First off, the fact you keep going through her phone shows you have trust issues with her. Which says a lot about your relationship: it's lacking communication and trust between you two. And no, I'm not putting all the blame on you either; it's just as much her fault too for sneaking around and not telling you what's bothering her!
Rather than ask her what's wrong or try to figure out the issue, your immediate response is to go through her phone: NO. That's not how you fix a relationship! Honestly, why do you want to stay with someone you don't trust?
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First off you shouldn't be going through her phone... you don't need to do that to feel something is off between you two. Doesn't sound like communication is either of your guys strong suits especially hers since she is telling others how she feels instead of you.
Look she was flirting with another guy... she isn't keen on moving in... I would take this as a sign as she isn't ready for any of this. Maybe take a step back here and re-evaluate your relationship.
Too many RED FLAGS for the both of ya.
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You have problems with both respect and trust. Why do you want to live together?
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Trouble ahead. She's trouble already. Bail out now.
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