Is he controlling?

[Anonymous]

My Boyfriend doesn’t likes when I pass gas or when I burp in front of him. He tells me to go do that somewhere else, or he gives me this look like I’m disgusting. He makes me feel Bad in I go in excuse myself whenever I have to do that. I know I’m a woman I have to be lady but I feel like I’m not normal in sometimes I feel embarrass when I have to excuse myself from him without him being mean towards me. Should I have a talk with him in let him know that What I do is natural thing? Or just continue to excuse myself every time I need to do so?

[Anonymous]

That’s not controlling, it’s just probably gross to him to hear you burping and farting. In which case, maybe you (specifically) need a boyfriend that you can be more comfortable around. Personally I’d be in the same boat as your boyfriend, that stuff does get gross (and smelly af depending on what you eat) but if you want to be able to do that without feeling embarrassed or ashamed then he just may not be the guy for you..

[Anonymous]

Yes. In every healthy straight relationship I’ve ever seen (including my own) the girl always burps and farts a lot in front of the guy. And being a woman doesn’t mean you have to “be a lady.” Women actually belch and fart a lot more than men do, so it’s natural for us to pass a lot of gas. It’s a natural bodily function, and there’s more room outside of your body than inside of it.

[TommyMountainFigure]

With his high moralistic views does he excuse himself too, or as I suspect does he apply to the 'one rule for me, and another rule for you' school?

Yes he is to answer your question.

[Asker]

I figure he was moralistic cause he acts very boujie aswell.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Maybe we're all just perceived as commoners to him then. I suggest a couple of hard boiled eggs, so at least he'll have something to REALLY complain about when you let one fly!

[spartan55]

What a dick, and of course you just put up with it. The first time he said something you should have just laughed and farted louder

[Joshua0213]

Nah probably jsut finds it gross although I wouldn't say anything haha its kinda cute she would do it in front of me tbh

[Anonymous]

Cheat on him. That will teach him.

[Asker]

😂😂😂

[Avicenna]

He's not controlling