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Boyfriend got the COVID vaccine without even talking to me about it first, I am SO MAD, should I break up? (Page 2)
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I'd want someone who'd at least hear me out first before just making a decision. When you talk with him don't make the topic about the shot but about how he didn't take the time to really study and analyze what you say and what you've read.
I did this with my husband and raw milk. I was convinced it was bad. He didn't just go over my head and feed it to my kids. He said "Go get me the research and I'll look it over." And so I did. (Needless to say I didn't find a whole lot so I changed my mind).
It's not about the shot or whatever topic. It's about really delving into your spouses concerns and doing much research to make the best choice, together.
A couple is a team. Gotta work together.
I'm also really curious about everyone who says "You should break up" "He should break up"... Like what's the longest they've been in a relationship? Cuz to make it in the long hual takes a lot of consideration and communication.
some people are too far gone the rabbit hole... you only had one foot in it... she's drowning it. this is where it leads: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tb2mD3ddMxA
Um, what? It is his body. He can do whatever he wants to it. You don't control him.
Sure, but you could say the same thing about doing heroin, cheating, steroids, having a mullet... Any number of harmful things.
It's his body his choice, but it's her choice who she wants to date.
(Ps, I love mullets, but some people don't, and that is their right)
@Lost_in_the_Woods yes that's true. The same thing for people doing heroin, cheating, steroids, and having a mullet ( I also love mullets lol). Those people doing those things are doing it because it's tgeir choice. Others can try to influence the choice and get them to change their mind, but ultimately it's their choice. Even if it's something bad. And yeah, it is her choice who she wants to date. If she doesn't like it, and they are that different, maybe she should find someone else
If you don't want the vaccine that's your choice not one other person in the world has to ask your permission to vaccinate themselves because of your "research and opinion", you sound like an overbearing and controlling girlfriend and I'm sure your boyfriend could do better.
Remember your body, your choice. His body, his choice.
If you're set up for long term, it doesn't work this way. If they had kids, there would ve war between them. In a long term relationships couples have to take in what each other has to say and communicate a lot. Couples need to be team members. From what she said, he just did what he wanted instead of really looking at what she's read and didn't talk with her about her concerns..
@Kells321 kids are a different story but ultimately they are 2 separate people, who can make decisions for themselves.
Being uncompromising isn't how long term relationships last. Long term relationships have communication, consideration and patience.
If it bothers you that much, then y'all should probably break up. The fact he is claiming moral high ground but refusing to actually talk about it is pretty indicative of a sh*thead you don't want to be around long term, too.
If you come to conclusions of breaking relationship at small things and also asking other what you should do.
You are still immature and need to learn to adjust and patience in relationship.
it's your right to decide wether or not you wanna stay in a relationship with anyone...
i mean i totally get you. i wouldn't want a girlfriend that takes this poarticular vaccine. i am no anti vaxxers. but with more than enough evidence for blood clots and possibility to inhibit fertility, i think everyone that gets it now is jeopardizing their future family plans. it would be smarter to wait as corona has already proven to be not particularly dangerous if you're under 70.
Leave. He's right, it's his choice. It's also your choice to find someone who hasn't been injected with spike protiens. Who knows what it does to offspring? Find someone who pays attention to real science.
So you're a Dr with a PhD and decades of experience? Or by "research" did you mean reading stuff on the internet that agreed with your misunderstandings and ignorance?
Break up with him so he can find himself someone with a fully functioning brain.
wtf is it with your generation. christ if you're willing to break up over something as stupid as him getting a shot which he has every right to do since it is his body then do yourself a favor and don't get involved with anyone or be in any relationship because you're still to immature and not mature enough or mentally or emotionally ready to be in any relationship
"He said it's his choice, his body and he can do what he wants."
And he's right. Did he force you to get it? No? Then you have nothing to say.
The term moron keeps coming to my mind. As in you're a...
I mean her boyfriend is even more of a moron for getting the vaccine
@White_Boy_506 - You're a moron for saying so. Fukkin idiot.
Facts: Covid cases May through Aug 2021. 164M vaccinated.
Breakout cases: 7000, deaths 1500
Unvax'd cases: 2.3M, 332K hospitalizations, 32K deaths.
Do the math you fucking idiot. Maybe you could take up with the fucking moron that asked the Q.
This is what the world governments have done. They are dividing people even people in the same households and that is all part of the plan. Of course the shot is bad but you can't throw someone away because of a disagreement.
Honestly, he should probably be the one thinking about breaking up with you. He's right--it is his body and his choice. He is the only person who should make medical decisions for himself. It doesn't matter whether or not you like his decisions because being his girlfriend doesn't mean you're allowed to have any authority over him. It's ok to have your own opinions about the vaccine, but you should never expect anyone to agree with your personal beliefs or opinions.
He might wish he hadn't bothered after he sees this!
https://youtu.be/oroS8BMekcMIndia has ancient Ayurvedic medicine. They were way ahead of everyone , bar their Chinese neighbors for centuries.
WOW!! How can somebody DISLIKE a cure for covid? Is that you, Chairman Joe? If not, must be some corporate asshole that's afraid they'll lose money on their bullshit vaccines with this stuff around!!
I don’t say this a lot, but sweetie bless ur heart, I think you have more problems to worry about
While that’s cool and all I think it’s pretty silly of a thing overall. Especially considering how many vaccines we all gotten before anyway. One more won’t hurt too bad. Unless it’s been awhile since starting public school
Imagine if he really betrayed you lmao
Should HE break up with YOU because you don't respect his own decisions?
You may want to get a dog instead?
You have researched it? Where? Why do you care? It doesn't even affect you.