I feel like I can't compete with her ex.

[Anonymous]

Well my ex and I have been broken up for about 3 months now. She left me and started talking to her first real relationship when she met him at 15. Now when I met her she was 20 and I was with her for about 4 yrs. All I know from this guy that she has said was a real emotional abuser. I understand it was her first and everything. But I just feel hurt that she couldn't find someone that could treat her better. I guess he may have changed. But I mean I know he doesn't go to school. He has a kid. As for me I am graduating with a degree in the fall. I have a management job and I've given her the best of me. We have no contact for the past 3 months and we ended the relationship badly. I haven't tried to call her neither has she but I'm just hurt. I don't know what this guy has on me but whatever it is I guess I didn't have. He was the bad boy but me on the other hand I'm the good guy. guess that rule with the bad boy mentality will always win right?

[Gregs]

All women are going to be attracted to strong men, there is no getting away from it. But women who end up in really abusive relationships usually have something wrong with them, you attract the kind of people on the way you act... So it's probably a good idea to stay away from them.

So far you have not shown men anything really bad about him, just because you make more money does not really make you better than him and if he has a kid, and he is supporting it in some way there is nothing wrong with that I think.

Is this girl the only good looking girl in the world? I bet the only reason you are hung up on her is because you do bad with women as a whole.

[jefferson]

not bad boy, just a man who does what he want, you probably just do what she wants, they don't even know why they throw away a good guy, they will keep you if you provide but won't love you for u. look at this girls comment. it has everything to do with u, it is all attraction.

[JV24_2009]

Well he has nothing on you! trust me! girls are just dumb these days and don't see what a good thing they have right in front of them! I think you should forget her! you deserve a lot more! you sound like a good sweet guy! Find uself a chick whos worth it and appreciates you for u! =]]