How long would you be prepared to travel for a long distance partner?

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midnightmoon05 · Accepted Answer

Depends.
If we are serious, did it till we moved in together.
I was in LDR for 4 years. 9 hr. drive and 1 hr. flight.
We just moved in together 3 months ago. Getting settled down then get married.

My sister married her LD. Was 6 hr. flight for 2 years. Married, still lived apart for a yr. He is moving here next month.

Everyone is diff. and every situation is diff.
A few must haves... love, money, time.

Distance doesn't break truth love.

My greatgrand parents were apart for 2 years. right after they got married. Only communication was letters. Their marriage last a life time.

If you have the right partner... all will work out. Think about that.. first.

hannahjo022 · Accepted Answer

I did with an ex for 2 years. They lived 10 hours away from me. It was nice to get out of state and visit a different state you are not used to. My ex and I would plan on vacations and meet each other there. That was nice too. My ex is in the military and had to move to Germany two years ago. We broke up when I saw his relationship status changed to a different girl than me. I was really heartbroken and upset since I spent money and effort in the relationship. I will never date long-distance ever again!

ZackBan · Accepted Answer

I am not willing to have a long distance relationship at all.

But I am willing to make the compromise of moving to the end of the earth to be with my partner.

Of course sometimes that's not possible in which cases I guess we have to end things like adults and accept that life doesn't always work out the way we want

TheorionMage · Accepted Answer

When my 10/10 companion wanted to attend a school in Miami FL I was prepared to relocate so as not to lose her, from Vermont. Its more than just a matter of lust... its life priorities when you find someone you want to grow old with ~

Dawnn13 · Answer

My current boyfriend is in the Navy and just moved to Japan, I live in California. I haven't gone to visit yet but once they open their borders I'll be visiting probably will only be a once every year thing.
But long distance sucks! Normally I wouldn't travel over 2 hours.

DizzyDesii · Answer

I've dated outside of the city/state/country plenty of times. But im so over that. I prob wouldn't go outside the south at this point. I have no intentions of moving up north nor west so whoever I date needs to at least be in a southern state that i can tolerate

SunnySensei · Answer

I know some people will not like my answer but I won't leave the place I have set up my life or have my job just to be with my long distance partner, Miss.
Although if it's for a holiday or few days I can go anywhere to meet them, just not stay there forever.

Screenwriter · Answer

Did it for several months with a spouse. Nearly ended my marriage. Would never do it again. It's foolish. There are plenty of people nearby.

just_a_potato · Answer

The furthest I'd go for someone is like 6 hours (about as far as I can drive) I wouldn't risk it on anyone out of the country I have a fragile heart lol.

Anonymous · Answer

did a thousand miles for 15 months... :) hopefully I won’t need to extend that and we’ll settle down together

EmbraceThePain · Answer

I could potentially travel anywhere for someone.  I mean, it really depends on the person.

Black-a-knese · Answer

Honestly 45 minutes - 1 hour and half, but she has to have a car and willing to make the same drive back.

imanf7 · Answer

I don't have a passport so I can't even if u wanted to

karaspara · Answer

No more than a 2 hour drive or just not feasible with my current circumstances

TacosRAwesome · Answer

If cheap airlines have direct flights I'd go. If I need more than 1 plane I won't bother.

Ayanna240 · Answer

Long distance really wouldn’t work for me unless he’s the ultimate one I wanna marry

Guanfei · Answer

If it was really serious, anywhere. I have nothing here, traveling the world for love isn't a problem.

NATRAL · Answer

As someone who did this.. 4,600 miles. Or from Michigan to Estonia

dray995 · Answer

Only cross country because it is too expensive to travel across the world and get a passport to do so.

msc545 · Answer

I flew from Los Angeles to Mexico City every two weeks for a year to spend time with a love interest.

Micky26 · Answer

I'd travel to the ends of the earth for those that I love.

ChocoBat · Answer

Whatever the hell it takes, I'll build a goddamn space ark!

Nick473 · Answer

I don't know distance makes it harder especially at the beginning

ThatNoUVAtYourEyes · Answer

The girl with the matching head size and eye colour - the globe

Luckycharms12 · Answer

It's very hard tbh I've done it before but if I meet the right person

splashmustache · Answer

If i fall in love so much i can move in with her if she is in another country.

Pax_eV · Answer

Minimum would be roughly a year and maximum would be two years otherwise I'm breaking things off at that point.

Anonymous · Answer

It really depends on the situation. I think 5 hours flight will be my max just because it would otherwise be impossible to meet each other regularly.

Anonymous · Answer

As many hours as needed to see him. BUT I need to know we’ll be together in the near future permanently

Sami28 · Answer

In my opinion if I loved her I wouldn't care the distance

SuicidalGuy1 · Answer

I'm doing a 2 hour time difference, only 4 hour flight

exitseven · Answer

I did it for 1500 miles for 3 years.

Anonymous · Answer

When his mom should die. She is old. hahaha

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn't want to travel out of the country. I think it would be just to much.

Alyssa11 · Answer

I wouldn’t be in an LDR.

Anonymous · Answer

Are you asking how long (in hours) or how far (in miles)? How long indicates time. How far indicates distance.

RaeShirley · Answer

Depends who it is and how much money I have😉

slatyb · Answer

When can we move closer?

najekim · Answer

Did it for two years, once a month or so.

EaterPeter · Answer

Less than 45 minutes one way.

iseekpinetrees · Answer

1 hr

iamkylie · Answer

It will be cool if i was there with you baby

Avicenna · Answer

Two hours max

humanearth · Answer

I won't do it

JosyJosy · Answer

An hour

Aziz1965 · Answer

Depends

Weater67 · Answer

15 minutes

Starwitch23 · Answer

No I can't do it.

Iron_Man · Answer

5 Hour Drive

akshay2341 · Answer

2-3 hours..

Anonymous · Answer

An hour.

Slim57 · Answer

30 minutes

Sketti2021 · Answer

Bout 5 miles

Sangyoul2020 · Answer

24hours

Diya010 · Answer

1 hour

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe 2 hours.

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