every situation would be different... cheating could happen in many different ways
now, I have never been cheated on so I really don't know... but I think that more than blaming someone or something I would very much rather try to understand what happened
and that also requires some introspection, if some cheated on me... then I probably did not pick the right person to be with, so why did not I saw this before
or maybe I knew this person had cheated before or was close to, would tend to... and I still went into a relationship with them, and then oh surprise... why would I have chosen that and risked it...
also, maybe the person I chose to be with, did not have this within them but then... our relationship turned so differently, that it was probably a factor on them ending up cheating on me
I would not blame them I would certainly NOT blame myself... my priority would be to understand as much as possible because I sure would not want to going through something like that, ever again, lol
Yes I would not because I think it´s her job to teach him how to be man, but if she cheated on him she would do exactly the same as he did before. The reason I say that they both create a viscous circle they´ll never get out, it would be better for her to break up or speak out a threat she´ll break up than cheat on him because it´s not leading in a good direction. What´s a goal of cheating? That he realises he made a mistake and correct things? I´m sure that´s not going to happen. Besides all that we live in a day and age where it seems to get a person´s number without actually asking them than to find a commonly known definition what a "real man" is.
I always blame the person who cheats, not the person they cheated with. Yes, it's shitty to be with someone who's already in a relationship and I would look down on such a person. BUT that other person owes you nothing, they're a stranger and why would they care about your happiness more than their own? No, it's your partner who owes you those things.
The person who is in the "committed" relationship is responsible for maintaining their aithfulness and fidelity and they are responsible for their unfaithful behavior. However, anyone who has a modicuk of respect for others should know and accept that it is inappropriate to maintain any relationship with a person who is supposedly committed to someone else.
I do and I would blame the man if the genders are reversed. If your relationship is bad enough that you start looking outside of it, you need to tell your SO about it. That way both of you can try to work your relationship issues out. Or dissolve the relationship because the issues can't be fixed. There is zero justification for cheating. Women who cheat are just as much in the wrong as the men that cheat. People need to quit using gender as a tool to create double standards.
If you’re in a relationship with someone and they cheat on you with some random person it’s who you’re in a relationship with that owes you something. Of course if they cheat on you with a friend or something then they both owe you something but the majority falls on the person you’re in the relationship with. I mean they’re supposed to love you in a special way
I would blame myself for having such poor judgment in a partner. I would also kind of view it as some guy just trying to get his junk wet but she's the one I placed my faith in & got betrayed as a result. There would be no second chances as far as I'm concerned.
True. It’s his choice to do all those things. But the one thing I will say is.. if the girlfriend isn’t providing the attention and everything needed for him to not want to go anywhere else.. you look stupid all on your own. Yes, the other woman isn’t to blame unless she knows he is in a relationship and continues to pursue. But he has that choice. And he should stay the course even tho his current girlfriend is shitty at being a girlfriend. Just call the relationship if that’s the case
Blaming her won't resolve it anyway, for instance I invested in Terra Luna coin ( a crypto asset ) FYI it's a fundamentally strong coin but It crashed to zero, people who were invested in it lost their money. People trusted it and it still cheated them. Blaming the coin won't get your money back and you just have to accept that you made a wrong bet. Similarly blaming her won't resolve anything she would never accept her fault at worse she may blame you and make you feel guilty about yourself. E. g Jhonny and Amber case so just accept it and move on. That's the best you can do.“Choose not to be harmed — and you won’t feel harmed. Don’t feel harmed — and you haven’t been.” - Marcus Aurelius
Well I have always said and thought this as well. I mean I date my girlfriend because she sexy and hot. So of course other guys are going to think she is sexy and hot to. So of course they are going to want to fuck her, but none of these guys promised me a thing... other than that I know they would fuck any sexy hot women they could get a hold of. So yeah, if they fuck my girlfriend then its because she let them... its all on her no not him.
Um, since when was TALKING to someone cheating? Does dating, for these people, mean ending all communication with half the human race? Are people not allowed ho give advice or seek knowledge from each other?
This kinda thinking makes me appreciate being single, I'll tell you that much.
It doesn't matter if a guy the one who cheated or if a girl the one who cheated cheating on your partner is wrong. Honestly if somebody cheats on their partner that immediately makes them a bad boyfriend or bad girlfriend.
The biggest share of the blame goes to the person who made the commitment and then broke it. They may have even lied to the person they cheated with and said they were single, so the other person could be completely innocent.
A Real man huh I used to Think all men were real Until You said Some aren’t real. But then I wonder if there not Real then How can they Work a Job and provide for there families? Doesn’t that defeat the purpose of being real
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