You don't know anything about cheating honey. And no, it only makes you 'bad' in the victim's eyes. And while you can't blame the victim of cheating, there is nearly always culpability for failures in the relationship that creates the opportunity for cheating in the first place. Time to get over yourself.
Um, no. So if I kill someone I'm only bad in the eyes of the victim. See the issue of the logic here? Guessing not. I have seen relationships that have minor issues. You know not putting the seat down, or when taking the trash out they don't put a bag in right away, or they made some meal slightly different then normal and someone cheats. Cheaters will cheat no matter how good or bad the relationship is. You cheat, you deserve to have your nuts taken or your eggs removed. Don't need that kind of trash having kids
@NerdyEngineer - Clearly you don't know what you're talking about either. Consider just reading more and posting less cuz you're clueless and there is information here you can benefit from.
Sure thing pops once you take your head out of your ass. I have read far more then you have and know more on the subject then you even could dream I know. So clearly you have no clue what your talking about, so get your depends on and go take your nap.
You should never say that you will never cheat. It may be your intention to never cheat on anyone for the remainder of your life, but making such statements seems to be like spitting into the wind.
Cheating is still cheating, just like rape is still rape and murder is still murder. You choose to cheat, its not an accident. "Honey I tripped, my clothes came off and his dick ended in me." So its a choice and it says a lot about you willing to treat others like crap, break trust and that commitment means nothing. No matter who they are, what gender they are, what religious stance or side of the political fence they are are, you are scum and proudly proclaim such when you cheat!
Cheaters have sadistic tendencies. Their primary goal isn't sexual conquest of someone new or some unfulfilled needs, cheaters want to hurt their partners. If you aren't hurt and you take their cheating as free ticket to cheat on them, they will get rid of you very soon. You don't give them the suffering they crave for.
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If you're casual about cheating or cheat in multiple relationships it says a lot. Someone who is miserable and does something drunk they regret sure it might kill the relationship (deservedly so) but I wouldn't assume they're a bad person.
and once you get into bad marriages and reasons people may stay in them it gets more complicated still.
Yep, if you can do something like that to the person that you love and that loves you, it is as easy as breathing to play other people like a fiddle. Person to be avoided.
I think there are people that want to cheat, its more about conquest than anything else, I have cheated but through sexual lust, didn't want to have anything else with hi, just sex
It says that you’re a coward because you werent brave enough to breakup with your girlfriend/boyfriend and/or be honest with the sidepiece. It also says that you're untrustworthy and fear commitment
It honestly depends. I know some people could be pressured and have a hard time getting out of the situation. Some people know and are willing to cheat. Either way both situations can say things about you. First situation can mean you are weak willed and not strong enough inside to get out. Second one means you are untrustworthy, loser, as*hole who should learn there lesson and karma will get you back.
Circumstances leading up to the cheating are critically important, but your choice to cheat does say a lot about who you are as a person, yes. It speaks to a great deal of a lack of self awareness and an inability to communicate.
Actually cheating, Backstabbing, snitching these are all same things if you see it clearly. You do it and it take your image and trust down in the person you do it with. And yes it makes you a bad person because if you can do it with one person one time you can do it again and again. how much you deny it once a cheater is always a cheater so better to stay loyal. Because some things never remain the same after being hurt. If you know what i mean. I hope you understand this.
I mean it does say a lot because it does show selfishness, no impulse control, no care for loved ones. But I’m sure a lot of nice people cheat and plenty of jerks cheat so who knows.
Never did this until my ex husband did it to me on grand style. So now if I see some one I fancy , I go after them. Whether I have a girlfriend or boyfriend.
It means you are not with the right partner. There's some part of your relationship that is lacking for you that you are not willing to address and work on with your partner
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You don't know anything about cheating honey. And no, it only makes you 'bad' in the victim's eyes.
And while you can't blame the victim of cheating, there is nearly always culpability for failures in the relationship that creates the opportunity for cheating in the first place.
Time to get over yourself.
