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I bet you're a beautiful person. Inside and out and people always are harsher on themselves and appearances.
When everything is all said and done, do looks matter anyway? Everything fades
In saying that, find someone who you connect with and don't worry about the Virgin non Virgin thing.
Focus on each other and things will fall the way they're meant to
Much love
You should start an affirmation book and give yourself positive to do.
No but if you think you can wait 5-10 years your dreaming. My ex and I wanted to wait but the longer the relationship went on the more and more sexual it became. We started with just making out, then hot in heavy, then dry humping, then hand jobs, then having me jerk off to her topless, then blowjobs, then thigh jobs, ass jobs, anal then one time when she was naked except for a tiny white thong and all oiled up grinding herself up against my erect penis her thong had slipped to the side as she going really fast and my penis slipped in as I was ejaculating. That's how she got pregnant. Biology always wins.
So you ghosted her after that?
I see nothing wrong with it but before you start looking for a relationship I would highly recommend taking on a self care routine to help your mental health. We are our biggest critics to our bodies and how we look, try not to be so hard on yourself. I used to hate my body bc I've gained 80 pounds during Highschool and I’ve found it’s so much easier to lose weight when I’m accepting how I look and not hating how I look. Try to be happy :) don’t keep in your feelings talk to somebody and take care of yourself
It's not wrong to have standards, but know that you might have to compromise those standards if you find you are talking to a non-virgin & you start to catch feelings for him & vice versa.
It also sounds like this post is mostly due to your own insecurities. The world is a HUGE place, you'll find someone who loves you & only you, but it might be that he went through some bad choices to find his perfect woman in you.
Best of luck to you sweetie!
That is a wonderful goal. Obviously you need to stay involved with your church and deal with men of high character. There is no harm in both of you only losing your virginities on your wedding night. I wish you much success, I hope you find what you are looking for.
It's not wrong but it might be a challenge unless you are in a very religious community or find someone quite young. Almost all guys are no longer virgins by their mid twenties and most women are looking for a guy from mid to late twenties for marriage.
Almost all girls are no longer virgins by their mid twenties, do you agree about this?
as anyone has their criteria why wouldn't you? As plenty of men want virgin girls why wouldn't you want a virgin guy? its fine. Its your own life. We all have different needs, wants, values etc.
No it's not wrong.
It's just very unlikely that you'll find a virgin man that looks decent. Any real virgin man is likely gonna fail in some other aspects of his life, (likely to be looks and also confidence) and you're likely not going to want that.
But if you do, It should be relatively easy to find a virgin man.
Every guy can notice hot women. Virgins and not so virgins. Doesn't really matter in that regard.
Also, especially when young, both men and women tend to want to try different sexual partners after a while.
Nothing wrong wanting a virgin. Just consentrate more on him being a good man, with virginity as a bonus.
I mean it’s ur preferences just I wouldn’t think so negative on that. I guess find religious guys or even if it’s guys that aren’t virgin try asking them if they’d wait for sex for u or smth. Im not sure. But as a virgin I kinda understand like hm I’d be afraid to lose it to the wrong person but I don’t think that much deeply into it.
Woahhh. My family is so religious that even the mention of SEX will cause a CATASTROPHE IN THE FAMILY.
I bet your family is free and gives you freedom.
But a guy gotta do his own things
Im kinda confused by ur comment lol. That’s why I told her to date a religious guy since for Some they want to wait until marriage.
It's good to date religious men because it ends in marriage but i was talking about you.
Ohh ok yea. I mean I plan to do that to be fair wait until marriage lol I have no interest in sex ever so. But oki thanks then.
Guarantees he will cheat as he will always wonder rather than remembering and regretting marrying you. And almost anyone who wants to can find someone-the problem is that people don't want people in their "league". You can find a sweet guy who is not attractive-plenty out there-
I'm about the oldest virgin male on the internet I just don't believe in sex before marriage I want to be married to a girl, then have sex with her that is just how I feel, and no it's not wrong to feel the way you do
As a person of the seriousness of what I am about to mention, I need you to seriously consider what I am about to say and ask. Would you still consider him a virgin if he was raped by another girl or woman at some point in his life like I was just before I turned 21 here in the states all because I drank alcohol and wanted to go to bed and go to work the next day? Would that make a difference or be the exception for you in what you are asking?
No nothing wrong with that. It's your preference. People will laugh, they will ridicule, they will talk but don't let it get to you.
I think thats perfectly fine you like what you like. I'm a virgin myself and I think my boyfriend is too he never brings up sex or anything like that. He's a gentleman. You'll find someone just be positive :)
At 17 you're probably not going to struggle as much as an older woman would to find a virgin. The kinds of guys who are likely to be virgins and to want to wait til marriage are the heavily religious ones.
As a virgin guy I hope to find someone like you. Plus I also have mental health issues; so I wouldn't mind dating someone else who has them. As for your looks, don't sell yourself short. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and everyone likes different things.
Nothing wrong with wanting a virgin husband but be aware of the risks. There are men who simply do not desire sex at all, and if you want an active sex life after you are married, you need to be sure he isn't one of them
Screw everyone else. If you want to marry a virgin, more power to you.
I mean good luck, but you should go for what you want.
There is nothing wrong in your desire.
But how will you be very sure that he will be a virgin.
Even if he tells you that he is, you will be blindly trusting him.
Exactly! Just like women... will any man trust blindly if they tell him they are virgins. Only gullible men fall into this trap.