She mentioned these traits which are due to unresolved childhood trauma.
- Fear of abandonment (Can also be due to bad experiences in friend groups or relationships).
- Validation seeking (As a result of NOT being approved in family BUT IRONICALLY people say that you were too pampered and complimented by family so you wanna seek it from everywhere).
- Tolerating abusive relationships
- Attracting narcissistic partners (You can also be dumb and hopelessly kind to attract them and it doesn't have to do anything with childhood trauma).
- Poor self care (Or maybe you're simply lazy and don't give AF)
- Fixing others
- Codependency (Varies from person to person and their reasons. Some are just spineless parasites who were pampered but still want to suck benefits from others).
- Need to prove yourself
- People pleasing
- Being cautious when living alone.
Feel free to prove me wrong, right or express your POV.
I'm open to your opinions :)
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