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Should I tell my boyfriend his attitude towards money pisses me off? (Page 3)
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Go make that money so you don't have to borrow it then wtfBesides, if something so tiny as 20-50$ is nothing for you. Why don't you just give it back if it's such a no big of a deal? You can see a splinter in his eyes but not a log in yours. Wake the fuck up
Personally I'd totally just give a friend or a girlfriend $20.
But that's exactly what it is "a gift" they didn't ask for it they didn't expect it. Maybe they asked to borrow money fully expecting to pay it back but I chose to give it as a gift.
Don't ask to borrow anything if you don't plan on giving it back. If he wants to give you something that's his choice. If you want free shit then maybe you should ask for free shit and stop asking for loans.
What do you do with your free time/what else, or whom else, do you want (to have or to finance, probably for your 'additional sexual needs')?
If he doesn't keep you on a tight string chances are you'd keep saving for a stripper/a male prostitute. Is it not the case? Do you expect him to finance your infidelity, or to help you get more lovers? Female greed for men knows no limits - and women generally defend that as their god given right, disgusting as it is to be that way.
Yes, a lot of modern women are disloyal. The guy would be a fool to give her cash unless she's proven her loyalty... which isn't something that happens quickly.
@hahahmm plus women who make less cheat out of sheer envy
If he lets it slide once, twice and thrice, it will become a habit. A bad habit. One of those that makes a man grab his stuff and look elsewhere for a relationship. He's doing well in making you pay back. He's saving your couple by doing it.
Um, the key word here is BORROW.
You ask someone to borrow something because you're going to return it, so his attitude is 100% spot on.
You sound like a gold digger, tbh.
How much more he makes than you is irrelevant, again you said BORROW, which means giving it back.
I can't even really be pissed at him because I'm the same way.
Also your at fault here because you want to "barrow" money well barrowing money meaning paying it back and you ain't wanting to pay it back.
Sounds like you're slowly but surely becoming a fucking gold digger. Pay for your shit and quit treating him like a ATM. He needs and deserves someone who isn't going to treat him like that.
Borrowing means you pay it back. If you want him to give you money then say can you give me money. He’s not in the wrong here tho it’s very valid to expect to be paid back
It's his money. He can manage it how he wants. You act like you want him to just willingly give away money to you because you're dating. You need to get a grip on things and realize you aren't entitled to his cash.
To be honest i think you should have a polite talk with him about it i think small amounts isn't a big deal especially since you guys are dating however if you are asking him all the time then it may be annoying but just have a talk with him and explain how you feel but dont make it sound like you are greedy
Never let a woman determine how much your hard work is worth. Way simpler to go by an objective measure like what you can buy with it at the store. So when she says her 'love' for you is worth the same as all the money in your bank account, you don't have to agree. Otherwise you'll be up the creek, my friend. Not just with money but in every area of your life that she decides to make herself the Judge of.
If he wants to have that attitude then either leave him or you start paying for everything that is just for you. Don't let him pay anything and if he asks why then tell him you don't want him owing him anything. See if that doesn't open his eyes.
Yeah, no, you just want his money. You asked to borrow money, not for a gift. You are a minor case of a gold digger.
If you want more money, then unleash your inner gold digger spirit and go twerk half naked for gangster rappers music videos.
borrowing here and there is exactly what it means, borrowing. Which means pay it back.. If it pisses you off so much why don't make more money so you don't have to ask.
Just start asking for him to "give" you the small amounts then, if that's what you're wanting. If you ask to "borrow" it, most people would expect it to be paid back. Just simple miscommunication.
Look, I give the mother of my kid's money, and there are days I let her keep it, and there are days she pays me back. She does the same too. It's just only fair.
Lmao girl! If you borrow money, you pay it back! There’s no immunity
"Borrowing" suggests it will be paid back. Honour your debts, no matter how small.
Where are all my so called traditional men now? You all hate financially independent modern women so much but now you complain and hate the attitude of the asker? You all want traditional women but now you hate when women expect her man to pay aka provide her aka be traditional? If you dont want to provide, dont expect traditional women idiot.
