Okay.. I have a solution for you.. You won't become white but you will get everything you want!..
First I need to know the Nation and state in which you are right now!..
Don't give me you address or district or towns name..
All I need to know is your geolocation..
See I wanted a white girl.. I am crazy about British or Irish girls.. So I wanted my skin to be white... Later I realized that white girls are into Dark skin Guys.. 😂🤣
You don't need white skin you need to move to a location on globe where people admire dark skin and want tan in their skin like Finland or Ireland.. Etc
I’m sorry you feel this way. Be proud of who you are and what you are. You are not ugly, less desireable, less loveable because you are black. You are worthy of everything. Black people are just as beautiful as white people. Don't try to become white somehow. Dating is hard as it is, whether you're black or white, of course being black can be harder, but don't be down in the dumps.
If you want success in dating, be an open and approachable person. Smile, make eye contact, give signals of interest, open body language and approach men no and then etc. A nice personality is key.
You should feel proud of yourself, but you aren't. Try to increase your self-esteem, self-confidence and love yourself (self compassion). Be patient, everything will be okay.
I may not have a particular preference for black women, but I do believe that I can make an exception for you even though you are in the generation after mine, and I am in the extended relationship type that I am in now as a 6 pointed star.
However, whatever you do, own your purpose for what God originally intended for you to do, and I am more than willing and able to accept the idea that you are a black woman.
The only thing that I ask is for you to do is to never get loud around me because I do not respond well to that at all no matter what someones ethnicity, gender, or age is, and I will more than let you know to what degree you did something wrong because I tell that to anybody that does that, and that includes elderly people that are hard of hearing, and children even if their parents are around.
It may not be as bad as you think. Is marriage even necessary?
About three quarters of black children are born without their parents being married. And most of them grow up without their fathers because their fathers abandon them.
So as a black woman, you shouldn't feel at all left out or alone if you never get married. It seems to be the overwhelming norm in the black community.
Furthermore, more black Americans have been killed in abortions than there are black people living in the United States today. That's why the Democrats love abortion because it keeps the black population down. Blacks have made up the same 13% of the US population for decades, never increasing... just they way the Democrats want it.
So do you really need to have kids? The Democrats would prefer that you don't and most of your black neighbors seem to be fine with that because they keep voting for Democrats.
I’m so sorry you feel that way, as a black girl I feel your pain and have been threw all of it.
Tried to bleach my skin, relax my hair, etc. it sucks but just know that you’re gorgeous, literally every human on earth came from black women. You are the blue prints of the earth, don’t let anyone tell you any different. Your melanins a gift, your curls are coiled to perfection.
❤️❤️❤️Sending lots of love, from one melanated sister to another
Girl, there's totally nothing wrong with your skin color and appeareance. People who hate on you are the sick ones and trust me, you wouldn't like to be friends with such racist a**holes no matter what skin color you have. There's a lot of good people out there and I'm sure you can find your place in the world. If it's a really big issue to you and you feel hopeless - I strongly recommend therapy to help you feel better and deal with those feelings.
You don’t need to be white to be beautiful. My skin is tanned and for a while I was insecure but realized that I still got a pretty face. Anyway, looks aren’t everything. I see girls who are less than a guy’s league and I think it’s cause they won them over for having such a fun and loveable personality. I’m sad to hear that your experiences has caused you to look down on yourself. Embrace who you are. Maybe talking to other girls that look like you will help you to love yourself ❤️
Don't blame your skin color if things aren't working out the way you want. There are many colored people who do great in life and many white people who don't.
You're just in a rut right now and if you learn to accept who you are, you'll be happier.
I’m mixed.. not going to lie I used to feel this way. It helps to embrace yourself the way you are look at celebrities, influencers who are black too who you find beautiful and take tips from them. Learn to love yourself for the way god made you. Insecurity isn’t attractive, SELF LOVE is the first step to finding your happy ending. I promise.
This is actually really really sad. I advise you to go and talk to someone about this because this is a real disorder. I am a beautiful black girl and I love my skin and would never want to be white in any way shape or form. Please learn to love yourself, I’m sure you are beautiful.
Black women are beautiful. I remember one, particularly. She was a model in the music video la negra tiene tumbao from celia cruz. Her skin color was so beautiful and she had a great body and was beautiful. Probably one of the prettiest girls I have seen.
But pale skin looks much better especially when it's next to a dark skinned male. Many of us darker skinned men are embarrassed to be around whiter/pale skinned people especially women... also our genitals are way darker hence more embarrassing
@aieeazumui I know India has a skin bleaching problem In the end skin color doesn't matter much, I don't think. Aishwarya Rai has a medium color not pale and she is named as the most beautiful woman in the world because of her face and eyes
Oh gosh, I truly am sorry for the way racism has acted upon these years. You should love yourself, respect yourself! Black women are beautiful and just as amazing as every race out there. You especially. Don’t let the words of people who judge skin Color hurt you. Your amazing just the way you are. Okay? I am really sorry you feel this horrible about that.
