Yes, I have. The absolute biggest mistake of my life. She moved with her parents several states away. She was my best friend for 12 years. I should've said something, but it's too late now.
Maybe more crushing than actual love. If that's a sensible answer. That's the most for me. Crushing and crushing on her or a few other women, so far, and crushing hard 😅😅🙄
Whatever happened... does it remain in your soul to this day? Or was she nothing and you've moved after so long now? Just curious about long term ๐๐
@pickedcrisps I went away to school but lost my scholarship so when I came back i went to see her and made up my mind that I was going to tell her how I felt. We were supposed to go out and I had the whole speech in my head. I stopped by where she worked and I was going to give her a ride home (she did not have a car) and they told me she was not there. So I went to her house and her mother invited me to wait. A half hour later the phone rings and it is her. She tells me they had an emergency at work and she had to stay. I did not want to tell her that I knew she was lying because her mother was standing there. I left and never contacted her again.
Okay. Is she like a soul mate type memory or she's easily forgettable? I'm just trying to work out without opening old wounds emotionally, as to what she meant or what she means to you today in the present ๐ฎ
Damn. Was she that much of a looker or was it just literally love at her first sight? I'm just finally last question trying to figure out whether you had a pull with her from the start of intense love/lust at first sight or first interactions, or was this chick just something else less significant? From memory? ๐
@pickedcrisps she was really pretty and she was the first girl I ever really kissed. We hung out a lot for over a year. I just could never work up the nerve to tell her how I felt.
ฮt is none of their business what I feel or what I dont feel.
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I don't know if i was in love, but I've pushed away an ex i deeply cared about. we were only together three months. We never got to the point of saying โi love youโ. Broke up almost two months, still think bout him every day.
yup. I'm currently doing that right now with one of my friends. I absolutely adore him but he has no idea.
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I was completely smitten by this guy at school. I never told him. I dated his best friend a few years back and confessed then. By that point the guy wansnt that great anymore
My female co-worker (at a hospital) sometimes jokes that female patients weren't interested in me, while maybe despite me complimenting her I guess she doesn't know that I have a crush on her.
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Yes, I have. The absolute biggest mistake of my life. She moved with her parents several states away. She was my best friend for 12 years. I should've said something, but it's too late now.
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Living it
So what you going to do?
Nothing lol. He doesnโt initiate messages let alone a date
I will wait for my heart to let it go.. soon!
Yeah you deserve way better.
No because it's doesn't reach that state. If there is no relationship. Being attracted to someone isn't loving them.
Maybe more crushing than actual love. If that's a sensible answer. That's the most for me. Crushing and crushing on her or a few other women, so far, and crushing hard 😅😅🙄
Yes, when I was 16 I hung out with a girl. I fell in love with her and I was so shy around girls I could not tell her.
Whatever happened... does it remain in your soul to this day? Or was she nothing and you've moved after so long now? Just curious about long term ๐๐
@pickedcrisps I went away to school but lost my scholarship so when I came back i went to see her and made up my mind that I was going to tell her how I felt. We were supposed to go out and I had the whole speech in my head. I stopped by where she worked and I was going to give her a ride home (she did not have a car) and they told me she was not there. So I went to her house and her mother invited me to wait. A half hour later the phone rings and it is her. She tells me they had an emergency at work and she had to stay. I did not want to tell her that I knew she was lying because her mother was standing there.
I left and never contacted her again.
Okay. Is she like a soul mate type memory or she's easily forgettable? I'm just trying to work out without opening old wounds emotionally, as to what she meant or what she means to you today in the present ๐ฎ
Sympathies ๐๐
@pickedcrisps I still think of her when I go by some place we went together but I have pretty much forgotten her.
Damn. Was she that much of a looker or was it just literally love at her first sight? I'm just finally last question trying to figure out whether you had a pull with her from the start of intense love/lust at first sight or first interactions, or was this chick just something else less significant? From memory? ๐
@pickedcrisps she was really pretty and she was the first girl I ever really kissed. We hung out a lot for over a year. I just could never work up the nerve to tell her how I felt.
But a love at first sight or no? , Please? Very keen to know. ,
@pickedcrisps I don't know. I guess it did not take me very long to fall for her,
*sigh* yesss
never, no...
I only call it love when it's a matter of two...
if it is one sided, to me that's just infatuation
I've never been in love with anyone.
How come? Just haven't met the right person?
Basically.
Have you ever gave anyone a chance?
Yeah, quite a few people.
Hmmm interesting. Now have you gave yourself a chance?
No but I've wanted to fuck plenty women and not told them
ฮt is none of their business what I feel or what I dont feel.
I don't know if i was in love, but I've pushed away an ex i deeply cared about. we were only together three months. We never got to the point of saying โi love youโ. Broke up almost two months, still think bout him every day.
yup. I'm currently doing that right now with one of my friends. I absolutely adore him but he has no idea.
I was completely smitten by this guy at school. I never told him. I dated his best friend a few years back and confessed then. By that point the guy wansnt that great anymore
Wow.
@Sam_The_Savage Wowgirl actually
Hell yeah it's always @WowwGirl ๐
If he stopped being great, then you never truly loved him.
My female co-worker (at a hospital) sometimes jokes that female patients weren't interested in me, while maybe despite me complimenting her I guess she doesn't know that I have a crush on her.
My crush kind of guessed it. Bless her razor sharp perceptiveness.
No Iโve I've always told them when o feel that way.
Once but the person in question was already married with children, there was no way I would have broken that family's happiness.
I was for a long ass time. But I eventually told them.
Yeah I have my best friends I have feelings for him
I feel this. I can never tell my best friend (opposite gender) how I feel.
You can be infatuated and blind, but it's not love unless it's mutual