We have limited his going to bars to once a month since the restrictions lifted. But he wants to go out and party twice next week because it's his birthday. I am getting my second shot at the end of next week and have asked him to please wait for a couple of weeks until my second shot kicks in but he is angry because it's his birthday and told me he has already had to turn down his friends a couple of times because of me and it's embarrassing. I could have more empathy if he was 21 but he is almost 40.
I feel like he is being selfish because he is double vaccinated. He says I worry too much and gets really annoyed, saying he still wears a mask for me, even in places where he doesn't have to, but Delta is no joke, especially for those with pre-existing conditions.
Am I being unreasonable?