Would You Break Up With Your S/O If They Became Unattractive To You Cause Of Aging?

[Aphrodite801]

Has to be one of the biggest L’s you can take as a human being

Yes I would

No I wouldn’t

I don’t know

Updates

+1 y

Yeah tbh if they get fat af and just stop trying to look attractive to me all together I’m out ✌️

[TrueConfection]

Not necessarily. If he let himself go and sat in front of the TV in a recliner wearing wife-beater shirts then yes.

[Aphrodite801]

Lolol

[Buttonss]

I already don't find my boyfriend attractive so no that isn't gonna change anything.

[Aphrodite801]

Um…what

[Buttonss]

What's wrong?

[Aphrodite801]

Troll much? Lmao

[Buttonss]

Uh, why "troll", i genuinely dont find my boyfriend attractive because he doesn't try to be, lol

[Aphrodite801]

And why are you dating a man who you don’t want to have sex with and don’t think is attractive?

[Buttonss]

Probably because i used to find him attractive at some point and im holding onto that thinking he'll be attractive in my eyes again someday. He has potential but he doesn't even try

[Aphrodite801]

Wouldn’t be surprised if y’all broke up before you turned 18

[Buttonss]

We've been together for a year and a half, i wouldn't really breakup with him because of his looks.

[Aphrodite801]

Yeah but you’re clearly dissatisfied with him sexually so, yeah I’d bet the breakup before 18 would happen. Unless you say something so he can try to be attractive to you again. I don't know what’s up with you kind of girls who will date someone they don’t even like to look at, such big L’s.

[Buttonss]

As i said, he used to be really attractive to me. He stopped trying with time

[Aphrodite801]

As I said, that’s a huge L.

[Notstr8]

I chose C cause I like to be really honest but attraction is not just physical. A stunning woman can be repugnant and very ugly due to attitude or personality, I akso thing its part state of mind part sexuality if you have sexual connection it can transend looks and be very powerful. I am attracted to sexuality and this makes the individual very alluring when it clicks and that is mostly through dialogue and open expression of sexual freedom or the desire to be free and express it openly in your way which is to allow it to be seen. For a man to feel sexy is very powerful and something many men never feel. I went out to find my uninhibited and sexual right to find, learn and be comfy in my own skin I naver felt more confident than now and am very aware of it. I turned 52 in April but between us my refusa to act makes me seem younger so most have no clue but I like my age to some it may be creepy old maan but I dont care I do not seek youth nor is young my target demographic... it chnges! I have a broad pallet and like of many a feature so a wide net cast is a search for variety or is it choice not sure!

[DizzyDesii]

Cause of aging? No. I've been into this one childhood crush for about 20 years. He looks nothing like he did when we were kids and i hate that. But he's like the only dude i met so far that i’d be willing to love unconditionally. In my eyes, i’ll always see him as i did when we were kids. he's perfectly imperfect. Now as for anyone else, i won't leave em for aging. But if they just dont look the same anymore BEFORE we marry. Then yea i’d prob leave him

[JustinTimberlegs]

Damn, a 20 year crush, what a lucky guy to have someone love him that much. 🥺

[Aphrodite801]

You leaving them before y’all marry because they don’t look the same anymore because of aging…. is still leaving them for aging. How else are they gonna become unattractive

[DizzyDesii]

Im not leaving cause of aging. For example, if something happened to him overtime like he stopped caring about his health and gained lots of weight or if he got into some kinda car accident, i’m not obligated to stay with him. We aren't married. But i would wish him well

[Aphrodite801]

Ah ok

[PikNik77]

When you grow with someone you love, you hardly notice those changes. Grey hair, extra weight, wrinkles… time will do this to everyone, but real, active love blinds us to these changes in the most beautiful way. If you let go of a good relationship because of the natural course of time, you are a fool.

[Aphrodite801]

Calling someone a fool cause you didn’t age well isn’t nice

[drakethibault1]

I think you s/o age is just a reason for break up. What most of people don't understand that the core reason of their split is that within certain years of marriage they get used to each other and they start annoying each other, respectively. You might heard words such ' we lost the sparkle' or ' she is not that girl she used to be'
So, if that happens to me, I will leave, I wouldn't leave her because we got older together lol.

[silkjames]

Your still young I have a idea your next boyfriend just look at his parents that will be him when he old and remember lady's same for u to u get old look at your parents u can see your future looks too lol I'm ok I age very well bahaha lol I eat all my Wheaties 😂😂💪🏽🙅🏾‍♂️!!!

[SmokinAces2000]

If I was with them for decades I wouldn’t do that, that’s fucked up

[Aphrodite801]

It’s happened before 🤷‍♀️

[15_Debo]

Hey you gave Johnny Depp as an example?
He's just out of league!!
He is and was and will be handsome for ever...
And about ur question
the answer is no...
I wouldn't leave my partner just because he's aging and all...

[fr44c3iqqs]

If the change in appearance caused you to fall out of love, you were never truly in love to begin with, and you don’t know what love is.

[Aphrodite801]

Can you not tell people how they feel? Thanks

[fr44c3iqqs]

Sorry. But to answer the question, I wouldn’t break up.

[pillingsadness]

No ageing is natural and a part of life. Everybody ages, so it would be unrealistic and shallow not to expect that

[Aphrodite801]

And if they left you because you aged like crap?

[CordetteMonet]

No. I don't fall for people because of how they look. A person's personality is what draws me in, even if they are not physically attractive.

[Aphrodite801]

Ah, you are that’s why you type of women date ugly men

[dustybiker]

A real relationship is about so much more. People this happens to usually have a lot more red flags than appearance. Or the person leaving was always a cheater.

[dragoblack]

Depends. If it's toxic habits she complains about and doesn't work on, then yes, those kind of people will drag you down and put out their toxicity in other ways. If it's age wrinkles, then no.

[HighValue]

Aging? No.
They gain 100 pounds out of laziness? Yes.
They get tattoos and ruin their looks? Yes.
They cut their hair short and dye it purple/blue/pink? Yes.

[The_Outlaw]

If they turned into a psychotic cannibalistic serial killer, yes. Aging? No.

[PikNik77]

I love this response! 💚🤣

[The_Outlaw]

@PikNik77
Thanks!

[Whizzy83]

Love is unconditional. Facts

[Aphrodite801]

Nah not for everyone, with looks anyway

[Ironic_Method]

Nope. No reason to leave my waifu.

[Aurora1010]

I wouldn't

[Joker_]

Maybe

[Joker_]

Probably