Truthfully why would a guy have loads of girl “friends”? (Page 2)

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My boyfriend has so many girl mates. His closest friend is a girl and he has loads of other girls that he’s very close with. They’ll message all the time and go out on one on one meals and for drinks and to the cinema and things- all which I’d consider date like activities. Does his desire to make loads of girl friends just mean he fancies them all or did at one point should I consider it as a threat? Because it’s making me feel sour about the whole relationship.

spartan55 · Answer

That's just fucking weird to me. Sounds like he is getting his backups lined up.

Aimée__LJ · Answer

Because that's just how it works out sometimes. Some people tend to get along more with the opposite gender. Have more in common. Enjoy the company more.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

That's what happens when guys stay on the market a long time. They gather a lot of orbiters.

This is why I I want to just find a girl I like, date her, and get it over with. (Easier said than done; I know.)

Citizenkirk · Answer

At the same time? What else is Gene Simmons supposed to occupy his time with, while between sets of "Love Gun💋👿💗🔫⛲?"

MountAverage · Answer

This might shock you, but it's probably because they are, you know, good people he can hang out with and be supportive of each other and have fun with? You know, FRIENDS?

zagor · Answer

Some guys just really like women. Not necessarily for sex.

Anonymous · Answer

it's normal for you to be insecure about it if he is doing that but it's also normal for him to have girl friends and it does not mean he has fancied them so don't consider it as a threat. If it is making you feel sour about the relationship you should tell him, don't make him stop hanging out with them because that's toxic but just mention your feelings and maybe see if it could be more of a group thing or that you could tag along occasionally.

IveGotNoName · Answer

I have a lot of guy friends (because I'm studying in a STEM field) but I wouldn't hang out with them one on one

Tomsta · Answer

Maybe he just gets on with women better. I have basically 0 guy friends, 99.9% of people id consider friends are all women

anylolone · Answer

Because he's more like the girls in interests, probably mentality. I really don't like dudes a lot, so most of my friends tend to be female.

nickaboy · Answer

Simple 2 options 1. He wanted to date but got friendzoned again and again and again. The ones he still considers friends are the ones he could live with not dating.  2. He gay

John_Doesnt · Answer

Because he knows they'll all get drunk and desperate one day.

qwert1234 · Answer

Is he like this before you met him? If so, why worry?

Browneye57 · Answer

He has a backup plan in case you don't work out. What's yours?

Surely · Answer

Maybe they like him because he doesn’t try to get sexual with them. Refreshing to keep sex out of the friendship.

Neosporin · Answer

I’m not sure either I mean girls are great as friends don’t get me wrong but there’s almost always some chemistry there too

Timatations · Answer

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Anonymous · Answer

I trust my boyfriend, I do not trust others… especially girls. Since when does a girl want to have a guy best friend? Never. I’m just being honest.

OddBeMe · Answer

For me, it started as learning about the opposition for dating purposes. Then I found chicks are cooler.

Guanfei · Answer

I always got along with girls more than guys. Of all the friends I've had in my life, probably 90% were girls.

Hillary86 · Answer

Maybe he grew up with them maybe he doesn’t have romantic feelings for them. I don’t sleep with my friends. I don’t crap where I sleep.

dolemite89 · Answer

unless they’re a childhood friend or he is gay, u should be very skeptical of a straight male having female “friends”. Any or them could be his plan b if things don’t work out between u two.

jamesgoldman · Answer

I used to have quite a few but then I was the guy selling Pandora charms at £10 each

Uptowngirl88 · Answer

You're too insecure and immature to be in a relationship.

Kelly6 · Answer

Some guys feel comfortable with having girls as friends not guys. it’s not counted as date.

Pj1981 · Answer

Girls look better, smell better, and guys don't like him. Just a guess

captain_voidwalker · Answer

Networking. The best way to meet girls is through other girls.

fred_durst · Answer

i think you should just ended up things with him , it is really impossible to build a healthy relationships without "TRUST"

Psychosocial · Answer

In my experience, people like that often have a cheerful personality, that attracts both men and women.

backblueblack22 · Answer

Yeah I would be worried too. Is your boyfriend a bit feminine?

Andreatheflyer · Answer

A persone who is not under your strict control is ALWAYS a threat. We can't trust in anyone or anything we can't control.

Marioz86 · Answer

I don't believe in women and men friendships if both are hetero. I banged all my female "friends" now I only have male friends 😂

KrakenAttackin · Answer

He is either a super-Simp or a Chad Thundercock banging these chicks.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Same reason why truthfully a girl would have loads of guy “friends”

Shy_Steve · Answer

He is player odviously and sounds like he isn't shy.

888theGreat · Answer

he dipping his piggly wiggly with many women and laughing at you with them.

This_Is_My_Opinion8 · Answer

Why not? I have girl friends. Not girl "friends". They are my friends and just that. Is normal.

he-takes-a-part · Answer

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R57777754 · Answer

Insert feel good diplomatic answer every party can agree with and doesn't upset anyone or rock any boat

Anonymous · Answer

I like being friends with girl. It make you gain different percpectives.

Asianguy123 · Answer

I would be annoyed if my boy friend has many girls friends. I will feel insecure

Anonymous · Answer

They are attracted to him. Either for looks, fucking, good bull shitter, sucking or for money.

On_cloud_wine · Answer

What’s his line of work?

Avicenna · Answer

Sounds like he’s stashing them for the future

pink_and_inlove · Answer

No man that’s a bit much I would be suspicious

SenseiSeptred · Answer

Some of them could be childhood friends.

ThatNoUVAtYourEyes · Answer

Probably money he has somewhere behind him.

TheAfrikan · Answer

Friends are not based on the sex they are.

EaterPeter · Answer

He may fancy some if not all

Anonymous · Answer

I just get along easier with women..

iBeowulf · Answer

Side chick question

rcljr · Answer

He’s gay

Anonymous · Answer

He is a simp or a joker

Fuentes · Answer

He's SUS

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