Why have you broken up with your previous partner?

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friendzoned4life · Accepted Answer

Still hurts like hell but:

Thanks to my passed I have a social anxiety and anger management disorder.

Thanks to almost 20 years of bullying.

Getting rejected for Jobs because they tought I had no Personality.

And the obvious one not only being rejected by Girls a lot but also being put as an example on how bad some girl didn't wanna date someone else.

My previous partner knew about me having these issues, we been dating for about 4 months then. And if you are a couple friends can join a night out by then. So I allowed her to invite a friend for the movie we were going to watch in a cinema. She ignored me the whole night. Knowing I had social issues and was seeking professional help. But mental health care has a long wait here I asked for it before meeting her. Well that night I felt worthless and felt like she dumped me so I told her that. And as i wanted to die that night I actually called a bully of mine to prevent me from stepping on the train tracks. Not knowing what I was doing and went home.

A month later I finally got the help. Got diagnosed with, those to disorders that were caused by my childhood and autism according to the therapist. Been single ever since

JackSmy · Accepted Answer

Mostly, we were just heading in different directions, in our lives! Our paths crossed, for a short time, and we shared amazing things, but we both knew we were not meant to be together, so we parted as friends, with the best wishes for each other.
That happens a lot! People come into your life, for just a short time, and you teach one another something, but then you part! as it is meant to be!
Some try to hold on, and FORCE that union, and that is where the problems come!!
I have had the JOY of sharing some wonderful times, with some AMAZING women, but we were NEVER destined to be together for more than a short time.
I am still waiting, wondering, if there is a one, for a long term. . .

Raider · Accepted Answer

Well... He wasn't what I wanted.
He moved away, and he was my first boyfriend and I liked him, so I stayed in this relationship for almost a year.
Then one day, I saw pictures of him partying and one girl was in every picture hugging him and dancing with him.

I thought, if it was the right relationship... he would have wanted me, and nobody else. I did the right thing and ignored his calls and text messages until he stopped.
I cried for weeks...

natured · Accepted Answer

My ex tried to change me, he wanted to transform me into something that I AM NOT, into something that he would love. And then the abuse started and so on. So i left, i stayed single for many years not letting anyone near me, until fate brought me and my current partner together and he wouldn't change a single hair of mine and loves me unconditionally...
SO Ye story of my life lol

Anonymous · Answer

She got drunk, accused me of being unfaithful, tried to pull my phone out of my hand so she could look for the proof (there was no proof, as I have never been unfaithful.) She lost her grip on my phone, fell backwards and hit her head on the door jamb, then called the police and reported my for domestic violence. I was arrested and I had to subpoena body cam videos to finally prove my innocence. Ultimately, the charge was dropped but, in the meanwhile, she had stolen the entire contents of my home. When I called to report the theft, the police informed me that they don't get involved in domestic situations!

Despite all of that, I don't hate her, but I also wouldn't bother to cross the street to piss on her if she was on fire.

Starrisunset · Answer

My last boyfriend cheated on me within just a few weeks of us dating. Idiot lol glad I found out what type of person he was right away. So glad I didn't end up with him tho. My current boyfriend is awesome. I'd have majorly missed out if I would've ended up with the other one

sanyaranjan · Answer

I broke up with my previous patner because he was too controling, he tries to control everything of mine, he also used to check my phone and do all kind of things which would offend any person. As he would apologize to me after every mistake I also use to forget him. But once he crossed every line, he slapped me and that was the moment when I released that I don't need this stupid clown anymore in my life.
And before this person I dated two more person, but in both the cases we broke up because the relationship was not going any further.

exitseven · Answer

We had a long relationship, most of it was long distance. This was before the internet and Skype. It was difficult and she really didn't put very much effort into maintaining the relationship. Finally I decided I deserved better and late one Saturday night I called her on the phone and broke up with her. She just didn't get it.

