That is totally up to you man there is nothing wrong with it if that is what you asking.
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of course her name is stella lmao...
you were dating her before you found out she was pregnant by someone else. she needs to sort her life out, and having a relationship with someone else will only complicate things. i don't think you two will be together long, nothing personal but just how it'll turn out because she has to think about her child's life first.
I don't think I could either. HOWEVER - I will tell you for certain, that any child you spend time with, in any way participating in their upbringing, becomes indelibly ingrained into your person. You'll come to love the child regardless of where the sperm cam from. So in my opinion, the bigger questions is, do you or did you want children yourself? If so, go for it. If not, NEXT.
And the fact that her relationship with the baby-daddy failed is a huge red flag, in and of itself.
No I would not date a pregnant woman. And for those out there wondering if there are women who do this, the answer is yes. I remember on OkCupid, two women were in my recommendations. Bot of whom, while not pregnant, had a 6 month old and 3 month old. When I see women doing this, it sends red flags up screaming, "I'm not a good judge of character." With that said, if a pregnant woman is dating, she better have a really good explanation why she isn't w/ baby daddy.
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Fuck no, why would you want some other guy's used up leftovers? If she is pregnant or has kids its an instant know, have some fucking self respect man.
Hard as shit to decide. Because I don't car what any women says that baby dady can slide in at anytime for most women. All it takes is for you fuck up and then the ex creeps right back in the picture. Or she could really not like the bd and wants to have another child with you.
ye could date her and its on my bucket list to fuck a pregnant girl more kinky if its not mine :D but not sure how long relationship would last as lot of baggage going on.
still friends with benefits with her and help her through the horny pregg period would be a service i could provide :D
Hell no. I am not caring for another man's good time. And she might say you will not be responsible, but if you hang out you will become responsible at somepoint. The family courts will agree and put you on child support.
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Would you date single dads? It is the same. I dont understand why people hate single mums so much but dont show the same hatred towards single dads. People who say you are simp , dont even the meaning of it. By this logic majority of women are cucks aka simps since have no problem with dating single dads aka "leftovers" aka non virgin men. She also can abort it. She should do it. This kid will have no future
Its not the same. A single dad has the kid already. A pregnant woman is "pregnant " for Christ sakes. Preg-nant. Like swollen stomach. I can only imagine having to handle a pregnant woman if the baby is mine. Not only are they so vulnerable, they also look that way. Like a raw egg, anything can hurt that woman. She needs to be with her mom or family member or sign up for prenatals or something , if the owner of the baby is toxic. The new guy is obviously repelling her and I don't blame him. "You need to know how men avoid pregnant women " literally
None of them have dated since their ex left. (None received any support)
Single dads are treated like scum. I got the police called on my while watching my friends children at the park. Men are viewed with suspicion, single men especially.
Try being a man with an abusive spouse (most child abusers are female) what do you do? If you call cps they will assume it's you and automatically side with the abusive mother. You may wind up in jail.
You divorce and she gets the kids while you lose the home you paid for. The kids suffer and you suffer. If, you by some MIRACLE get custody, there is zero help for single dads.
In fact if your a homeless dad, most shelters won't take you despite the clear discrimination.
The absolutely absurd statement that single dads are treated better than single moms is reduculous.
I did not say singke dads are treated better. What you assule is ridiculous. I know that us divorce/custody laws discriminate men. What i mean is the hate towards single mums on gag, internet and in real life. You dont have to date single mums but i am done with this hate towards single mums. Read the comments
I actually looked into a surrogate ($100,000+ medical costs) adopting ( single dads only get offered teenagers with serious issues)
Several of my friends are single dads, none of them that I know of even tried dating again.
In fact I had five children at my house when my friend got divorced. He not only got no help, at one point he was arrested at work fir, get this, non payment of child support.
Yes, he got arrested , publicly at his work. Spent the weekend in jail , I had to pick up his kids at school, talk about getting the third degree!!!
Fortunately he was released after three days , once he said the $27 he was behind.
Yeah, he went to jail for $17 and had the kids the entire time.
The 9 year old wouldn't know his mom if she walked through the front door.
I am sorry for it but i never deny the sexist antiman laws in us. So i dont get your point. I think you misunderstand me. I am sorry for what happen to you and your friends and i wish the best for you. I hope it gets better
You got that backwards if she aborts the kid has no future because itās been killed.
If she delivers and raises it, or even if she puts it up for adopting it has a future.
Presuming it has no future because she isnāt still dating the father is stupid beyond absurdity. Plenty of men take care of their kids despite breaking up.
