Before marriage he was jealous and suspicious of me. Always wanted me to to out on free times. Freaked out if I didn't wanna go out even a single day. Checked my phone. Kept me on calls or video calls and if heard a voice would ask me who the guy is.
After marriage I saw his mom is super immature. she has bipolar. also she acts like a child. doesn't know what is appropriate to say. But when it comes to analyzing me she's always up and ready. she gets scolded by everyone a lot. My husband has anger issues. and with her he bursts out too much when she says something inappropriate. like shouts ar the top of his lungs. i asked him not to. it looks very bad to shout at your mom like it. but he says she doesn't listen if not shouted at. he looks like a psycho when he shouts.
He shouted at me a lot too. if something doesn't go his way or I say something wrong or something that he didn't like he'd shout and scream and make everyone listen. doesn't matter if at home or public. stil lchecks phone I need to inform my every movement even though he doesn't work rn and I do. im working all day and he calls me to check who's with me I'm broke before the 10th of the month spending for him and his family. and I gotta come back to hear"u don't love me I stay all day at office and u come home and ur not spending time with me but cleaning the room or doing something"
He has violent tendencies. his good parts disappeared totally when he lost job. he says he'll smash my face or break my head if I shout back at him. but I can't get angry because if I do he'll be hurt and say u know I can't control anger and don't mean it.
He's been diagnosed with bipolar. his doctor blamed his all behavior on his possessiveness and overbearing nature. he said I shouldn't have left his house and help him. he laughed when I said he is violent and I'm afraid.
So, with propper medication all his behavior will get better? He's begging and crying.