Tiptoetamm · Answer

I recently left my man because he is emotionally and physically abusive. I stayed for 11 years it came and went but it's back now and I'm so so done I do just fine on my own

Xoxocutekitty · Answer

He wasn't over his ex and he genuinely thought he was being the bigger person by letting me know he was secretly calling her throughout our relationship to tell her how much he missed her (mind you she blocked him 6 months before I even existed).

red_knight · Answer

She took me for a fool, pushed away my family, my friends, collapsed my business, she fucking broke me into tiny little pieces. Cheated on my ass n then ran away.

But coz she acted like a helpless little girl everyone rallied to her side.

It's okay.. I dont really care though. Payback and karma n all that will take its place eventually

Kha0tiic_xo · Answer

He was extremely obsessive and very abusive, he broke my arm, cheek bone and made my face black and blue! So I up and moved away 7 hours away without a word!

FilmGuy93 · Answer

She was just an extremely selfish person who believed she was doing me some kind of favor by being around her. Apparently I was "abusing her kindness and trying to take advantage of her mental health."

Account · Answer

He was invading my personal time and space, he was being toxic and he demanded from me to be patient with him.

Slartybartfast · Answer

I've had four partners In order, they ended ; Cheated on me,  friends with benefits,  cheated on me,  divorce.(she cheated? Maybe don't know)

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

The relationship was going nowhere and neither of us cared that much, so it was the logical thing to do.

tallcuck · Answer

Because she confessed being incapable of empathy and was goal oriented. Those are the two basic diagnostical criteria for psychopathy. She was a user. I don't want such a women to have my kids...

RougeKage · Answer

Bold of you to assume I did the breaking up lol I was broken up with 🥺I just wasn't the person she needed

Alyssa11 · Answer

Because he cheated and I can’t be with someone who’s betrayed me/lied to my face.

MizPeaches · Answer

He started getting a really weird fetish that made me uncomfortable.

Starwitch23 · Answer

He cheated on me with someone else and now he is with her.

Yuki_Izumi18 · Answer

He kissed my best friend before we even started dating even tho he liked me and I waited for him for months till he was ready to be in a relationship. We dated cz I still loved him but I just couldn't forget that so I broke it off.

jerdanro · Answer

I was deeply in love and all she wanted was a friends with benefits. She left me and it probably saved my life.

Aquariusmystery · Answer

He called every other girl a slag and was really sexist

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Among other reasons, he reminded me of a whiny old lady and I just couldn't stand him anymore.

MrJMM · Answer

Because my ex went behind my back and it was in a polyamorous relationship with 2 other people now she has 2 kids. That was 3 years ago.

AnthonyJ01 · Answer

She cheated on me with the same POS that she had cheated on everyone with. I found out a lot during the divorce.

bushwookie · Answer

Laziness, lack of self drive, and not looking for a job are ugly traits for someone to possess

iseekpinetrees · Answer

He fucked his ex so I fucked mine.

jirwin7979 · Answer

she cheated on me and almost killed me from broken heart syndrom

scooogy · Answer

I hate women who mess up their lives and then deny just any help.

msc545 · Answer

She has Borderline Personality Disorder and is one of the most dangerous people I have ever met.

Nachowedgie · Answer

I didn't, they cheated on me for at least half the relationship and then ghosted me, never found out why or even got a goodbye

Anonymous · Answer

I never dated before but I love how everyone here is a victim. Of all the comments, no one just likes to admit it maybe their fault.

Ninani · Answer

He destroyed me and I was lucky to get away.

Anonymous · Answer

We were too different... she saw a future but I did not

FunkyMonkee · Answer

The little mini-bitch cheated on me!!

Overmind · Answer

Lack of communication.

admles · Answer

Because she was a cheating slut.

Anonymous · Answer

Incompatibility issues

taboomaster · Answer

One died. Others moved away.

RickVienna · Answer

She broke up with me because of my small dick 🙈

Anonymous · Answer

We started having arguments

Agape93 · Answer

He was a monster.

TwoowT · Answer

He was a player

Alejandro3000 · Answer

She was too far away

Princess__Serene · Answer

He cheated on me

EaterPeter · Answer

Wasn't me.

ItsMeItsMe1989 · Answer

They were using me

JesseJayNeak · Answer

Due to distance

xiphantom · Answer

different religion

Anonymous · Answer

Sex got boring.

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