At least wait till you actually know that the ex intends to do before you slit the kids throat. š¤¦āāļø
No idiot. This kid may be bullied for being a "bastard". People should have kids after marriage and kids need their 24/7. How will a single dad and mum emotionally take of the kid 24/7 without living together. maybe i am wrong but Look at the comments. Single mums get trashtalked. Imagine your single mum get trash talked like this. No thank you. What ex would want her girlfriend to give birth? What you presume is stupid. I may exagerate it but come one. Many kids ain't adopted She also would do a favor for her ex. And abortion is not murder. But the topic ain't about abortion.
She also would destroy her life. The commentsection prove my point. Being a single mum is one worst thing you can do. Nobody woukd want you. People are social creatures and need partners but since you are a single mum, you will be seen as leftovers and noone will want you. If someone want you, he will be seen as a simp. Just no.
@YOLOIFIC i read your other posts. I thought you would trashtalk her. You are really a good person. I thought you are like the other people in the commentsection
I was kinda angry. So i am sorry It is just scary to me how many people hate single mums in the commentsection. I could not stand when people hate my mum if she was a single mum. It is too much. I love my parents. So it would made me sad if i see such people.
Bastard? Do you live in the Middle Ages or 2021. Children born out of wedlock have been called bastards in decades if not centuries.
As far a illegitimate children thatās an archaic relic that has no place in modern society. Especially since unmarried cohabitation is becoming the norm socially.
Which has been great for marriage, less marriages and people are getting married much older than previous generations but these marriages are lasting unlike their parents who rushed to the later to make their parents religious beliefs happy not their children or spouses.
I also read many replies under this question and i realize many americans dislike single mums. At least single mums ain't disliked but nobody would marry them. This is why i am so sorry for them
Thatās correct, been to Iraq, Quran, Kuwait but donāt worry yāall will catch up to reality soon enough.
Iraqis were tired of the absurd religious BS when Saddam was overthrown. Granted donāt know if ISIL impacted that or how the current protests have effected Iraqis.
You are delusional if you dont see the people's reaction on this question. Too many people think he is a cuck while she is a leftover. Go live in your bubble. I am done with a weirdo like you
Itās because women carry the kid in their womb so it ruins the womanās body. Some men donāt even know they have kids out there. Also the kids usually live with the woman so if he dates her heāll probably be expected to pay for and take responsibility for next manās kid. I personally wouldnāt want any guy I care for to have that life. If it were my brother or son or father I would say no way. They should be with a girl who will give birth to their kid and not next manās kid.
It wouldn't bother me, i'd have to be very clear what my long term intemtions were (if it's just a fling or i intended on it being long term). If it were long term she'd have to accept my kids so would be hypocritical to mind about hers.
Yeah if she is pregnant with MY kid. I donāt plan to be safety net and daddy because she foolishly spread her legs for some random fuckboy (most likely without a condom).
Rare exception would be if she was recently widowed.
Only if it was with my child. Seriously, there is zero advantage to 'step dad' status. And wouldn't it bother you to be having sex with somebody, knowing the child in their belly was put there by somebody else, doing the same thing you are doing?
Pregnant pussy is awesome. You can't get pregnant twice. Plus if she wants to shirk the responsibility of rearing a child with someone she doesn't want to, just distend the uterus with deep diving/ultra instinct.
No I voted yes because well I don't have to worry about birth control no more that's one less administrative problem other than that the child is your bastard and your problem
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A lot of simping 😚 and simp bashing 🤕🪓 going on here.
Most can probably agree that it's not a favorable and can evem be a pretty difficult thing to take on.
She could also view the guy as a support to use, on purpose or not. Etc etc
For me it's a no.
That is totally up to you man there is nothing wrong with it if that is what you asking.
of course her name is stella lmao...
you were dating her before you found out she was pregnant by someone else. she needs to sort her life out, and having a relationship with someone else will only complicate things. i don't think you two will be together long, nothing personal but just how it'll turn out because she has to think about her child's life first.
I don't think I could either.
HOWEVER - I will tell you for certain, that any child you spend time with, in any way participating in their upbringing, becomes indelibly ingrained into your person. You'll come to love the child regardless of where the sperm cam from. So in my opinion, the bigger questions is, do you or did you want children yourself? If so, go for it. If not, NEXT.
And the fact that her relationship with the baby-daddy failed is a huge red flag, in and of itself.
