I wish I was white? (Page 2)

Question

I realized, as a black girl, that I‘ll never find my happy ending. I will never date and enjoy my dating life, will never marry or have kids. I will probably die alone. So I wish that I was white, no matter how long, even for a second I would to anything to be (come) white. I stopped a whitening cream I used to buy but now I‘m considering starting to start using it again. I just want to be white so bad, just having beautiful long hair and a normal life without prejudices, discriminstion or (verbal) attacks from cops and other people. I just want to be freaking normal.  What can I do? Does a treamtent exist to become white somehow?

BubbaTech · Answer

Happy ending dosent exist. I'm white. No happy ending.

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

There is such a treatment for what you describe: Therapy. Being white is not some cheat code to beauty and happiness and wealth. Plenty of ugly, unhappy, poor white people in the world

chocolatepenguin1 · Answer

This makes me upset when I see this. All I see is African people (epically in South Africa) that they buy this special whitening product for their skin and Asian people as well. I personally think you should love yourself the way your are 💙

Iamme22 · Answer

I'm white so please dont do this YOU ARE NORMAL I don't like being white being white sucks it sucks so much white people have so much more to deal with white people are accused of being "Racist" just because were white and some people are "Racist" some people are not I am not tho

Prettygurl12 · Answer

Being white ain't all it's cracked up to be. There is very little one can (or should) do about the color of their skin. Just embrace what you have. Don't discount yourself so much.

princessde · Answer

Brown woman are very beautiful. Please get educated properly first and find a well educated guy. People with low standards don't love based on "color of skin". Get educated on "true love " description.

jshm2 · Answer

Nope you don't. You just suffer low self-esteem, is all.  You cannot "be" another race. Lightening your skin doesn't make a difference.

Ellie-V · Answer

Well this isn’t unfamiliar... You will never be white. I am a black woman and I’m telling you the answer is no.

Asianguy123 · Answer

Americans are sinner. Judging people by their look is the biggest sin of all according to he bible. I am East Asian and people never teach how to survive nor English. People are so bad. I wish they die sooon

zhitheturtle · Answer

Don't ever wish that again don't ever say that again! Most of my family is black/ brown they're absolutely gorgeous, I'm black and I find myself beautiful take care of yourself and you'll have more confidence. Dark skin woman are gorgeous! I use to be insecure because I was a little lighter then them. (I'm between lighskin and darkskin) but you're but you're gorgeous so🙂 you better not be trolling.

Tanisha69 · Answer

It's natural to feel this way sometimes. It's hard being a POC. But changing to a white person isn't the answer even if it was possible. You got to love yourself and your life as you are. Come on Sister, you can do it.

Anonymous · Answer

You should move to Africa and then almost all of these things will not apply anymore.

You can for sure have your happy ending even in America but it’s more difficult as America is a country that does not like or help its citizens as much as most developed countries.

However you seem particularly tired of the symptoms of being black and living in america.

Anonymous · Answer

Just an fyi. People of all colors struggle in their lives. Most hide it from everyone else but don't fall victim to the belief that being white would solve all of your problems. It might solve some of them, who knows, but you would face other, different challenges.

I have seen lists of white privileges and I have seen larger lists of black privileges. Are they the same lists? No but the point is that people usually ignore their own privileges while complaining about everyone else's

msbrightness · Answer

Well,

Stay away from the UV/sun exposure and your skin will lighten up slowly.
So will the eye irises, by the way.

It takes a very long time to turn pale and bright eyed, but it will only benefit your health to avoid UV exposure

Daniel_Dano · Answer

Many black women are very attractive and smart , don't hate yourself just because the media glorifies white women , you will probably find someone who loves you for whom you are, there are good men out there that will love you.

Anonymous · Answer

Why? There are pluses to every race and negatives. im white but tattooed so I still deal with police on a regular bases in over blown ways. But I have a very small dick and my wife has her BBC🍆 buddy who looks better, is built better, more than 4 times bigger than me 🍆🥜(dick size) and makes a better living. We're the same age. 8 years older than my wife. I dream of being him fairly often as I do with most black men I see. But you can only be you right? 🥜🤷‍♂️

SphynxUK · Answer

I’m wondering what the hell your parents would think if they saw this...

Steinkopf · Answer

Stop it. Seriously this sounds unhealthy. Also there are ugly white girls.

likelyOK · Answer

Treatment is not available to totally change your race and the answer is to find therapy to overcome this. You have internalized hatred.

Anonymous · Answer

Do you think whites are not discriminated against? Go ask a Chinese grocery store owner if they'd hire a white person & they'd laugh in your face. Go ask an Indian gas station owner if they'd hire a white person & they'd keel over laughing.

