I am 24 but I’ve never had a boyfriend before. Is that a problem, am ı problem person 🥺?

[Anonymous]

My dad left us when ı was 6. I am scared live that again 🥺

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I'm sorry about what happened to you, I know as a Teenager my dad was off and on in my life cause he was an alcoholic, We would come home from school and he would be sick from drinking almost all day long yes life sucked but not all guys are like your dad many blessings your way (( Hugs ))

[Asker]

Me too, sad for u:(( Of course all guys aren't like mu dad. But when ı talk somebody, ı dont feel be safe:/

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@Asker I'm sorry best wishes

[Lynx122]

You should go to therapy and deal with your fears so you can live your life more freely. It's not a problem for anyone else it's just a problem for you and you can decide if you want to address it or not.

[Nikola321]

I understand ur fear :/
When u start crushing on someone, give him a chance, thankfully, not every man is like ur dad. There are some that would treat u like a queen :D

[Asker]

I have a lot of men date with me. But ı can't give chance. I have a lot of criterion for men. Maybe really ı dont want to date somebody. I think it is. It is mind depth:((

[Nikola321]

I think it's that u don't wanna trust a man that much. You are scared that if u get too bonded, u will get hurt :c It's a similar situation w me. We just don't wanna move out of our comfort zones :D
When the time comes and u find a nice man, u'll need to force yourself out of that comfort zone and make urself trust him :D

[Brianbrake]

Yes you are traumatized , get some kind of therapy before you start dating otherwise your relationships won't work

[Asker]

Absolutely you are right, ı went first date with a lot of man. But all of didn't work.

[JustinTimberlegs]

I didn't have a girlfriend till I was 26, you'll be ok. Maybe get to know some guys as friends first and build a solid relationship

[Asker]

I have a lot of guys as friends but my rekationships dont work.

[Yourfriend2021]

No you're not a problem person, just be careful who you date and get to know them first.

[Asker]

What do u get to know somebody?

[Yourfriend2021]

I would get to know anyone that is friendly and caring and I'm a good judge of people. You get friendship or more.

[Waldoe]

yes, you need to LIVE your life, make something good and loving, something that you didn't have growing up, you deserve it

[Adam_West]

how pretty...
you need someone who can make you feel like a real woman

[Starwitch23]

No it's not a problem but start dating now.

[Asker]

When ı talk somebody, ı dont feel be safe and trustly:/

[SamFromFL]

Yes that’s a problem