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Well it's definitely my concern for relationships too. Hard to find a point to trying and then I really don't know how I'd be in months time during a relationship, but I'd rather break it up if I feel my initial feelings changing rather than forcing them. I've not seen any relationship around me where they don't end up just settling and it becomes a sad torturous thing mostly. There's always enough to make it worth it for them. It's just not what I'd bargain for.
Thats why nothing lasts as much anymore cause i will surely leave if the shit starts feeling like im forcing myself to stay
Nah I been going strong for about year and half. I woke up last Tuesday happy in life.
I got a hot girl. She's funny sweet. Ambitious opinionated. We rarely argue
I make good money. 2 cars , looking to buy a home.
and about year maybe 2 I'm gonna pursue my self employed dream job.
And maybe we can have some kids. I want 3 but well see.
Sounds like the good life
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It last about 2 years with my husband. It seems now that we go through phases where a small honeymoon stage pops up for a few months then fades off again.
At least it comes back and doesn't stay gone forever
Okay, I'm gonna be really real with you right now, Desi. This is your problem (but don't worry; it's not just you. A lot of other women do this as well.):
Your [collective, referring to the group] problem is you don't communicate. If you notice something that you don't like, you should speak up and say something about it. But instead, you just keep it to yourself and stew on the inside. That's why your relationships unravel. People will disappoint you all the time. All. The. Time. But the issue is what are you going to do about it? Do you "next" someone automatically if they annoy you in some little way? Or do you address the issue and have a mature discussion with them and express how you feel and give them the opportunity to correct the thing that you didn't like? That right there is the key. That is the difference between having a relationship that is sustained and long lasting OR having many short-lived relationships.
I didn't communicate back then. Thats how i ended up trapped. I've done nothing bu communicated since 2019 and guys get mad. Thats why nothings lasted more than 3 months. They can't handle the truth. Theybwant someone who will put up with the bullshit. So if someone annoys me, thats fine. But what makes me “next” someone is when i see we’re too DIFFERENT and i no longer see them in my future
@DizzyDesii So let them get mad. You don't want that type of person anyway; they're toxic.
Honestly i was the exact same as you! I worked on myself for a little while- had flings here n there but i feel like when you meet "the one" as such your don't get bored! I always thought there was something wrong with me until i met my boyfriend and the honeymoon phase hasn't left us yet! Just have fun and hopefully you'll meet the right one that'll keep you on your toes:)
Yea i didn't get bored. I noticed too many differences
With me it was probably three months or so. In my teens and twenties I definitely had no desire to marry or settle down, so I would eventually move on.
That changed when I was in about my mid-30s and started thinking that I should find a someone to spend the rest of my life with.
It took a while but you guys made it and are still going strong :)
Well, because we were living 2 hours apart for 4 years (started 5 months in) I would say it lasted 5 years. At which point we got married and started another honeymoon phase, soooo 6 years in total. Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
Ahh if only that was true for me 😂 Absence makes me lose interest. But so far, im still crazy about my crush so thats a start
I am glad to hear that. :) We would crave for each other when we were apart. The second I would step in the door he’d have me up against the wall taking my clothes off. The raw passion was amazing and exhilarating and it lasted.
I had girl friends who had boyf’s living a few hours away and they would impose sex restrictions for fear of it becoming a “booty call” and I always thought that was so stupid. Like if you want to f*ck then f*ck, if you don’t then don’t.
Guess what? They broke up; 20 years later we are still together. Imagine that. 🤔
Depends. For me I've had my share of lost interests. Been on both ends when a woman liked me I ignored her or I liked her she ignored me. Haha.
Sometimes, some people either choose to or feel they can accept, settling for someone that's less of staying with someone who's "close enough to perfection."
Or maybe it's just random. Or to avoid being alone.
Yea i rather leave then settle
Or stay single and enjoy life 😁 that's my storyline I've been writing and following all my life so far and I intend to keep on writing it and living it joyfully. Pure joy. Me myself and I 😁😁😁😁
30 days! Dayyuum. Like bored how?
Anyhow! My Honeymoon lasted about 2 years, like for real. The fun, vacations, she took me places, and vice versa and the sex was where ever, how ever. 30 days? Even i don't have a chance
I dont get bored per say but it only takes 30 days to know if i wanna keep fckin witcha
I wouldn't have sex in less than 6 months
4-6 years. I heard some claim that it should only be 2-3 max but I've seen longer. If I count all of the times I had the hots for a woman and then changed my mind tho... maybe we could say a week or a day? Ha. But I don't think that counts.
It definitely counts lol
Counts for what tho? If somebody had 1,000 one week relationships they can't take that and convert it into something useful. It's like being a kid in grade school being told to use red crayon in the circle marked 'red' and you do it 1,000 times. I don't see what people learn from it that they couldn't have learned once.
Im not saying the relationship wouldve lasted a week but your feelings may have
Well they didn't always know my feelings faded after a month or three lol. I have to make sure im ready to be live them before i agreee to be without them
It all depends if you have somebody that's on your same wavelength the honeymoon period could be indefinite everybody's always going to have their views about shit but as long as y'all can get along as people and significant other and show respect 95% of the time cuz some arguments get out of hand but as long as you love that person and that person loves you the honeymoon stage can last forever it's been people in history that have had a honeymoon stage for 73 years of marriage
Longest Relationship: 5 Months
Shortest Relationship : 4 Days
Honeymoon stage? Depends. If you say something really ugly it's DOA. I hate disrespectful people, I hate liars, and I especially hate cheaters.
Lmao DOA
i dont know and i personally dont go on dates unless i get ass first that dont mean i gotta get ass before gettin into a relationship it's actually better that ya dont as leadin with a commitment keeps most women from feelin insecure about bein ghosted after sex it's kinda like the gettin someone drunk whose never gotten drunk before strategy with alotta modern day women if ya lead with given em what they want it's most likely they'll do the same
the longest I've dated a guy was 2 months and half of that time was me just waiting for "feelings to start building up"... which it never did so it didn't last longer lol
Dang my feelings are up and then eventually go down
Average for most is 1-6 months, depending on how often you see each other.
Well, that's because the typical honeymoon stage IS actually about 3 months. It takes about 90 days to see someone's true personality and nature.
Damn literally didn't know 🤣
When someone just marry someone for money it fake and it lasts 1 night
Well thank goodness i have my own money
Zero days Desi... I hope at least a week when it comes ❤😉
You deserve more than that :)
It usually lasted a good long time. I have been married 25 years and some days it seems like we are just getting started.
Aww i love to hear that
Depends the relationship.. one was a few weeks.. and the one now I feel I am still on it lol. I find you need to be very adventurous.. and open to each other.. the more you are the funner it is
Yea im not lmao
No but im not into experimenting and stuff
I stick with what i know and what appeals
Where at? Cause im not lmao
I openly discuss everything as youve seen on here
I like how i look in it. But its not meant to turn me on. Its meant to turn him on
He stopped writing paragraphs to me after 8-10 months of dating so I guess that’s when it ended but he still says I love you everyday and stuff and he still treats me the same
Damn thats the longest honeymoon stage i heard of
It's always lasted for as long as I was ever with someone it never really faded.
Thats good then
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