How would you feel if your fiancé spends a night at her ex’s house? (Page 2)
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Ex fiancée.
I was an idiot. My ex cheated during the engagement with her ex. I was too stupid and too invested. I gave her a second chance and she started calling up her ex from university. Took me until the second call to figure out how hopeless it was. Filed for divorce after 6 months.
Don’t be a sucker like I was
How long does it take to sign some documents? At 3-4pm also…. Yeah shady as fuck. Take back your ring.
She also didn’t even tell you she was staying over because she was tired. She’s hiding something.
It was still pretty fresh when i posted this but I’ve thought about it this last hour and there’s no good reason that’ll make sense in this situation.
I’m just frustrated that i was so trusting and she threw away 5 year old relationship like this.
Talk it out
Dude, she lied. Not only that but I would bet real money that she has been getting banged by that guy multiple times per week for a long time. He's probably been hitting it more than you have. She thinks something about you is better for marriage but she's a cheating whore. She might already be carrying his baby for all you know.
Do yourself a favor and dump her.
She fucked him, plain and simple. If she was truly done with him and over him, she would have signed those papers long ago instead of now just getting to it and STAYING OVER AT HIS HOUSE. Just because she was sleepy? That is a massive pile of bullshit. That is your soon to be wife. Christ I would drop her right there.
I did that early in my new relationship and I’m a prior with friendzone an it aggravated heck out of them. I didn’t see the issue for way too long. Idiots…I just called your girlfriend an idiot as well.
She likely didn’t get it and may take a lot I get her there but keep working on her. I should have been paddled so try that w her. In effect… she’s being selfish and not considering your feelings. I’d affirm safety is number one so good to not drive home. Go to a hotel next time.
She's probably fucking her ex. The warning signs are all there. Certain women will just lie and deny straight to your face even when they know you've seen the red flags. If it looks like shit and smells like shit, it's probably shit. Instincts never lie.
Oh, she fucked him alright. Maybe it was a revenge fuck, who know. Why she stayed over is another matter. But no, this is just about as blatant as one can get.
Any woman can and will fuck any guy she wants, anytime she wants, any place she wants. Just ask them!
That's ridiculous there's no excuse for it she could have rented a cheap motel and called you and let you know regardless of whether she did or did not do anything with him that was very disrespectful.
to be 100% honest with you, i think it sounds super dodgy the whole thing, went too get something signed at 3/4, which takes about 2minutes! but then decides too stay and re appears at 10am next morning! dont want too burst your bubble or anything, but there's a high chance something happened! did they have kids together?
Ask for the wedding ring back and never look back. It’s so suspicious. Who the heck sleeps over at an ex’s house while engaged? 💀. I’m sorry but you deserve better love.
there's a 99% chance that Our relationship would likely be over
Im sure you dont watch Days of Our lives but last month, Ciara went to get Ben to sign the papers. She did this during her wedding week. He eventually kidnapped her and she happily fell in love with him. She was gettin laid instead of those papers getting signed
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Ummm she cheated don’t be a dumb ass , sorry to be so blunt but don’t ever fall for shit like that , dump her ass don’t waste your time , that is the lamest excuse what so ever , yea she got sleepy after he fucked get brains out
Not cool man.
She could have called you for a ride or grabbed an Uber.
Even If nothing happened, she should have respect for you to text you and let you know she won't be home.
Hard convo to have and she will more than likely be guarded about it, but it would be good to let her know how it made you feel.
You don't want to feel that weight on you going into marriage
The fact that she hates the guy yet spent the night at his is really weird to me. I don’t think you’re blowing it out of proportion at all. It’s also weird that she didn’t even tell you she was sleeping round until the next day.
could you answer some of the questions I have posted?
I am also looking for advice and support..
It's easier said then done. But I would tell my friend/kid/brother to leave that girl alone. Don't allow anyone to continually doing things to you that they know you don't like. The relationship lacks respect.
At least she didn't wait till you were married to let you know she's still banging the "ex".
There is a sea of red flags here. I would be extremely concerned, as in doubting marrying her. I don’t know the history, but I can’t imagine a scenario where -something- didn’t happen.
My alarm bells would go off. It could be harmless but I would not be okay with it.
After a lot of thinking. I’m done with it too.
I do not know how far away the ex lives. If it is more than an hour she might have a valid reason for staying. If you asked her straight up if they slept together and she said no you should give her the benefit of the doubt.
I wouldn't be okay with it. I wouldn't get passed it. I'd probably break up with her because obviously she doesn't care about how you feel enough not to cross lines like that, leaving you to wonder if she's been sleeping around on you.