Since you said you borrow, then you should pay back of course. Next time make it clear that you just want him pay for your stuff. If you are not traditional then you are not entitled to his money by the way
I prefer modern women and always will. In terms of equality in the house, we can take turns or help each other out with cooking and chores. During dates, you should be able to pay your own bill. Don't expect your partner to pay it for you. Women have their equal pay and right to earn as much money as men.
The reason men like traditional women is more in the sense of embracing their femininity.
You also prove my point. So these so called traditional men want to have their cake and eat it too. A traditional woman is usually a housewife. How tf should she pay her own stuff, when she ain't financially independent? So what i get is that these idiots want a woman do all household chores like a traditional woman but also work outside to earn money. So these people want both. By the way i usually prefere to pay my own dates but i am done getting so much hate for being a modern woman
I'm not proving your point at all. Expecting my partner to give to the relationship as much as me is the right thing to believe.
Also did you even read what I said? I said I would double team chores in the house with my partner. We would take turns or help each other out. The only time I would expect to pay for most or all of the things is if she did all the house chores and cooking in the house, which most likely I would not want because I'm not rich enough to provide for both of us.
The only way I want the girl to be traditional is in femininity. Act like a girl. Men are attracted to feminine traits as much as girls are attracted to masculine traits.
In what way do I want my cake and to eat it too?
A relationship should be considered a team. Not a free ride/someone carrying you the whole time.
I am NOT talking about you. I mean hypocritical men. I said so called traditional men. If you do half of household chores aka cook/clean, you ain't even traditional. I dont why you are personally attacked. What you expect from a relationship is fair and realistic. I have no problem with your dating preferences
"A relationship should be considered a team. Not a free ride/someone carrying you the whole time." I agree. I think you dont get my point
Tf read wtf i wrote.
You said "You also prove my point." Therefore you are talking about me. I responded explaining how you didn't prove a thing. I'm done debating with someone that doesn't even understand what she's saying herself.
Ok fuck off then
Traditionally, you don't hand women cash unless you're married or they're a prostitute.
What if they stay at the same place and so she do all the household chores and so on? It is the same as shit as being married just without marriage contract.
If she's living with him and taking care of his place and cooking, I'd agree him giving her some spending money might not be inappropriate, but tbh, this would cause them to be legally married after some time in a lot of places.
For some people staying at the same place and having kids is already marriage. I personally would feel bad when a guy pays for me. I also dont agree with the asker anyway
Your argument is retarded as f*ck cause they're not even married. And even if they were, she said "borrow," not keep. I'm not even a traditional man, for what it's worth.
Keep projecting, honey.
Look you fucktard. You dont a shit about them idiot. I am done with repeating myself. Go read my other posts.
What if they stay at the same place and so she do all the household chores and so on? It is the same as shit as being married just without marriage contract. - here for you
Since you said you borrow, then you should pay back of course. Next time make it clear that you just want him pay for your stuff. If you are not traditional then you are not entitled to his money by the way- here again copy and paste. Since you are too retarded to read my posts. If you spam me, will delete you.
For other people who want to reply, just fucking read my post, before writing your rant.
Dont say a shit about me without knowing me fucktard. Look you fag. I am anon anyway. I dont need to hide myself. My nickname ain't my identity fucktard. I am making every opinion of me "anon" since there are mental ill people like you who search my nickname and give me dislike for every opinion, piece of shit. It is actually more funny how retarded you are and so triggered by me to the point that write such a shit about me. Just stfu let me alone bastard, i am done with fucktards like you who imply shit. So again i make every opinion of me anon for my own security and i am just done with harrassment, you cunt.
Is it so difficult for people like you to just stfu and let people have their own opnion without spamming them?
@HawkPerception Is there anyone who dislike every opinion of you for no reason? ↗
Ok sorry i was kinda rude. I see no point in discussing with you about asker's questions since we agree eachother and i misunderstand you a little. Whatever i really dont want to continue the conversation
But i am not sorry for insulting you due your last inappropriate post about me. Maybe i should not insult you so much but your last post was really disrespectful and so i was disrespectful back. I usually dont use the anon option but since someone systematically dislike me and harrass me. I try to make every opinion of mine anon.
Because he worked hard for his money. He doesn't owe you anything, just pay him back or just don't ask at all. You got some nerve lmao
"I ask to borrow $20 or $50 here or there, he ALWAYS makes me pay it back"
Do you understand what the word borrow means you entitled turd goblin?