Um, no. So if I kill someone I'm only bad in the eyes of the victim. See the issue of the logic here? Guessing not. I have seen relationships that have minor issues. You know not putting the seat down, or when taking the trash out they don't put a bag in right away, or they made some meal slightly different then normal and someone cheats. Cheaters will cheat no matter how good or bad the relationship is. You cheat, you deserve to have your nuts taken or your eggs removed. Don't need that kind of trash having kids
@NerdyEngineer - Clearly you don't know what you're talking about either. Consider just reading more and posting less cuz you're clueless and there is information here you can benefit from.
Sure thing pops once you take your head out of your ass. I have read far more then you have and know more on the subject then you even could dream I know. So clearly you have no clue what your talking about, so get your depends on and go take your nap.
@NerdyEngineer - Fuck off ya little cunt.
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You should never say that you will never cheat. It may be your intention to never cheat on anyone for the remainder of your life, but making such statements seems to be like spitting into the wind.
Cheaters are among my least favorite type of people. They tend to be LIARS, which is another bunch I don't care for.
Cheating is still cheating, just like rape is still rape and murder is still murder.
You choose to cheat, its not an accident. "Honey I tripped, my clothes came off and his dick ended in me." So its a choice and it says a lot about you willing to treat others like crap, break trust and that commitment means nothing. No matter who they are, what gender they are, what religious stance or side of the political fence they are are, you are scum and proudly proclaim such when you cheat!
Cheaters have sadistic tendencies. Their primary goal isn't sexual conquest of someone new or some unfulfilled needs, cheaters want to hurt their partners. If you aren't hurt and you take their cheating as free ticket to cheat on them, they will get rid of you very soon. You don't give them the suffering they crave for.
If you're casual about cheating or cheat in multiple relationships it says a lot. Someone who is miserable and does something drunk they regret sure it might kill the relationship (deservedly so) but I wouldn't assume they're a bad person.
and once you get into bad marriages and reasons people may stay in them it gets more complicated still.
Yep, if you can do something like that to the person that you love and that loves you, it is as easy as breathing to play other people like a fiddle.
Person to be avoided.
It says you're unloyal and you can't keep your promises. OR, you're wishy washy and you don't MAKE any promises.
Either way, you're unreliable and sneaky.
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I think there are people that want to cheat, its more about conquest than anything else,
I have cheated but through sexual lust, didn't want to have anything else with hi, just sex
It says that you are a dishonest, lying bag of shit who only cares about yourself and is ruled by your appetites. No different than a thief.
Cheaters just suck at being loyal
And that should be enough for people not to want to be around you
But most times it isn't
So who fucking cares
It says that you’re a coward because you werent brave enough to breakup with your girlfriend/boyfriend and/or be honest with the sidepiece. It also says that you're untrustworthy and fear commitment
It honestly depends. I know some people could be pressured and have a hard time getting out of the situation. Some people know and are willing to cheat. Either way both situations can say things about you. First situation can mean you are weak willed and not strong enough inside to get out. Second one means you are untrustworthy, loser, as*hole who should learn there lesson and karma will get you back.
Circumstances leading up to the cheating are critically important, but your choice to cheat does say a lot about who you are as a person, yes. It speaks to a great deal of a lack of self awareness and an inability to communicate.
Actually cheating, Backstabbing, snitching these are all same things if you see it clearly. You do it and it take your image and trust down in the person you do it with. And yes it makes you a bad person because if you can do it with one person one time you can do it again and again. how much you deny it once a cheater is always a cheater so better to stay loyal. Because some things never remain the same after being hurt. If you know what i mean. I hope you understand this.
@CharlineTipp have you ever cheated on someone?
I mean it does say a lot because it does show selfishness, no impulse control, no care for loved ones. But I’m sure a lot of nice people cheat and plenty of jerks cheat so who knows.
I think you have to have terrible morale to cheat on your partner. It’s a character defect in my books.
Lol whoever downvoted definitely cheated on someone
@HawkPerception Lmao I’m astounded by the downvotes I get sometimes.
I feel that man. Same here
Never did this until my ex husband did it to me on grand style.
So now if I see some one I fancy , I go after them. Whether I have a girlfriend or boyfriend.
It means you are not with the right partner. There's some part of your relationship that is lacking for you that you are not willing to address and work on with your partner