AlexanderAnttila · Answer

You'll have a thing or two to explain then, to the millions of black women with husbands and children given how convinced you are that your skin colour prevents that.

Anonymous · Answer

Life is hard. First of all you should love yourself. I know it sounds cringey, but once you start a treatment, you'll never see yourself as how you wanted to look like.

BeMuse · Answer

It would be a rude awakening for you... Heavy lies the crown.

Willoughby23 · Answer

Why is this a featured question? For one its not even a question and should be a my take. And two its stupid and also probably a troll.

Tomtom9090 · Answer

Why? Best time to be black is now. All the roles, pandering and support is given to those individuals

LiamSawyer · Answer

You're gorgeous just as you are if that's you in the pic.

John_Doesnt · Answer

Try downloading MetaHuman creator:

Kaneki05 · Answer

I wish i was black, more adaptive to not getting skin cancer but eh that's just me.

sensible27 · Answer

People sometimes miss the things they don't have, even if they aren't important. Hope you're okay

amy654 · Answer

Sorry you feel that way. I hope this is a temporary feeling.

pleasestopthis · Answer

You have serious problems going on if you think having fair skin would magically solve your entire life. Get help.

Anonymous · Answer

Not really sue how that solves the problem of dating, getting married, and having kids. You might want to work on correcting the half-dozen or so major logical fallacies that led you to conclude all of that, but that's just my 2-cents.

Russwill · Answer

Hey, first let me apologize for the b. s. you deal with! But girl own who you are because there is and will always be haters. Be proud and beautiful!

Anonymous · Answer

A lot of black women are happy, proud, and confident with who they are. I think what you’re feeling is more than just skin. Try being kind to yourself.

Alexandrubaschet08 · Answer

can't understand you girl, why you want to be white so bad?

Ripper_E · Answer

Why do you feel that way and what does it have to do with you being black?

JamieLoves · Answer

LOL... yes.. Michael Jackson bleached his skin and became a white women. Many women in the music biz do too. Id rather be white too.

TerminallyChill · Answer

The fact that you are anonymous completely discredits a post like this on a racist laden site such as this one.

Anonymous · Answer

We should always attempt to be proud of who and what we are. I can only assume this is a troll post.

RyanEC · Answer

Everyone should be proud of and accept who they are.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Be proud of who you are. White people aren't special. Their poop and farts stink too.

Nades · Answer

This was so sad to read. I really felt your pain. I felt it so much that now I just wanna drink some bleach because how stupid this is._.

OddBeMe · Answer

I’m sorry the racist elements in society got to you. I can only promise that more opportunities will be open to you day after day.

Shihab91 · Answer

You are beautiful the way you are, it's just media that represent the white girls as the best but the reality is far from that.

Minahh · Answer

This is so sad that in today's society people need to feel this way about themselves. Just know that you're beautiful just the way you are.

sixtyeightplusone · Answer

if you were hot like the black girl in the picture most of these issues you point out would not be an issue for you

Anonymous · Answer

Were you able to notice a difference in your skin color after using the whitening cream?

Anonymous · Answer

NOOOOO Acts 17:26 hath made of one blood all nations of men for to dwell on all the face of the earth, and hath determined the times before appointed, and the bounds of their habitation

Anonymous · Answer

Honestly I would rather be very attractive and born rich than be white kind of privilege they have is amazing but I am middle class and below average looking

WYVERNFYRES · Answer

This is the dumbest question i've ever heard, and if there was a whitening procedure its a waste of money.

Anonymous · Answer

Being white doesn’t mean you’ll necessarily be happy. Many white people are poor and sad. I’m Asian and don’t want to be white.

Nahid1707 · Answer

You should be proud of your skin tone and skin colour

Anonymous · Answer

I’m sorry you feel this way. Be proud of who you are and what you are! But date white men. It is popular these days and you should have no problems.

Anonymous · Answer

Can’t control what we are and was born, but many black women get all those things, nothing to do with color

Onecurse · Answer

Thats only for white women being a white guy sucks.

Justaguy30 · Answer

Be comfortable in your own skin. I'm sure you are beautiful just the way you are

Smegskull · Answer

I don't get it, what's the corelation? We all die alone, why is being black relevant?

Anonymous · Answer

So who thought this question was worth even paying attention to let alone making it a top question?

Anonymous · Answer

You could try moving a majority white place and dating white dudes. Problem solved.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

News flash, most men don't care what color your skin is, you are being paranoid and overly dramatic.

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