It's not just about cheaters.. But also the people that excuse others cheating or blame the person cheated on but then expect sympathy when it happens to them...
You'd think... But there's some people on here that excuse or justify for just one gender and then not the other... To me I don't care if you female or male, if they a cheater they a lying, selfish POS
So let me get this straight. The guy says that all men have a right to cheat and boldly declares this and then his woman cheats on him and now heโs all upset? Thatโs pretty hilarious.
Yes it is! So then why do people keep trying to justify or excuse it anyway, but especially make it worse if one gender does it but okay for the other... I'm sorry, I personally can't have much sympathy for any guy that thinks men are excuses from cheating not caring how that can ruin a woman's life but then act so broken heated of it happens to them... Hypocrisy and double standards don't sit well with me
I prefer to keep my life simple by simply not cheating at all and therefore I don't have a sufficient amount of knowledge or experience in this area to render a useful opinion.
No it's not. But I'm sorry I can't have much sympathy for people that kick others when they're down but then expect sympathy themselves๐คท๐ผโโ๏ธ
Karmas a bitch,& how do you want to be treated. Look if they did nothing to deserve it I've got a bleeding heart but if they played the part well hell no 😎โ๏ธ
not really. but... an evil do not justify other. this person can justify. but as long as he doesn't cheat... he is still not a cheater. for what he deserves some consideration. after all... actions speak louder tan words.
A husband and his close friend seeks the help of an officer to contact his wife who left him after a quarrel and supposedly went to a party hosted by a playboy to which she was invited.
The officer was on friendly terms with the playboy and was reluctant to help, he even teased the husband saying let her enjoy her time with that guy. But it turned out that the wife never attended the party and it was the officers wife who ended up sleeping with that guy ๐.
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if they've cheated themselves... i'd sip my tea in silent glee
It's not just about cheaters.. But also the people that excuse others cheating or blame the person cheated on but then expect sympathy when it happens to them...
oh maybe I'd have a small bit of pity (i'm too nice) but I'd mostly think karma!
I definitely would not. I didn't even realize that was a thing. I thought cheating was a universally disgusting concept.
You'd think... But there's some people on here that excuse or justify for just one gender and then not the other... To me I don't care if you female or male, if they a cheater they a lying, selfish POS
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Nope. Maybe it's good for them to feel it first hand. But the person who cheated is also a terrible person.
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If a cheater gets cheated on, I have no sympathy. That's the bed they made, let them sleep in it. Karma is a bitch.
Right!! And if people think cheating is ever justified, then justify it when someone cheats on them๐คท๐ผโโ๏ธ
So let me get this straight. The guy says that all men have a right to cheat and boldly declares this and then his woman cheats on him and now heโs all upset? Thatโs pretty hilarious.
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not if they whine and complain about it, after justifying it happening to others
Exactly
Me neither, sis. Rationalizing and denial won't help
Exactly!!
At some point, you gotta own up even if it hurts
Yeah, you should still feel sorry for them. Getting cheated on is messed up.
Yes it is! So then why do people keep trying to justify or excuse it anyway, but especially make it worse if one gender does it but okay for the other... I'm sorry, I personally can't have much sympathy for any guy that thinks men are excuses from cheating not caring how that can ruin a woman's life but then act so broken heated of it happens to them... Hypocrisy and double standards don't sit well with me
I think this particular example is a clueless person. And we can feel sorry for the clueless.
Now the one whoโs a cheater themselves may be a different story, depending on the circumstances
You see clueless, I see double standards
I bet you now where I stand on this one? My thoughts are very similar to yours. Not much sympathy coming from me.
Right! The post and thread that sparked this question is on the featured page. ๐คฃ Bet you can guess which one lolol
Big hint- my answer featured๐คฃ
Kind of, but at the same time it feels like a dose of justice for talking nonsense. They need to know what it feels like
Exactly!
I prefer to keep my life simple by simply not cheating at all and therefore I don't have a sufficient amount of knowledge or experience in this area to render a useful opinion.
Yes, I would still feel sorry for them. It is never a good thing when this happens.
No it's not. But I'm sorry I can't have much sympathy for people that kick others when they're down but then expect sympathy themselves๐คท๐ผโโ๏ธ
Karmas a bitch,& how do you want to be treated. Look if they did nothing to deserve it I've got a bleeding heart but if they played the part well hell no 😎โ๏ธ
I've reached my monthly limit on "Cheating" questions, so I'm just here to collect points, ok? :-D Whatever you think, I agree with !!! LOL
Point whore๐คฃ
I'm not a whore for points. Whores get paid. I'm a point SLUT !!
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So you saying you a free slut๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ
Yes... sluts do it because they like it. Whores do it for the money.
Well thanks for clarifying that LOL
YW. Believe me, if I could someone "make money" with this body, I'd probably go for it, but that ain't gonna happen !! LOL
You sure? Maybe you could find you a sugar momma๐คฃ
I think that would be one of those situations where you just sip your tea quietly. Lol
๐ต๐คฃ but can I sip coffee instead๐คฃ
@Brainsbeforebeauty Sure! :)
if they didn't cheat ( themselves) then yes but also hope this taught them a lesson on how its feels.
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Yes of course. I feel sorry for ANYONE who gets cheated on. It's a horrible thing to happen whatever their views are.
As far as I'm concerned, no one should blame someone for cheating at all.
No one takes marriage seriously because divorce is sn easy out
Breakups are incredibly easy in non-marriage relationships too.
Cheating is tge rule, not the exception.
not really. but... an evil do not justify other. this person can justify. but as long as he doesn't cheat... he is still not a cheater. for what he deserves some consideration. after all... actions speak louder tan words.
No, I don't think so.
I'll just laugh😂.
Seriously this reminded me of a scene from a movie 🤣
What movie๐ค
It's from a very different language.
A husband and his close friend seeks the help of an officer to contact his wife who left him after a quarrel and supposedly went to a party hosted by a playboy to which she was invited.
The officer was on friendly terms with the playboy and was reluctant to help, he even teased the husband saying let her enjoy her time with that guy.
But it turned out that the wife never attended the party and it was the officers wife who ended up sleeping with that guy ๐.
It's both funny and serious at the same time
What a plot twist lolol