How many black women do you know that are unhappy, have died alone, have never had kids or married? Because I don't know why you're equating happiness to skin colour?
You need to change your mindset and/or go to therapy, not invest in whitening cream.
I am white and I am still unhappy so being white or being black has nothing to do how people treat you. I bet you are pretty, you just don’t believe in it. That is also why people treat you bad. Know that if you see yourself as the hottest, others will too and if you see yourself as not well looking then they would too. So try to love yourself for who you are. ❤️❤️
I’m very saddened to see this. You shouldn’t feel the need to change your skin colour, and I’m sorry to say this but even if you do, those issues done go. White people do suffer these issues too, maybe not as much, but it’s not clean sailing.
I personally feel there is something worse bubbling under the surface. Like a kid saying “I want to run away” there is usually a reason. Is everything okay?
Talk to Michael Jackson's ex doctor which helped him turn white. I don't know if it would really be worth the trouble or expense to do this, but everyone has to decide that kind of thing for them self. Sometimes you think something is going to make you happy but it doesn't if underlying reasons for wanting something are not figured out first.
Girl, you have to make peace with who you are at this time in history. If you don't, you'll be miserable the rest of your life.
Please see a black therapist or counselor and work through these feelings of self hatred. I understand how they could come into being, but you need to deal with this and start to love yourself.
What? Oh man this is so sad. Say you "become white" you will still face some form of discrimination one way another. You aren't blond or you aren't brunetter. You don't have enough money or too much money.
As a black woman who has faced constant discrimination in public, in school and at work I wouldn't change it for the world. All of this hate comes from hidden envy. Be you unapologetically!
well you'll notice that it's not very helpfull to be white. doesn't feel great when people tell you that you only had it better cause of your skin color, not by virtue of your hard work and that you're basically at fault for anyone doing less well than you basically.
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Okay.. I have a solution for you.. You won't become white but you will get everything you want!..
First I need to know the Nation and state in which you are right now!..
Don't give me you address or district or towns name..
All I need to know is your geolocation..
See I wanted a white girl.. I am crazy about British or Irish girls.. So I wanted my skin to be white... Later I realized that white girls are into Dark skin Guys.. 😂🤣
You don't need white skin you need to move to a location on globe where people admire dark skin and want tan in their skin like Finland or Ireland.. Etc
Kind of tan they want is more like South European olive skin not actually brown and they still prefer European facial features
Why did you have to break his dream lol 🤷♂️🤦♂️
What's wrong with brown, Brown is the new Brown I don't know lol 😂
I’m sorry you feel this way. Be proud of who you are and what you are. You are not ugly, less desireable, less loveable because you are black. You are worthy of everything. Black people are just as beautiful as white people. Don't try to become white somehow. Dating is hard as it is, whether you're black or white, of course being black can be harder, but don't be down in the dumps.
If you want success in dating, be an open and approachable person. Smile, make eye contact, give signals of interest, open body language and approach men no and then etc. A nice personality is key.
You should feel proud of yourself, but you aren't. Try to increase your self-esteem, self-confidence and love yourself (self compassion). Be patient, everything will be okay.
I may not have a particular preference for black women, but I do believe that I can make an exception for you even though you are in the generation after mine, and I am in the extended relationship type that I am in now as a 6 pointed star.
However, whatever you do, own your purpose for what God originally intended for you to do, and I am more than willing and able to accept the idea that you are a black woman.
The only thing that I ask is for you to do is to never get loud around me because I do not respond well to that at all no matter what someones ethnicity, gender, or age is, and I will more than let you know to what degree you did something wrong because I tell that to anybody that does that, and that includes elderly people that are hard of hearing, and children even if their parents are around.
It may not be as bad as you think. Is marriage even necessary?
About three quarters of black children are born without their parents being married. And most of them grow up without their fathers because their fathers abandon them.
So as a black woman, you shouldn't feel at all left out or alone if you never get married. It seems to be the overwhelming norm in the black community.
Furthermore, more black Americans have been killed in abortions than there are black people living in the United States today. That's why the Democrats love abortion because it keeps the black population down. Blacks have made up the same 13% of the US population for decades, never increasing... just they way the Democrats want it.
So do you really need to have kids? The Democrats would prefer that you don't and most of your black neighbors seem to be fine with that because they keep voting for Democrats.
So what are you so concerned about?
I don't think that post is going to help... So to the person posting if you want to talk I'm open to.
I’m so sorry you feel that way, as a black girl I feel your pain and have been threw all of it.
