Can a guy who is either heterosexual or bisexual and a woman who is heterosexual or bisexual be friends? Yes. One of my best friends is woman and I have never wanted anything more than friendship and same goes for her. We have been friends for 20 years.
I don’t understand it either. My wife doesn’t think I should have a friend that is a girl. I had to lose a lot of my friends. They were just friends. To me they were more loyal to me than my guy friends. I understand but I didn’t care about the guys that she had that were her friends.
Because men see everything sexually,(‘ Not their fault) it’s their nature, but women don’t, so women think they can be just friends with men but men don’t think like this which is understandable.
Probably because most people are abused and so end up abusing you as well. Their parents or sources of authority are nasty, they cannot get sex/form loving relationships with ease - so you might be better off staying away from them since there is a high chance they will sting you when they get abused next. For baby boomers, being an abusive bully is a matter of great respect, a way to demonstrate one is the authority. Completely moronic but also the way things are.
you are correct, I have had several friends in my life that were "women".. it never became sexual, I admit I always had fleeting thoughts that I never acted on... by the way... humans are animals too
You either want to be friends with the other sex or you don't. To each their own but I opt not to. I've had female friends in the past, I didn't enjoy it so I see being just friends as a waste of time.
Because men and women being friends would end up actually having feelings for each other somehow. just being too close can actually end up with them together in my opinion
@midnightmoon05 you sound like the chic who told my guy friend not to talk to. Me if this is kit (highly doubt it but. I’ve released karma and she Is. pissed and she’s coming for you)
@Otakugeek I don’t really care what others do… at the end it’s not I who have to deal with the drama. I have enough with my own. Trying to get that woman out of my man’s life who stole 15 years of his life away while she dates other guys and him babysitting for her kids and blab blab…
I'm not sure why there are so many questions about it recently, but I actually disagree with you. I don't think men and women can actually be friends. At least, I haven't ever seen it in my own life.
My best friend is a wonderful woman never been romantic of any kind. I do know more about her than I would like to lol but I wouldn't trade her for anything. she's like me but a girl version. Her boy friend is pretty cool and we get along great.
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Can a guy who is either heterosexual or bisexual and a woman who is heterosexual or bisexual be friends? Yes. One of my best friends is woman and I have never wanted anything more than friendship and same goes for her. We have been friends for 20 years.
I don’t understand it either. My wife doesn’t think I should have a friend that is a girl. I had to lose a lot of my friends. They were just friends. To me they were more loyal to me than my guy friends. I understand but I didn’t care about the guys that she had that were her friends.
Because men see everything sexually,(‘ Not their fault) it’s their nature, but women don’t, so women think they can be just friends with men but men don’t think like this which is understandable.
I wonder the same,
Probably because most people are abused and so end up abusing you as well. Their parents or sources of authority are nasty, they cannot get sex/form loving relationships with ease - so you might be better off staying away from them since there is a high chance they will sting you when they get abused next.
For baby boomers, being an abusive bully is a matter of great respect, a way to demonstrate one is the authority. Completely moronic but also the way things are.
you are correct, I have had several friends in my life that were "women".. it never became sexual, I admit I always had fleeting thoughts that I never acted on... by the way... humans are animals too
You either want to be friends with the other sex or you don't. To each their own but I opt not to. I've had female friends in the past, I didn't enjoy it so I see being just friends as a waste of time.
It’s almost always leads to that at some point or another though. Sure there are anecdotal cases, but we’re all primal in nature.
most of the people who say is NOT possible are the ones that never tried and the ones that have never had it, so... go figure...
Because men and women being friends would end up actually having feelings for each other somehow. just being too close can actually end up with them together in my opinion
It's not, the only people saying men and women can't be friends are guys who only know girls that only like doing stereotypically girly things.
Many see the opposite sex as nothing more than sex toys or money on legs...
See this is the problem. They are just humans and you are too not always about sex
I do not perceive those, who see the opposite sex as a sex toy or a moneybag on legs as humans. I see them as pointless biological waste generators.
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Put it this way. If I am dating my man. I would not want him to be your friend. period.
@midnightmoon05 you sound like the chic who told my guy friend not to talk to. Me if this is kit (highly doubt it but. I’ve released karma and she Is. pissed and she’s coming for you)
@Otakugeek I don’t really care what others do… at the end it’s not I who have to deal with the drama.
I have enough with my own.
Trying to get that woman out of my man’s life who stole 15 years of his life away while she dates other guys and him babysitting for her kids and blab blab…
I have many male friends and we don't fuck around. My best friend is male.
I'm not sure why there are so many questions about it recently, but I actually disagree with you. I don't think men and women can actually be friends. At least, I haven't ever seen it in my own life.
Because it pretty much always ends up with someone catching feelings and sex and then it becomes awkward and it fucks up the friendship
Because people cannot really speak for themselves if they cannot make friends with opposite gender
My best friend is a wonderful woman never been romantic of any kind. I do know more about her than I would like to lol but I wouldn't trade her for anything. she's like me but a girl version. Her boy friend is pretty cool and we get along great.
I don't know too. Seems like a lot of people here cannot grasp this concept of a guy and a girl just being casually, friends.
Because the sex part always gets in the way
— Harry, When Harry Met Sally
Right. I am friends with a lot of women. It's no big deal.
It's not I have many male friends and we are just friends