the relationship has the responsibility to be loyal. You are not a part of the marriage. Your relationship is only with the partner you are having sex with. So no. I do not feel guilty. But I would NEVER EVER DATE a person I had an affair with. That's not dating material.

My advice to anyone is to simply go along with whatever bullshit they tell you. Its not your job to investigate their claims. So if a married woman tells you that her husband is okay with her sleeping around or that he does it too? Then have sex with her. Its not your job to snoop on social media and ask the husband for permission. No no no. YOu are not in the relationship. She is.

Ladies? The same with you. If the guy says he is seperated from his wife but still married? Just have sex with the guy if you like him but make sure you use protection. It is not your relationship to honor. It is theirs.

If you start snooping claims and getting into other peoples business you will be so twisted in the head you won't know up from down. Keep it simple. Your situation is with yourself and this partner. Not a third party. Let them deal with the third party.

The only exception would be: a mutual friend, a best friend, work colleages, family members, bosses. Things like that. If they are married to those people in your life then stay away.

[robocop666]

excellent point. Would you be scared the husband would come home and you be carried off in an ambulance? along with the kids there and a divorce that would scar them for life?

[Apope16]

Never fuck them at their place. They have always had sex at my place. So no. I've fucked 2 chics

[exitseven]

No, it is a bad thing to do for many reasons most being it could get you killed. I dated a divorced woman for a while and one night her ex husband came to her place drunk and started banging on the door. I asked her if she wanted me to take care of it and she just said that we should be quiet and he would go away. Both our cars were in the driveway so I didn't think it was going to work. He gave it another 15-20 minutes and then he left.

[Anonymous]

I had a married man that was really good looking as me out, I refused him. I also feel the getting involved with a married man or women is dangerous and not worth dying over.

[robocop666]

imagine if the wife hired a private investigator on you and busted you on a date. Thats happened.

[Opinion Owner]

Yep, some really crazies in this world. I grew up in a tough neighbourhood, where a bunch of girls fought over this stuff, but the one I remember most was, this mother of 2 man was cheating and the mother after beating her man when a baseball bat, went to find the women, she knifed the women and now the women has a scar on her face. the mother got into trouble. Yet, that women has a permanent scar now, her man has knee pain but he's still when is children's mother, the other women has no body and guys thinks she ugly with the scar. Which isn't really good for a women.

[Redred56]

As you mentioned children could be involved and they would
Suffer most. And you sorta broke up something that’s already
Broken!

[pigoat]

If it's not you someone else will tap it

Silly you ask this question when you are content with not getting into trouble and playing it safe

[pigoat]

At that point who cares what other people say

[Coulis]

All good decisions. Don't be that dude.

[robocop666]

3 women with partners tried to get me. I accepted none. Don't want to get injured.

[Coulis]

I'm really disgusted with how many people are fully lookong outsode theor marriage. I also don't get guys who find it hot to be woth another man's wife.

[Josh4206]

No I wouldn't, un needed drama

[Anonymous]

Yeah I have in the past 😬😞

[Anonymous]

Not proud of it but I have in the past