No I would not date a pregnant woman. And for those out there wondering if there are women who do this, the answer is yes. I remember on OkCupid, two women were in my recommendations. Bot of whom, while not pregnant, had a 6 month old and 3 month old. When I see women doing this, it sends red flags up screaming, "I'm not a good judge of character." With that said, if a pregnant woman is dating, she better have a really good explanation why she isn't w/ baby daddy.
Fuck no, why would you want some other guy's used up leftovers?
If she is pregnant or has kids its an instant know, have some fucking self respect man.
Hard as shit to decide. Because I don't car what any women says that baby dady can slide in at anytime for most women. All it takes is for you fuck up and then the ex creeps right back in the picture. Or she could really not like the bd and wants to have another child with you.
ye could date her and its on my bucket list to fuck a pregnant girl more kinky if its not mine :D but not sure how long relationship would last as lot of baggage going on.
still friends with benefits with her and help her through the horny pregg period would be a service i could provide :D
Hell no. I am not caring for another man's good time. And she might say you will not be responsible, but if you hang out you will become responsible at somepoint. The family courts will agree and put you on child support.
Would you date single dads? It is the same. I dont understand why people hate single mums so much but dont show the same hatred towards single dads. People who say you are simp , dont even the meaning of it. By this logic majority of women are cucks aka simps since have no problem with dating single dads aka "leftovers" aka non virgin men. She also can abort it. She should do it. This kid will have no future
Its not the same. A single dad has the kid already. A pregnant woman is "pregnant " for Christ sakes. Preg-nant. Like swollen stomach. I can only imagine having to handle a pregnant woman if the baby is mine. Not only are they so vulnerable, they also look that way. Like a raw egg, anything can hurt that woman. She needs to be with her mom or family member or sign up for prenatals or something , if the owner of the baby is toxic. The new guy is obviously repelling her and I don't blame him. "You need to know how men avoid pregnant women " literally
What if she get cheated on?
And need emotional support
Ok when she is toxic, then you are right but what abou men whose exs are pregnant
Several of my friends are single dads.
None of them have dated since their ex left. (None received any support)
Single dads are treated like scum. I got the police called on my while watching my friends children at the park. Men are viewed with suspicion, single men especially.
Try being a man with an abusive spouse (most child abusers are female) what do you do? If you call cps they will assume it's you and automatically side with the abusive mother. You may wind up in jail.
You divorce and she gets the kids while you lose the home you paid for. The kids suffer and you suffer. If, you by some MIRACLE get custody, there is zero help for single dads.
In fact if your a homeless dad, most shelters won't take you despite the clear discrimination.
The absolutely absurd statement that single dads are treated better than single moms is reduculous.
I have many male teachers that were single dad that sid not have the problems you mentioned. I am sorry for what happened to you
And your friends
I did not say singke dads are treated better. What you assule is ridiculous. I know that us divorce/custody laws discriminate men. What i mean is the hate towards single mums on gag, internet and in real life. You dont have to date single mums but i am done with this hate towards single mums. Read the comments
Whenever there is question about single mums, so many male gager trashtalk them
Men who date single mums get called simps and single mums are called leftovers in the comments
I actually looked into a surrogate ($100,000+ medical costs) adopting ( single dads only get offered teenagers with serious issues)
Several of my friends are single dads, none of them that I know of even tried dating again.
In fact I had five children at my house when my friend got divorced. He not only got no help, at one point he was arrested at work fir, get this, non payment of child support.
Yes, he got arrested , publicly at his work. Spent the weekend in jail , I had to pick up his kids at school, talk about getting the third degree!!!
Fortunately he was released after three days , once he said the $27 he was behind.
Yeah, he went to jail for $17 and had the kids the entire time.
The 9 year old wouldn't know his mom if she walked through the front door.
Treated like scum.
I am sorry for it but i never deny the sexist antiman laws in us. So i dont get your point. I think you misunderstand me. I am sorry for what happen to you and your friends and i wish the best for you. I hope it gets better
You got that backwards if she aborts the kid has no future because itās been killed.
If she delivers and raises it, or even if she puts it up for adopting it has a future.
Presuming it has no future because she isnāt still dating the father is stupid beyond absurdity. Plenty of men take care of their kids despite breaking up.
At least wait till you actually know that the ex intends to do before you slit the kids throat. š¤¦āāļø
No idiot. This kid may be bullied for being a "bastard". People should have kids after marriage and kids need their 24/7. How will a single dad and mum emotionally take of the kid 24/7 without living together. maybe i am wrong but Look at the comments. Single mums get trashtalked. Imagine your single mum get trash talked like this. No thank you. What ex would want her girlfriend to give birth? What you presume is stupid. I may exagerate it but come one. Many kids ain't adopted
She also would do a favor for her ex. And abortion is not murder. But the topic ain't about abortion.