Tried to bleach my skin, relax my hair, etc. it sucks but just know that you’re gorgeous, literally every human on earth came from black women. You are the blue prints of the earth, don’t let anyone tell you any different. Your melanins a gift, your curls are coiled to perfection.
❤️❤️❤️Sending lots of love, from one melanated sister to another
Dark skin girls are beautiful!!!
Girl, there's totally nothing wrong with your skin color and appeareance. People who hate on you are the sick ones and trust me, you wouldn't like to be friends with such racist a**holes no matter what skin color you have. There's a lot of good people out there and I'm sure you can find your place in the world. If it's a really big issue to you and you feel hopeless - I strongly recommend therapy to help you feel better and deal with those feelings.
You don’t need to be white to be beautiful. My skin is tanned and for a while I was insecure but realized that I still got a pretty face. Anyway, looks aren’t everything. I see girls who are less than a guy’s league and I think it’s cause they won them over for having such a fun and loveable personality. I’m sad to hear that your experiences has caused you to look down on yourself. Embrace who you are. Maybe talking to other girls that look like you will help you to love yourself ❤️
Don't blame your skin color if things aren't working out the way you want. There are many colored people who do great in life and many white people who don't.
You're just in a rut right now and if you learn to accept who you are, you'll be happier.
Easier said than done. I know.
I’m mixed.. not going to lie I used to feel this way. It helps to embrace yourself the way you are look at celebrities, influencers who are black too who you find beautiful and take tips from them. Learn to love yourself for the way god made you. Insecurity isn’t attractive, SELF LOVE is the first step to finding your happy ending. I promise.
Or instead of looking for treatment you stop blaming the things you don't have (yet) on something that's not in your control.
Especially when black women are as successful as white women in social life and romance and all.
If Rihanna can steal the hears of billions of people I'm sure you can pull off a few
This is actually really really sad. I advise you to go and talk to someone about this because this is a real disorder. I am a beautiful black girl and I love my skin and would never want to be white in any way shape or form. Please learn to love yourself, I’m sure you are beautiful.
Black women are beautiful. I remember one, particularly. She was a model in the music video la negra tiene tumbao from celia cruz. Her skin color was so beautiful and she had a great body and was beautiful. Probably one of the prettiest girls I have seen.
But pale skin looks much better especially when it's next to a dark skinned male. Many of us darker skinned men are embarrassed to be around whiter/pale skinned people especially women... also our genitals are way darker hence more embarrassing
@aieeazumui I know India has a skin bleaching problem
In the end skin color doesn't matter much, I don't think. Aishwarya Rai has a medium color not pale and she is named as the most beautiful woman in the world because of her face and eyes
Aishwarya Rai us quite fair as per Indian skin tone
@aieeazumui Really? Oh, I see
Oh gosh, I truly am sorry for the way racism has acted upon these years. You should love yourself, respect yourself! Black women are beautiful and just as amazing as every race out there. You especially. Don’t let the words of people who judge skin Color hurt you. Your amazing just the way you are. Okay? I am really sorry you feel this horrible about that.
How many black women do you know that are unhappy, have died alone, have never had kids or married? Because I don't know why you're equating happiness to skin colour?
You need to change your mindset and/or go to therapy, not invest in whitening cream.
I am white and I am still unhappy so being white or being black has nothing to do how people treat you. I bet you are pretty, you just don’t believe in it. That is also why people treat you bad. Know that if you see yourself as the hottest, others will too and if you see yourself as not well looking then they would too. So try to love yourself for who you are. ❤️❤️
I’m very saddened to see this. You shouldn’t feel the need to change your skin colour, and I’m sorry to say this but even if you do, those issues done go. White people do suffer these issues too, maybe not as much, but it’s not clean sailing.
I personally feel there is something worse bubbling under the surface. Like a kid saying “I want to run away” there is usually a reason. Is everything okay?
Talk to Michael Jackson's ex doctor which helped him turn white. I don't know if it would really be worth the trouble or expense to do this, but everyone has to decide that kind of thing for them self. Sometimes you think something is going to make you happy but it doesn't if underlying reasons for wanting something are not figured out first.
Girl, you have to make peace with who you are at this time in history. If you don't, you'll be miserable the rest of your life.
Please see a black therapist or counselor and work through these feelings of self hatred. I understand how they could come into being, but you need to deal with this and start to love yourself.
What? Oh man this is so sad. Say you "become white" you will still face some form of discrimination one way another. You aren't blond or you aren't brunetter. You don't have enough money or too much money.
As a black woman who has faced constant discrimination in public, in school and at work I wouldn't change it for the world. All of this hate comes from hidden envy. Be you unapologetically!
well you'll notice that it's not very helpfull to be white. doesn't feel great when people tell you that you only had it better cause of your skin color, not by virtue of your hard work and that you're basically at fault for anyone doing less well than you basically.