guess all she gotta bring to the table is a good looking body.
of course that highly depends on what sort of relationship the woman is after. if she wants to be in a emancipated relationship, where she's seen as equal to her partner, she should bring the same things to the table.
I'm so impressed that you asked this question! So many women think they are enough just because they exist.
The main things he wants are a home, peace, and a healthy connection with you. And the healthy connection is mental, emotional, sexual, and as a best friend
These days relationships and marriages sound more like business arrangements (prostitution!) than actual love matches. No wonder so many end in bitter divorces and/or, like in my country, murder suicide tragedies! Why can't it be that both bring love, honesty, mutual trust and respect, compatibility, and shared values to the table?
Lmfao. Thats exactly why they dont work. Love ain't shit in terms of keeping a relationship together. If both parties are getting the specific things they want out of a relationship then it tends to work.
@DeltaCharlieEcho yes. The proper function of a relationship is by far the biggest concern of a relationship. I could love a girl to the moon and back but if the nuts and bolts dont function like a fine tuned precision machine NEXT, because its totally usless to have a relationship thats got any risk.
@bamesjond0069 even if a relationship is perfect, it can still end with no notice. Men are replaceable right now, I can’t wait for women to get to experience what we go through everyday. I’m betting the shoe will drop in no more than 15 years.
The exact same, your partner should be a reflection of yourself. She doesn’t have to make six figures but she has to know what it’s like to earn a living and be independent. She should be responsible with her money. The most attractive quality is a woman who inspires you to be a better person.
The same I would hope. Depends on what they are both looking for. But personally If I ever got married I'd prefer us both to have all that to begin with.
That's a really good question. So let me add one of my own.. why do women care so much about the material things more than if the guy has a good heart and will love deeply and take good care of his s. o? Today it's all about nice car big bank account etc.. and it's SAD
Historically it’s because women needed stability since it wasn’t possible for them to achieve it on their own. This is not a defense of feminism though. Women brought the skills of home life support to the relationship while men brought the income and security to the relationship. With the government subsidizing women for existing now the income box is checked; with making it a legal nightmare to defend yourself in your own home, the government gets to check the security box in their own. Essentially relationships and men have become impulse goods, something women can have whenever they want and replace as desired.
If those are her prerequisites, then she also needs a decent job and/or trained skill, and her own car. Beyond that, she needs to be uninhibited, hypersexual, orgasmic, and willing to submit her mouth or pussy any time.
The ability to agree to disagree, doesn't post promiscuous photos, respectful, lady like (none of that "bro" shxt), nurturing, and able to cook good food. Tbh basically like my mom, but an attractive much younger version 😂🤣😂
I do have all of those - So I'll say femininity (Don't try being all assertive and talking about your job and shit just be nice and relax) nurturing skills and a trophy wife that acts like a lady
I woman is an equal partner and should contribute equally to the relationship. It can mean monetarily but also with other ways like talent or expertise.
Marriage is a traditional institution which means a woman should bring traditional female roles and values to the table. If she does not believe in traditional roles than why get married.
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guess all she gotta bring to the table is a good looking body.
of course that highly depends on what sort of relationship the woman is after. if she wants to be in a emancipated relationship, where she's seen as equal to her partner, she should bring the same things to the table.
I'm so impressed that you asked this question! So many women think they are enough just because they exist.
The main things he wants are a home, peace, and a healthy connection with you. And the healthy connection is mental, emotional, sexual, and as a best friend
These days relationships and marriages sound more like business arrangements (prostitution!) than actual love matches.
No wonder so many end in bitter divorces and/or, like in my country, murder suicide tragedies!
Why can't it be that both bring love, honesty, mutual trust and respect, compatibility, and shared values to the table?
Lmfao. Thats exactly why they dont work. Love ain't shit in terms of keeping a relationship together. If both parties are getting the specific things they want out of a relationship then it tends to work.
Functionally I’m pretty sure they are at this point. Men always loose in marriage and divorce.
@DeltaCharlieEcho yes. The proper function of a relationship is by far the biggest concern of a relationship. I could love a girl to the moon and back but if the nuts and bolts dont function like a fine tuned precision machine NEXT, because its totally usless to have a relationship thats got any risk.
@bamesjond0069 even if a relationship is perfect, it can still end with no notice. Men are replaceable right now, I can’t wait for women to get to experience what we go through everyday. I’m betting the shoe will drop in no more than 15 years.
both men and women should have good money management and be able to take care of themselves before they think about marriage.
Those men who are downing me care to explain yourself?
The exact same, your partner should be a reflection of yourself. She doesn’t have to make six figures but she has to know what it’s like to earn a living and be independent. She should be responsible with her money. The most attractive quality is a woman who inspires you to be a better person.
The same I would hope. Depends on what they are both looking for. But personally If I ever got married I'd prefer us both to have all that to begin with.
Owning an entire house isn't necessarily a must, but at least an apartment.
Paying rent or morgage on an apartment is fine. Expecting to own it at a young age is a bit too much. 😗
Oh yeah that wouldn't be expected really for either of us. However once we are past 30 and we have the means, and if we want one that's cool to.
That's a really good question. So let me add one of my own.. why do women care so much about the material things more than if the guy has a good heart and will love deeply and take good care of his s. o?
Today it's all about nice car big bank account etc.. and it's SAD
Historically it’s because women needed stability since it wasn’t possible for them to achieve it on their own. This is not a defense of feminism though. Women brought the skills of home life support to the relationship while men brought the income and security to the relationship. With the government subsidizing women for existing now the income box is checked; with making it a legal nightmare to defend yourself in your own home, the government gets to check the security box in their own. Essentially relationships and men have become impulse goods, something women can have whenever they want and replace as desired.
If those are her prerequisites, then she also needs a decent job and/or trained skill, and her own car. Beyond that, she needs to be uninhibited, hypersexual, orgasmic, and willing to submit her mouth or pussy any time.
The ability to agree to disagree, doesn't post promiscuous photos, respectful, lady like (none of that "bro" shxt), nurturing, and able to cook good food. Tbh basically like my mom, but an attractive much younger version 😂🤣😂
Love, caring, responsibility, intelligence, honesty, integrity, compassion, etc. Of course, the guy also needs these.
I do have all of those - So I'll say femininity (Don't try being all assertive and talking about your job and shit just be nice and relax) nurturing skills and a trophy wife that acts like a lady
A man must not "have" good job (which means high salary) nice car and house materialism nonsense.
As long a man is a decent human being and does the best he can with what God provides him with is good enough.
Cool storry, bro.
I don't think a car/house are a must for men to get married.
yes it is
Yes it is. Any guy in the dating market knows a woman marrys based on resources and status... not character and integrity.
An income of her own, no matter how important, to help out with expenses, and the will to be supportive.
I woman is an equal partner and should contribute equally to the relationship. It can mean monetarily but also with other ways like talent or expertise.
Marriage is a traditional institution which means a woman should bring traditional female roles and values to the table. If she does not believe in traditional roles than why get married.
Well for her backend payout, of course.
Her Integrity learning how to live, care, appreciate a man and they work as an asset.
No kids, a job or career of her own, good personality and character
Be a good wife and mother to the kids, help out and take care of stuff, be a good cook and help financially too if can
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( swallowing is a must )