She also would destroy her life. The commentsection prove my point. Being a single mum is one worst thing you can do. Nobody woukd want you. People are social creatures and need partners but since you are a single mum, you will be seen as leftovers and noone will want you. If someone want you, he will be seen as a simp. Just no.
@YOLOIFIC you seem like a good man.
@YOLOIFIC i read your other posts. I thought you would trashtalk her. You are really a good person. I thought you are like the other people in the commentsection
I was kinda angry. So i am sorry It is just scary to me how many people hate single mums in the commentsection. I could not stand when people hate my mum if she was a single mum. It is too much. I love my parents. So it would made me sad if i see such people.
As before youāre wrong because you donāt have a clue at all.
Stay salty. š¤£
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@hi_it_is_me123
Bastard? Do you live in the Middle Ages or 2021. Children born out of wedlock have been called bastards in decades if not centuries.
As far a illegitimate children thatās an archaic relic that has no place in modern society. Especially since unmarried cohabitation is becoming the norm socially.
Which has been great for marriage, less marriages and people are getting married much older than previous generations but these marriages are lasting unlike their parents who rushed to the later to make their parents religious beliefs happy not their children or spouses.
I am from middleeastern. It would be a scandal to have kids before marriage
@hi_it_is_me123
Like all you want, just donāt touch or the misses will go all loca gringa en la cabaza.
I also read many replies under this question and i realize many americans dislike single mums. At least single mums ain't disliked but nobody would marry them. This is why i am so sorry for them
Thatās correct, been to Iraq, Quran, Kuwait but donāt worry yāall will catch up to reality soon enough.
Iraqis were tired of the absurd religious BS when Saddam was overthrown. Granted donāt know if ISIL impacted that or how the current protests have effected Iraqis.
You are delusional if you dont see the people's reaction on this question. Too many people think he is a cuck while she is a leftover. Go live in your bubble. I am done with a weirdo like you
I am turkish. Having kids before marriage is a scandal for many many muslims
Can we just agree to disagree. I am done
Itās because women carry the kid in their womb so it ruins the womanās body. Some men donāt even know they have kids out there. Also the kids usually live with the woman so if he dates her heāll probably be expected to pay for and take responsibility for next manās kid. I personally wouldnāt want any guy I care for to have that life. If it were my brother or son or father I would say no way. They should be with a girl who will give birth to their kid and not next manās kid.
Why does it matter whether it destroys the woman's body. Your other points make sense. Would you be ok if her ex pays for the kid aka take care of it?
Stayed with my wife through 3 pregnancies. I aināt dead yet.
Granted this isnāt your child, but youāre not dating the child youāre dating the mother.
This reminds me of the phrase: "Alpha fucks and beta bucks".
My answer is NEVER. Not my seed, not my problem.
It wouldn't bother me, i'd have to be very clear what my long term intemtions were (if it's just a fling or i intended on it being long term). If it were long term she'd have to accept my kids so would be hypocritical to mind about hers.
Yeah if she is pregnant with MY kid. I donāt plan to be safety net and daddy because she foolishly spread her legs for some random fuckboy (most likely without a condom).
Rare exception would be if she was recently widowed.
Only if it was with my child. Seriously, there is zero advantage to 'step dad' status. And wouldn't it bother you to be having sex with somebody, knowing the child in their belly was put there by somebody else, doing the same thing you are doing?
Yes, but only if I knew something was their. I don't want to get involved if there is going to be a lot drama between the parents.
Third pic makes me sad
I could see why, but that is a good indication she is single and has an older kid of she is at the play ground pregnant.
I'll don't have to worry about birth control the next mine 9 months so hit that pussy hard and so is pink and raw
Yes, I would date a woman, who is pregnant with another guys baby
and I would be fine with him being part of the babies life
Beta simps have voted yes
How do you know me? š„ŗ , i am beta simp , lol
@curiousbeing6169 lol
Yes i like being submissive to women that whole idea excites me till my last cells , are you into that miss?
@curiousbeing6169 good luck being submissive to single mothers smh š¤¦āāļø
Why single mother can you further explain this , miss
Pregnant pussy is awesome. You can't get pregnant twice. Plus if she wants to shirk the responsibility of rearing a child with someone she doesn't want to, just distend the uterus with deep diving/ultra instinct.
No I voted yes because well I don't have to worry about birth control no more that's one less administrative problem other than that the child is your bastard and your problem
YES but i would first tell her to get an abortion because im not taking care of any kid.